Family & Relationships - 15 March 2007

We dated for 2 yrs. Things were good initially. In this period i was cheated on, lied and disrespected. He broke up and got back with me a couple of times. Finally I moved on with someone else. He made me break up with the new guy in my life. I did it for him . My ex wants me back and promises to treat me right and also is willing to marry me and speak to my parents. He is treating me exactly the way i wanted all this time and is keeping me really happy. Will he let me down again??? Is it just time before he reverts back to the old himself cause im available once again. Please tell me. Am i gonna end up hurting myself all over again? Is this just a dream??

2007-03-15 23:37:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

all about the kayani I wana know.

2007-03-15 23:35:46 · 3 answers · asked by mskeyani 1 in Singles & Dating

I think of lines I'd like to try
For that day that I will die
I'd like to say them from a cloud
As I wear that final shroud

We all do know that day will come
That we'll lie down, are days are down
We'll see our life before our eyes
We'll shed a tear, and then some cries

I always wondered how I'll be
For that day, that he calls me
Am I ready for my fate
As it draws near, I want to wait

I'll look around and try to see
Who's really there, and there for me
Cause all my life, I have had friends
Lets see who comes, as my life ends

Then I'll close my eyes, my final breath
My body warms, I feel my death
Will I see lights, or be it black
No matter what, I wont be back

2007-03-15 23:35:37 · 13 answers · asked by gary_b04901 1 in Friends

Why or why not?

2007-03-15 23:34:52 · 19 answers · asked by Claudia 1 in Marriage & Divorce

A previous question led to this one. I simply asked if it was possible to love two people at one time and if it was possible to love someone for one night. And if it wasn't love because who's to judge what true love is. Can you look at two people and just tell if they're reall in love? Sometimes you can tell they're extremely attracted to each other, but no one can judge how much one person loves another. There exists no LOVE METER.

Anyway, some of the answers were ofensive, some told me that I have no idea what love was and to not just stick my penis anywhere. I'm engaged and I love my fiancee. Supposed I was single and I did think I was in love with two women, what's wrong with that if they were aware of each other. I've dated several women at times who knew I was seeing other women. So when someone asks a simple question don't get all offensive and assume they're in the situation when they didn't say they were.

2007-03-15 23:34:39 · 1 answers · asked by mmatthews000 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-15 23:34:27 · 7 answers · asked by charlotte 2 in Singles & Dating

I feel like i am not being treated 100% the way i deserve and i want to see what other people male or female felt at the time of a relationship breakdown. Did you initiate the breakup or was it by the ex partnter or was mutual? What led to the break up?

2007-03-15 23:33:59 · 7 answers · asked by Dimi 2 in Singles & Dating

I cant stand the emotional torture anymore. I have to get this person off my mind and out of my head. Yet im having a hard time, the not knowing kills me, how do i stop thinking about it?

2007-03-15 23:32:43 · 9 answers · asked by alt 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband has deep anger problems I think they come from growing up or whatever but he needs to get them sorted, he has agreed to start a programme called preditory men (its for all angry abusive men etc) but im not sure if he is just going because I have asked or if he realises he has a problem.
I told him our relationship is over until he can sort out his problems (i will support him during this) then maybe we can think about our marriage once he is better, but he says he will not go to this programme at all if i cannot give him a definate answer of us being together or not, why can he not understand that I need to see changes first before I can trust him again, and if he wont go on these terms does he not even care about going at all? is he just agreeing to this to get into my good books again? I dont know what to do, I dont feel I can give him another chance until I see an improvement in his behaviour if there is any at all, am I wrong for being like this??

2007-03-15 23:32:22 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok so about 3 weeks ago a girl from church stopped talking to me.... we were starting to become good friends but like i said things got cold turkey real quick. i asked her why we stopped talking and she never answered until just a couple of days ago, she told me she just had been busy with college and work and all that , she told me that she didnt forget about me and that she missed talking to me , she has a bf but they dont see each other much , umm do you think she might have something for me or no chance she just wanted to get back in touch with me and has been just busy? i know this is a stupid question but its a question none the less, and maybe some of you girls know about this or have done this before and its because you have missed that one other guy besides your bf that you possibly could see yourself with...... what i didnt add before is that her bf and her had broken up before because he cheated on her , she took him back ummm its all i wanted to add....

2007-03-15 23:31:28 · 2 answers · asked by Cj 3 in Singles & Dating

We have been seeing each other for nearly 4 months. We met on a dating site about two months previously. We took it slowly at first. I've been hurt before, and I admit I'm insecure and find it hard to trust.

Things have been great lately and he's started referring to me as his girlfriend. We went away for a weekend and had a great time. I started to feel close to him.

However, I had a problem with the dating site so I had to log back in as they were still taking money from my card even though I cancelled the account about 2 months ago. I saw he is still logging in regularly. It did my head in and so I asked the advice of a friend. She said I should create a profile and see if he gets in touch. I shouldn't have done it, but I did. And lo and behold, he added her to his favourites.

Of course now, I don't quite know what to do next. I can't accuse him of anything but obviously he's not as serious about it all as I am. Suppose it serves me right for sneaking.

2007-03-15 23:31:22 · 21 answers · asked by Picky Bird 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok so about 3 weeks ago a girl from church stopped talking to me.... we were starting to become good friends but like i said things got cold turkey real quick. i asked her why we stopped talking and she never answered until just a couple of days ago, she told me she just had been busy with college and work and all that , she told me that she didnt forget about me and that she missed talking to me , she has a bf but they dont see each other much , umm do you think she might have something for me or no chance she just wanted to get back in touch with me and has been just busy? i know this is a stupid question but its a question none the less, and maybe some of you girls know about this or have done this before and its because you have missed that one other guy besides your bf that you possibly could see yourself with...... what i didnt add before is that her bf and her had broken up before because he cheated on her , she took him back ummm its all i wanted to add....

2007-03-15 23:30:36 · 5 answers · asked by Cj 3 in Friends

2007-03-15 23:29:56 · 3 answers · asked by aNjAsMaRa 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-15 23:29:56 · 17 answers · asked by TOWFIQ 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Last summer I made friends with this girl. We worked together and had a really great relationship. I am 21 and am at college. She is 18 and at a boarding school at the other end of the country, and so I only get to see her during her school holidays. However I am still in touch with her by text messages and emails. At New Year she invited me to her party and we had a great time, and it was then I realised I was in love with her. The only thing is I am not sure if she loves me or not, and I want to tell her I love her, but don't want to ruin our friendship, what should I do?

2007-03-15 23:27:31 · 14 answers · asked by Matthew H 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-15 23:27:24 · 5 answers · asked by reezwan 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-15 23:26:54 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My son is 23, she is 26 and has 2 kids, she just kicked out her other man and took him to court for an avo. I know this is going to be a bad moved for him. My older son had a similar problem with an old girlfriend she was single had 3 children with different fathers, he was really hurt by her. Now I can see it happening again. What can I do, seems like nothing.

2007-03-15 23:26:44 · 3 answers · asked by chez006 3 in Singles & Dating

Dont be shy,answer whatever u want to tell.

[funny,horny,stupid,,anything!!!}



I just wanted to know what people's responses would be!

2007-03-15 23:26:17 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 29 and she is 24..... what age gap is perfect... and what age gap do you have with your partner.....?

2007-03-15 23:26:14 · 32 answers · asked by Fox Hunter 4 in Singles & Dating

my 7year old grandson shouted from the back door''grandad where are you'' i shouted back ''dont scream from the back door come into the living room where you can talk to me properly''he did as he was told and then said''grandad i have just trod in dogs poo where can i wash it off''
my wife was not pleased with either of us.doh.

2007-03-15 23:25:57 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Did you love someone once ?Did the comfort They give you stay deep inside of you? Are They still with you ? How do you deal w/ this? Could you talk about anything? What happened?

2007-03-15 23:23:15 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Do your feelings about your weight affect your relationship?

2007-03-15 23:22:18 · 3 answers · asked by blacksince 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been married for 5 years. Everything is great! He's really sweet... He has several qualities. But there's a catch... We havent had sex in the past 4 months. Everything seems the same. I know for a fact he isn't cheating. He says he's just exhausted. I feel so "dissed" when I try to instigate it and he doesn't want to. I feel Im too young to give up sex (I'm 26). I'm really not bad looking...hmmmmmmmm. Serious answers please

2007-03-15 23:20:39 · 20 answers · asked by P E 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-15 23:19:56 · 22 answers · asked by dogs_golden 1 in Singles & Dating

i recently gave birth to a beautiful bby girl (1yr).. i kinda use her dad's name on her birth certificate..and now i wanna use my last name instead her dad's.. were not married ..it's my mistake to put the (dad) name on my daughter birth cerificate.. is it possible can i change her last name?

2007-03-15 23:19:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-03-15 23:19:00 · 11 answers · asked by manoj k 1 in Singles & Dating

Dirty or Clean?
There this boy i like and he so great to me but lately he has been doing dirty flirting with me by text messaging me saying he wants to do fings with me and what I have do to him. I got scared but played along and then he replied again worse than the text before because I didnt reply he texted back saying don't take me seriously. So shall i just play along or back off but his texts sounds so serious that he sounds like that he actually does want to do it!

2007-03-15 23:18:53 · 10 answers · asked by Miss_Party_Girl 1 in Singles & Dating

I find it very strange. I'm not so sure if they're OK in their heads.

2007-03-15 23:17:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

When I was at primary school I had a close friend who died in an accident..
In prep school, I had a close friend whom I lost gradually when we got into separate classes in secondary school..
After that I had a friend -I picked myself- who joined the same college with me & stayed with me like 5 years or so..then I started to feel she's hurting me & suddenly realized she wasn't a good choice but I was too weak to end our friendship all the past time..so, oneday, I exploded & ended it completely..some friends tried to get us together again but I totally refused saying " I don't want her "..
Now, I'm on my last year at college..I need a friend, but It sounds too late..everybody already has their friends from the first year & noone is looking for new friends..
Everyday I try to get a friend someway or another, but I fail..which makes me feel bad about myself..
Is getting friend so hard, or its something about me?

2007-03-15 23:16:06 · 9 answers · asked by Basma E 2 in Friends