I cant stand the emotional torture anymore. I have to get this person off my mind and out of my head. Yet im having a hard time, the not knowing kills me, how do i stop thinking about it?
2007-03-15 23:32:43 · 9 answers · asked by alt 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try to stay busy, it will still catch you though. The thing with love is there are no brakes, you cannot just suddenly make those feelings stop. You have to follow your heart.
-NmD!
2007-03-15 23:36:10 · answer #1 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no easy answer to this one, because most of what people will tell you on here, you've thought up yourself.
No matter how good someone may be with women, sometimes getting a new person isn't just that simple. It's normal to think about it, and possibly think about it alot.
There was one time I was dating 6 girls at once,... and yes they were aware of this and I'm sure I wasnt the only one some of them were seeing. Either way, I was in your situation and i met other girls and tried but it took a year to get over a girl I was in love with.
Remeber the word reseilience. It means the ability to readily recover from dissapointment or loss. Going out may be helpful. Meet some new people, not just for dating but just to meet new people. I spent a lot of time writing, so that might be helpful to you too. In the end, you'll learn something from this and your next relationship will be more rewarding.
2007-03-15 23:43:12 · answer #2 · answered by mmatthews000 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HEY, I BEEN THERE BEFORE, I KNOW EXACTLY HOW YOU FEELING.
JUST DON'T DO ANYTHING "STUPID". AND DON'T STRESS A LOT*
FIRST OF ALL: TIME will make the pain go away*
stop listening to slow songs*, anything that would remind u of them*
avoid *Romantic movies* *love stories)
hang out with you friends.
always keep your mind busy*
trying liking other person* try to find something good in other people. talk a lot with other people.
2007-03-15 23:41:49 · answer #3 · answered by S. 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Try to avoid being near the person, and things will get better in time. There is no real remedy for heartbreak, but eventually you will find someone new.
2007-03-15 23:40:09 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go on a holiday to Hawaii somewhere relaxing.
2007-03-15 23:36:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
move on, let go of the past. everything has a reason, theres someone much than him/her, worth of your love. don't waste youre to time hurting yourself coz you cant help thinking of him..just let your love go, be free.. enjoy life, have fun!!
2007-03-15 23:41:25 · answer #6 · answered by iya gurl* 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well loving is natural,like some one else so you will try and forget him,if there are any misunderstanding clear them out .
2007-03-15 23:37:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Find a new love.
2007-03-15 23:35:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it happen to me one time.. sorry if this hurts but if you want that disturbance not to grow bigger... stay away from her.. this may be a little ouchy.. but if you felt that feeling that you dont want to lose her.. dont believe in yourself.. its just your conscience hitting you.. if you go on.. that'll hurt a lot believe me..
thanks and good luck..
2007-03-15 23:41:56 · answer #9 · answered by cuztikdevillE_28 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋