Family & Relationships - 15 March 2007

Okay he was my first everything(Love,hug,holding hands,and my first kiss) I loved him so much.I was really good friends w/him for over a year.we talked 'bout datin' 4 'bout a month.we started datin' 'bout 5 or 6 weeks ago.he broke up w/me 'bout 2 weeks ago.after a week I got a new bf.(Lets just say its not workin' out)I can't stop thinking 'bout him.He had got kicked out of school last year so I Know its love cuz I went a year without seeing him but I still said I loved him.So how do I get over him?And do you think I can?

2007-03-15 07:31:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Recently I encountered an acquaintance I would see attending the same social events I was. No problem. Yet he began behaving rudely flirty which was very unwelcome.

He would not leave me alone. I made the choice to let him know to leave me alone. Twice I had this conversation with him that I did not appreciate his behavior...he still kept bugging me . . . So, I had to have a more clear, stronger message conversation to get my message across to him. Decent conversation...but also very clear of my thoughts.

When one or two others heard of this conversation I was thought to be the ' b*tch or 'overly sensitive woman. In my mind I was simply looking after myself and my personal space.

Why would some view what I did as being a woman looking out after herself and others see that same woman as being a b*tch or 'overly sensitive' ?
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2007-03-15 07:31:20 · 10 answers · asked by onelight 5 in Singles & Dating

So my mom isnt unreasonably overprotective but she expects me to call every hour or so when im out...im 14. And she lets me out on weekends with my boyfriend and friends and such and she asks me to check in every hour...perfectly reasonable except she refuses to buy me a cell phone. My friends get kind of annoyed when i have to rotate and use up their minutes between their phones. I just wish that if she expects me to check in, which is fine, then she could at least provide me with the things in need to check in. I overused minuter in 7th grade and thats part of her phobia of giving me a phone. But thats when i was 12. Its been two years and ive proven to be responsible when i use her cell phone. Sometimes she lends me her phone but she cant all the time and I dont expect her too. Its just I need some help convincing her to get me a phone if she's so insistant that i check in!

2007-03-15 07:31:09 · 13 answers · asked by your biggest fan 1 in Family

Cause i dont even know and i live in Steger....lol....

2007-03-15 07:30:45 · 2 answers · asked by teenagegurl1990 1 in Family

I am completely and utterly in love with this man. He's my best friend's step brother (and don't worry she's totally okay with it), but, I've told him I liked him, I eventually invited him to my birthday party with my best friends, and I sometimes IM him. He's got all the signs. He's jittery around me, he talks about anything and everything when I'm around, and he's invited me over even when my friend is not there. I can't tell if he doesn't like me or is just shy. It'd be much appreciated if a guy would give me their realistic opinion. I' like to know, because my birthday is next Tuesday.

2007-03-15 07:29:55 · 11 answers · asked by Nadia 2 in Singles & Dating

I married him while he was in prison and i found out he wasnt the person he was claiming to be. I have since moved on i live with another man and am getting ready to have twins with him. can some one give me some information on how to go about getting a divorce??

2007-03-15 07:29:38 · 16 answers · asked by bbw_angeleyes72 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Alright, what is the darn deal with this man/boy? How do I turn the tables around, where he can do the chasing. What works with a man that likes to play games and be in control?

2007-03-15 07:29:38 · 21 answers · asked by Queenie 1 in Singles & Dating

If you're young and have not had many sexual encounters and are in love with a girl (a new affair which has not been consumated), then if the girl has to be suddenly hospitalised and seen naked/ touched by male nurses/ doctors while caring for her in the hospital....... will that make you jealous and angry?

Do you think such medical care should only be undertaken by female nurses/ staff?

2007-03-15 07:29:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was on the Virginia State Police Sexual Offender website and my best friends boyfriend was on there for aggravated sexual battary and he is wanted. I never knew he was a sex offender utnil today. Well it said if I knew his whereabouts to contact the state police. She recently e-mailed me and said they were in Arizona. I have not heard from her in over a year until that e-mail. Should I call the state police and let them know he is in Arizona??

2007-03-15 07:28:54 · 8 answers · asked by Sarah G 3 in Friends

If you met someone online who lived in a different state and you guys really hit it off, would you travel to see them or move to be with them?

2007-03-15 07:28:47 · 24 answers · asked by crazycoolfootballchick 1 in Singles & Dating

i have this friend and she is hecka in love with this guy but the thing is i like him too and she knows that so she started liking him now i got a boyfriend just to get over him did i do the right the thing for a friend??

2007-03-15 07:28:42 · 7 answers · asked by devon a 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-15 07:28:38 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-03-15 07:28:30 · 3 answers · asked by Alvin M 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-15 07:28:18 · 5 answers · asked by luftdrachen2000 1 in Singles & Dating

Are you missing something in your life?

I never see myself as me. A part of me is always extremely careful, very critical of what I say and do. Whenever I talk to someone or meet new people, that part of me is looking at me from across the room. It doesn't allow me to live my life. It defines everything and labels things right and wrong. I never feel like I am actually myself. I feel like I am a reflection of others. My own mind prevents me from being happy. The pessimistic part and the irrational part sometimes takes over. There is always a constant battle. I'm 19 and I don't want to fail college. I'm not getting anything done. My mind doesn't stop. Something has gone wrong in my life. I feel like I'm on my own.

2007-03-15 07:28:13 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My ex bf Matt keeps talking about me to his ex gf Sara. And he is blaming me for every bad thing that happened between them. And its not my fault its his. And he keeps telling his ex gf that he's never going to speak to me again or anything. Why does he keep talking about me?

2007-03-15 07:28:12 · 5 answers · asked by Steph1490 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-15 07:28:12 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i'm 5'2 and everyone is taller than me. i just want to know if i'm doomed to forever not being able to reach the top shelf in the library.

2007-03-15 07:28:01 · 12 answers · asked by cajin_dreams 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-15 07:27:36 · 2 answers · asked by gilbertjuarez2000 1 in Singles & Dating

hi everyone,
i'll start by saying that i feel really stupid.i was going out with a guy for a year.He was shallow and very jealous.Always wanted me to be with me 24/7.He didn't like the fact that i saw my friends once a week and so i stop seeing them in order to not have an argument.
Always calling me selfish.He bought me 2 presents in the first month and after that nothing.He counts how many time phoned him and see him.Dosen't like the fact i work a lot.I'm pretty but he thinks that most of my collegues has a crush on me.He always told me the way he show his love is trough love making and making supper when i visit him.We almost never went out.He whould make a scene when a guy loocked at me.I broke up with him( a week ago) and he didn't react.So am i stupid for still loving this guy??(i need honest opinion from guys about this type of men and guys act this way??)

2007-03-15 07:27:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-15 07:27:25 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how do you get over someone you truly cared about not so much loved but really cared about

2007-03-15 07:26:21 · 3 answers · asked by ReSa 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend e-mailed me wanting some help. She tells me that her son's relatives want to take him on a Disney Cruise. The problem is the cruise is during the first two weeks of school next year. She doesn't want to be the bad guy and say, "Sorry he can't go," because they've already gotten the tickets. What can she do to make everyone happy? She's tierd of fighting with them.

2007-03-15 07:25:43 · 13 answers · asked by brwneyedgrl 6 in Friends

Do you think this is true?? How do you start to love and figure yourself out?? I'm frustrated because I'm having a hard time finding myself.

2007-03-15 07:25:11 · 4 answers · asked by xoxo 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-15 07:24:43 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have been together for about a month and a half. I know he is REALLY into me wich is great cuz I am really into him too. To be honest, he is the best guy I have ever dated! :) Everything I would ever want in a man.

One thing that is confusing me though... Sometimes he tells me he loves me. But I don't know if it is an "I love you" or more of a "luv ya"... Last night when I dropped him off at his car when he was getting out he kissed me and said "love you baby", then today he sent me a text message and at the end of it he wrote "love you babe".

My question is do guys throw around the "L" word? Or when they say it do they really mean it?

I have not said it back to him because to be honest, I don't love him YET. I can tell I will, but I personally need more time. Is it rude not to say it back? Should I because I know I am heading down that path or keep my lip zipped for now?

Thanks :)


He is 23 I am 21.

2007-03-15 07:24:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-15 07:24:36 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

see i just told a boy i liked him and he said he liked me to. then his sister told me he doesn't like me, because i'm a tall skinny wanch. but me and his sister don't get along. so the same day my best friend asked him does he still like me. he said yes, but he doesn't want to go with me,because me and his sister don't get along. so that means he still likes me but doesn't want to go with me. i just don't know i'm so confused!

]help, my heart has crashed and died.

2007-03-15 07:24:15 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-15 07:24:11 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay well i'm really confused...I guess...I have been 'talking' to this guy for almost 2 months. Ya know, he's asked me to come over to watch a few movies but everytime something has happened so I had to cancel. He's not the kind of guy that would pressure you into anything so don't worry about that. Oh i'm 16 and he's 17 btw. So about a month of just 'talking' he asked me to be his girlfriend and I told him not yet. Well about two weeks ago, he brought it up again, and asked why I wasn't ready for a boyfriend yet. I didn't know what to say to him. I like him A LOT!! And I really like being with him, it kinda seems like we already are, so why do I have such a problem with being called his girlfriend? It just doesn't make sense...Can anyone help me with this? Lol because now it's really starting to kinda bother me. Thanks

2007-03-15 07:22:56 · 15 answers · asked by Katie 3 in Singles & Dating