A high school girl about to graduate
2007-03-20 05:41:00 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
If you don't know whether you are engaged or not, you're too young to be engaged!
2007-03-20 07:19:11 · answer #1 · answered by Proud to be 59 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't engaged until YOU decide you are. If he asked and you said yes (assuming yuo are 18+), then yes, you are engaged, I would assume. But if he never truly proposed, and just sort of posed the question, and you never gave him a straight forward answer, then I would say no, you aren't. If you decide you are engaged, don't take any crap from people about your age, either. I was engaged at 18, married 2 months after I walked (although I'd graduated 4 months prior), and am happily married.
2007-03-20 05:53:58 · answer #2 · answered by jacksblog 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I wouldnt plan on getting married at your age. In HS. You probably dont even have your own apartments/house/stable job that could raise a family/ what about college?
When a couple gets engaged, the girl gets a ring. If theres no ring, theres no engagement! Sorry! If he cant afford a ring, how is he going to pay the bills when you get Pregnant and stay home? Ring first, then set the date and get the Hall.
2007-03-20 06:28:39 · answer #3 · answered by Mammamia3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's see. Since you are about to graduate from high school you have to have some brains. If you said yes then you are engaged. If you said no then you are not engaged. If you haven't given an answer then you are not engaged.
2007-03-20 05:56:32 · answer #4 · answered by kauai_lvr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in case you suggested confident, confident it does. no remember how previous or subsequently youthful you're you're nonetheless engaged. If he asked you for actual, no longer out of a playful way, yet with a ring, and a candy romantic little speech or some thing confident it does meam which you adult males are engaged. start up making plans the marriage sister. tell me how each and every thing is going, and approximately your special occasion . sturdy success ;)
2016-12-18 18:47:24 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends, is there a ring involved. As much as people say the ring isn't important, I kind of see it was sealing the deal. You can talk about it all you want, but the ring just shows you and the rest of the world that you are serious about making this commitment.
2007-03-20 06:00:49 · answer #6 · answered by Answer Girl 2007 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are engaged as long as you said yes to the proposal.If you said no, then you're not engaged.
2007-03-20 05:46:17 · answer #7 · answered by martini_40727 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say so but be careful, you are still young and need to experience life. When I was 18, my interests and personality has changed drasticly. What you like at 18 could be totally different later on in life.
2007-03-20 05:46:45 · answer #8 · answered by shelly63795 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you said YES, then obviously you are engaged. but if you said NO, then you're not engaged. you're still young. you gotta be careful with what you're doing. Marriage is a serious thing. goodluck!
2007-03-20 05:55:28 · answer #9 · answered by Chelsea's Momi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You are engaged when you have a ring AND a wedding date.
2007-03-20 08:42:22 · answer #10 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋