the guy i am talkin bout hates it when i don't text or talk to him everyday i'm wondering if i just ignore him or not text for a few days will it draw him closer or farther away
2007-03-20 05:40:48 · 35 answers · asked by MARY M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He will probably go nuts! He sounds like he really likes you so just respond to him honestly by smsing him when you want to, not because you feel obliged to do so
2007-03-20 05:45:37 · answer #1 · answered by Cinta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds demanding and if he gets upset about that then he is going to get really upset if something more serious should happen. Like if you LOOK at another guy.
I wouldn't text him or talk to him for a week. Hopefully it will draw him farther away from you.
2007-03-20 05:44:23 · answer #2 · answered by 2shay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yeah do that everyone loves manipulation and game playing. You are so totally not ready for a relationship with someone nice if you would even consider doing these things for that reason.
If you would like to draw him closer how about being respectful of his feelings and acting like a lady? How about showing yourself to have integrity and dignity? Not as exciting as playing games but far more successful in the long run.
2007-03-20 05:44:53 · answer #3 · answered by QueenBean 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well, sometimes its good to play a push and pull game. You need to gauge the situation each time you play the above in a relationship.
Too much and too little can be good and bad.
You need to have a balance of both.
Hence, you may want to text him with mushy messages when you feel him drifting and being quiet when he showers his attention.
This makes a relationship exciting and allows both parties to work harder.
That's my opinion.
2007-03-20 05:49:17 · answer #4 · answered by Cool Dude 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will draw him farther away from you.....on account of he wants you to do it everyday.......you should tell him you are not the one to smother guys like that. Tell him just like I need my space you need yours. Im not gonna always be able to text you but, when I feel I need to, I will. He must be super paranoid or something...........
2007-03-20 05:47:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it will drive him away since he told u that he would like to talk/text u everyday. by u not doing so (playing games) he will assume that u are not interested in him they way he is in u and therefore look somewhere else.
Personal experience with myself! I looked somewhere else and said forget him. Why play games if u know what he wants?
2007-03-20 06:13:05 · answer #6 · answered by Ma Baby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is a certain in between that i think they like. don't call ever 30 minutes to see what he's doing, but waiting a few days makes him think you just don't care!! call a few times a day, and let him do the rest. if he's interested, he'll be texting and calling when you're on his mind! don't over think it, just go with the flow!
2007-03-20 05:45:28 · answer #7 · answered by Nikki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since he hates it when u do not text then it will draw his farther away from u.
2007-03-20 05:47:08 · answer #8 · answered by pOOhPhAT 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absence makes the heart grow fonder or so the saying goes. Sounds like this guy is real possesive and facts will prove that the real possessive types are sometime wife beaters and sexual abusers so be careful out there.
2007-03-20 05:44:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He is immature, insecure and controlling. Try not texting for a couple days. If he freaks out on you then get away while you can.
2007-03-20 05:43:33 · answer #10 · answered by Plasmapuppy 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋