what wud my boyfriend do if he discovers i beat up a staff who i wrongly suspected was sleeping wit him?

Answer 1

I can only assume that most people posting who condemn you have not found themselves in a situation where they directly have to come face to face with a girl they believe to be cheating on their husband. I have has a go and tried to beat up girls in similar situations, sometimes rightly but not always.
If the boot was on the other foot and the guy thought the girl was cheating it would be another story. Quite acceptable imagine and I have to say I get quite a kick out of seeing a guy I am dating beat up another guy, especially when it is a matter of honour. Why is it wrong for girls to dish out the odd beating and for the rest of the world to accept we can occassionally get it wrong.
Going back to your situation, what worries me is that this guy is weak enough to let you feel insecure. That is unacceptable, his responsibility is to love, cherish and adore you. I could not stand anything less and would expect to spank a guy who does not display the right level of behaviour. I should never have reson to doubt him, this is just too stressful to deal with. If you feel insecure then I am sure you had a good instinct. I doubt you are with your b/f 24/7 and in many cases there is no smoke without fire if you doubt his faithfulness with a particular girl. Beating that girl up does not sound that mad to me even if it turns out to be a mistake - what did she do to raise your doubts after all? I would just ensure I make any b/f suffer too if I ever find myself in a situation of such doubt.
Good luck

Answer 2

What ever happened to trust? and respect? He will find out, and unless you can control your jelousy then you will ultimatly drive him away. I had a relationship with a girl that was like this really over the top I couldnt speak or look at any other female she went mad all the time, Crazy Crazy girl. In the end it just killed relationship and I ended up doing a runner(was only way I could get out!) If you want to make things work get your jelousy under control, sort yourself out and dont make your issues his.
Hope this helps

Answer 3

Probably;

1) Send you to an English language lesson.
2) Teach you how to use the spell checker on Yahoo questions.
3) Send you to an Anger Management session.
4) Send you to a psychiatrist.
5) Leave you.

Answer 4

omg, what have you done?
why? why did you beat up that staff when you cant even be sure that she's sleeping with him?
if your bf ever finds out, he'll be not only angry but also heartbroken that you've actually done such a thing.
and i guess you should know what he's going to do. i guess he'll leave you.

Answer 5

I would dump yo *** so quick id be out the door before you hit the floor!

what kind of phsycho beats someone up because they "suspect them"

youv got anger issues!!!!!!!!

Answer 6

He might suggest you look into anger management. It could do wonders for you. Seriously. Do yourself a favor and take the advice and a chill pill to go with it.

Answer 7

I don't know what he "wud" do but I "WOULD" enroll you in a spelling class. And for the record it's "WITH" not "WIT". Did you learn anything in school.

Answer 8

If I were he I'd dump you.

You have control issues. You have temper management issues. You have trust issues.

I'd be out of there in a heartbeat.

Answer 9

well you need to apologize to that person first before you tackle the issue with your boyfriend.
what made you think he was cheating on you with someone else?i agree with others about trust.but dumping is abit hasty for now.

Answer 10

Probably leave you...! Violence is never an excuse.... you really need to decide whether you are going to tell him you did this because it could be the end of your relationship.