me and my bf been together for a year now, but it feels like we've jus started goin out together..which is a good thing.. but i don't feel the same way i did when i first led eyes on him..now ever time he calls i don't feel like talkin to him.. he says i'm actin like a *****..is there something wrong with me r him ?..swat should we do to keep the love existing
2007-03-20 05:39:09 · 20 answers · asked by lillymila 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nothing is wrong with you or him, maybe you're just tired of the relationship. Do you love him? How do you feel about him when you look at him? You should ask yourself those questions. Maybe you've just been in a bad mood... or maybe you just dont wanna be with him anymore
2007-03-20 05:43:36 · answer #1 · answered by KillahKam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl you are lucky it happened after a year, sometimes that happens earlier than that. But im not sure the exact advice to give you. Are you sure you arent just hormonal or maybe even pregnant? Just a thought. But anyway, try dating again...yea midrelationship dating...to rekindle the flame. Or try taking some time apart. Absence makes the heart grow fonder
2007-03-20 05:43:29 · answer #2 · answered by BlackandBeautiful2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if your love for him is beginning to fade then just break up with him . There is no use in being with someone you don't love. You'll end up hurting them anyways. Lets say you meet this other person you reall care but you can't go with him cause your stuck in this loveless relationship and you would feel bad or guilty cause you cheated on the person you are with.
You are gonna hurt him anyways...so break up now before its too late and you can't.
2007-03-20 05:46:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all the name calling doesn't help. the newlywed feeling is over. you may still love him but men tend to get on our nerves from time to time. if you still love him and feel you love him more then a year ago then stop with the attitude. i know it is hard but i believe you can do it. MEN can sometimes bring out the worst in us you just need to have patience with them. Good Luck!!!
2007-03-20 05:44:56 · answer #4 · answered by mmh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't play the blame game. Both of u might be doin somethin wrong if the love's fading. Ask him what u can do to make the relationship better and tell him what u want from him too.
2007-03-20 05:44:09 · answer #5 · answered by *VS* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the same situation with my friend, who is a guy...
It seems as if I have an attitude all the time...I try to change it but it won't...gosh I need the answer to this also.
I don't like being this way toward him...
2007-03-20 05:43:09 · answer #6 · answered by i ♥þîÑk☆ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOu have to see why you dont feel that same way about him. give each other some space, go out with your friends alone once in a while, maybe that will help.
2007-03-20 05:42:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldnt have to keep love exsisting, Be truthful with him and tell him you are irritated by him. it will hurt at first, tell him if you wanna see other people. tell him EXACTLY what you want to do. Don't beat around the bush, it hurts a lot more for him
2007-03-20 05:43:37 · answer #8 · answered by Deformation Age 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be yuo have some anger that you need to take it out on him somehow. but u dont know how to DO NOT KEEP DOING THIS or you will piss him off one day and thats the begining of the end..!
2007-03-20 05:43:15 · answer #9 · answered by Dave 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why dont you feel like talking to him? sometimes is ok maybe you just talked to him or he is calling you too much? Do you love him? you didnt mention that in your messange and to be honest w you , it looks like you dont anymore.. maybe you need to move on....
2007-03-20 05:45:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋