Last summer I made friends with this girl. We worked together and had a really great relationship. I am 21 and am at college. She is 18 and at a boarding school at the other end of the country, and so I only get to see her during her school holidays. However I am still in touch with her by text messages and emails. At New Year she invited me to her party and we had a great time, and it was then I realised I was in love with her. The only thing is I am not sure if she loves me or not, and I want to tell her I love her, but don't want to ruin our friendship, what should I do?
2007-03-15 23:27:31 · 14 answers · asked by Matthew H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask her if she has a bf. if yes then she doesn't love u.
If not ask her if she likes anyone.
if she says no then don't ask her.
if she says yes ask her how?
depending on what she is going 2 tell u then u can continue ur q.
And in the end just tell her that u with that u like her.
u r not sure, but u r thinking of her a lot and u miss her.
2007-03-15 23:34:55 · answer #1 · answered by iona 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you so sure that it is love and not a strong infatuation with this young woman? Could it be that because she is not so available that you feel you have stronger feelings for her than you really do? If you still feel the same way tomorrow then I think you should text her and ask her if she would consider taking the relationship you two have to the next level. That way, if she does not, or does, you will have the answer you need and can still be good friends because no feelings were hurt in the process. Some women are just not meant to be our girlfriend, and this could be one of those times. Good luck!
2007-03-15 23:35:35 · answer #2 · answered by dragondave187 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok let me ask you a question,,,,,, if you was to die today , would you regret not telling her how you felt and how much you love her?? i think you would, thats why you should firstly consider yourself lucky the fact that you still have the chnce to tel her how u feel, what could you loose, if it was a true friendship you wouldnt loose her just because ylou love her, ? so i thkn you should ceize the moment and live ech day like ur last, get it off ur chest, who ,knows she might even feel the same.
the point to my answer is that no one knows when they will die, so live each day like ur last, and do anyhing that you want to do, if it means telling the girl u love her, then do it, because hey, she might just love u aswel? you'll never know until you tell her !
2007-03-15 23:38:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance reltionships are hard to keep and stay true to. But I believe in love so I say go for it but you might have to prepare your s elf just in case it doesn' t work out. Does that help?
2007-03-15 23:32:19 · answer #4 · answered by ? 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 05:22:55 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you love her and put the moves on baby. Maybe you'll get lucky and spend hours of fun in her dorm. Lucky fecker you are.
2007-03-15 23:34:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she has given you any signs, I would go for the risk. I doubt it will spoil your friendship. Girls love that kind of ego trip and go around collecting potential suitors.
2007-03-15 23:31:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her, and explain to her that if she doesn't feel the same way it's OK because you don't want to lose her as a friend.
2007-03-15 23:33:55 · answer #8 · answered by James B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok my sister friend wanted to tell her he really liked her he was also afraid of losing the relationship . . they are still best friends...live 4 the moment and tell her
2007-03-15 23:37:35 · answer #9 · answered by Nefer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait it out..get to know her better...and how she feels about you... falling in love is one thing..it might be just a passing infatuation..keep it as friendship for now and see where it go...and take it from there..
I had it hard falling for my friend's brother...anyhow 20 years later...he doesnt make my heart flutter anymore...just like my older brother now...:)
2007-03-15 23:36:16 · answer #10 · answered by dewdrops 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋