Family & Relationships - 15 March 2007

I dont mean I have a bad marrage but me and my wife argue constantly. Some times I dont know what to do... But all I really want to get across to her is that I love her to death..She keeps on thinking that I am looking for somebody else but im not and its killing me to know that she dont trust me.....

2007-03-15 21:29:37 · 13 answers · asked by bigred091185 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Really what is equality to you? Should a man live in truck to pay support? Should a woman sell her body to make the same payments? How do the children benefilt?! Hopefully when and if my time comes I'll get a truly fair, just and equitable settlement that benefits all. Will you ask for what is only truly right or not?

2007-03-15 21:28:51 · 7 answers · asked by me 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm going out with this guy for four years and recently we went to his friend's 21st party. Well everything went well and his family also came along...how annoying. After we ate my boyfriend said he was going to buy a cola at the shop..and i didn't want to go coz he was only going to the shop. Then he left and i waited over 2 hours for him to return from the ...by the way he went with his car. People left and went home and he still didnt return. I then regretted not going with him. So i went home with his family..and he returned half an hour later. He told me he went to show someone his car..as they wanted to buy it. And it turned out to be a girl who was his friend in school. I got so upset,,,,what should i do?

2007-03-15 21:27:47 · 6 answers · asked by WHATEVER!!` 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-15 21:27:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok so about 3 weeks ago a girl from church stopped talking to me.... we were starting to become good friends but like i said things got cold turkey real quick. i asked her why we stopped talking and she never answered until just a couple of days ago, she told me she just had been busy with college and work and all that , she told me that she didnt forget about me and that she missed talking to me , she has a bf but they dont see each other much , umm do you think she might have something for me or no chance she just wanted to get back in touch with me and has been just busy? i know this is a stupid question but its a question none the less, and maybe some of you girls know about this or have done this before and its because you have missed that one other guy besides your bf that you possibly could see yourself with......

2007-03-15 21:24:01 · 9 answers · asked by Cj 3 in Friends

2007-03-15 21:23:59 · 10 answers · asked by sham 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a beginner and I want to know how you people do it.

2007-03-15 21:23:13 · 19 answers · asked by SinChkuDo 1 in Singles & Dating

I know most women prefer taller guys, but I have seen, in rare instances, where the bf is shorter than the gf.

2007-03-15 21:22:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-15 21:22:23 · 13 answers · asked by hoho 2 in Singles & Dating

What is the weirdest way a guy showed he liked/loved/was interested in you?


I got a guy singing UNBREAK MY HEART by Toni Braxton...

2007-03-15 21:21:11 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If your single with no children, please state that.
What do you think about dating a women with children.

2007-03-15 21:19:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

like hus-wife , mother-child

2007-03-15 21:18:56 · 10 answers · asked by deepak s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

see i like this guy an he liked me too..well thats what he said anyways...well anyways..he asked me out rite but im afraid of realtionships and geting hurt an all that stuff so i told him i was real busy all the time and then later on told him that i was afraid of realtionships and why i am...and he said that that was fine an that he understood.... but then after that happend i decided i wanted to give it a try with him... but know it seems like his not...idk i really like this guy but i want to know if i messed this up already with him before anything even happend with us...well anyways thanks alot
take care

2007-03-15 21:17:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If so, share stories and tell me how you felt about it. I just wonder because I am 19, and find myself continually attracted to older men... I need to know if I'm creeping people out.

2007-03-15 21:17:30 · 5 answers · asked by ssmith 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Specifically, mestizos from South America.

2007-03-15 21:16:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In my relationship with my boyfriend I thought I was the only one that was insecure. After 7months of being with him my security is growing and I no longer stress too much with my insecurity. It seems that my boyfriend is now like what I use to be, or maybe I never saw it before. Just a month ago we had a huge fight and it wasn't pretty, I realised that I needed to make some changes in my life, I started do lots of things during the week, I took up line dancin with my friends and it's great and now and then I make time to see my friends on the weekends. I've changed in a way and I'm not as dependent as I use to be towards him although I still see him every weekend even if it's just one day. My boyfriend seems to get insecure when I go line dancing and hang around with my friends especially when I got out clubbing. I've told him I'm not gonna do anything but it doesn't change the way he feels. He gets worried that I'm gonna find someone else, and he's just so scared of it. I love him and I wouldn't do that, how can I prove to him that I'm not going to do anything like that? I've even said to him, come along I'd love it, but he hates going out to clubs.

2007-03-15 21:15:46 · 15 answers · asked by Sheepless 1 in Singles & Dating

Ladies how would you react if somone u didnt even bother about, tells you that he loves you? som1 who looks physically stupid to you, or a guy that you cant imagine you can love... what would you say if he said that he loves you? would u turn your back? give him a chance? or just ask him to think of som1 else? or just say nothing?

2007-03-15 21:15:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know, it's not very good. I whiped it out really quick a few days ago. Can you give me some suggestions? Thanks.


i need a shoulder to cry on and a listening ear....
for my heart is so heavy with love,
and all i receive is
akward glances out of the corner of his eyes,
playfully trying to trip me as i walk by.
and he thinks i enjoy this behavior, but i despise it.
i wish he knew what i longed for.
i long for words, like hi, how are you?
i long for a smile, a smile that speaks when no words can be said.
i long for an arm to hold me as we sit and say nothing.
i long for a shoulder to cry on and a listening ear....

2007-03-15 21:14:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-15 21:13:56 · 11 answers · asked by rambo 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-15 21:13:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

been friends more than a year. yesterday i kinda asked few Qs. and she really sounded racist.so she asked me honestly to tell if she or not. i said yes u really sound racist
then she started saying " when ? how? when i said that "
she started the 5 hours agrument and she said she cant believe me. oh boy. she was mad as hell. never seen mad like yesterday. i said i was saying what i felt. u should appreciate my honestly. i had something in my mind. it turned out it was wrong. we'r cool now!!
she said no. she needs time to get over it
now im really speechless. dunno what to tell her
i do wanna be friends again. but without sounding desperate
i do wanna say sorry which i did. but it wasn enough
now if i ignore her im afaid she'll leave for ever

how i can say sorry to her without sounding desprate and without sounding like i dont care at all

TELL ME EXACTL WORDS!!! step by step
think of me as a boy who neva been with a girl b4
i really suck at apologies

2007-03-15 21:12:01 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I Just moved into houston and began to live with my long term bf. of 1 year and 3 months and I'm not sure how things are going... it's a big shock for us.. although i do have my own place I haven't spent the night there yet and i don't know how to take how he is acting... some days he is up and others it just seems like he just wants me to go away... i also haven't been feeling well and i work the grave shift so all i do is sleep and whenim not asleep im up feeling bad so so my additude has been reflecting that. I need to know how to talk to him because assuming how he is feeling is not getting me anywhere... there is a big age diff. between us... 13 years and he is preety set in his ways. How do I approciate the situation and ask him without seeming like i'm nagging him and also, should i start living at my own place it's been 12 days...??? help me!

2007-03-15 21:11:39 · 10 answers · asked by Ouchie girl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-15 21:10:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i know the e-mail id of one boy....he dosen't know me...i want to make him my mail-friend.....so shall i send him my first-mail to him.....?do u think it is right to do? if yes, then how to start sending him?(what to write..?)

2007-03-15 21:09:56 · 14 answers · asked by santosh 1 in Friends

how do like to engage a member of the opposite (or same i guess) sex for a bit of rumpy pumpy?

2007-03-15 21:09:01 · 18 answers · asked by Icarus 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-15 21:08:07 · 7 answers · asked by ILLput MY idONlaterWITHxox 1 in Singles & Dating

one of the popular girls (who has a boyfriend) thinks i am sweet and last night i went to this party and she wanted me told me not to be shy and to come and be with her.
i really want to but i am to shy, and i think my friend is jelouse (no clue why) what do i do i rather be the popular girls friend rather than the dork..... <3

2007-03-15 21:07:50 · 9 answers · asked by lol the perfect word Y 3 in Friends

Their biological father pays CSA but he's not wanted to know kids until he did start paying. He saw them for 2 hrs last week. Before that was months ago. My American husband is in the US and we're desperate to be with him. I'm at the lawyers on Monday but wondered if anyone here could help too. My kids are 15 and 12. And we're British.

2007-03-15 21:07:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I met that girl and we started chatting and joking. I was talking about my future plans and she was interested in that. She showed lots of care in so many occasions. All of a sudden i realized that she was into a realtionship with another guy for two years. I was so jealous about that. But once she opened up this issue, i talked to her and she became so happy that she was able to convince her that he really didnt love her, and that he doesnt deserve her. I felt so happy, we went out more than once, spent couple of days together, like the whole day. I love her so much, that i want her for me, i keep thinking of her all day, anything in life now just links to her in a way or another. I want to tell her about all this stuff but am afraid she looks at me from a different angle. She keeps joking about me and saying things, if she loved me she wouldnt say, but on the other hand, other words she says let me think that she likes me, am confused. shall i tell her now? wait? tell her on phoone?

2007-03-15 21:06:59 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He does everything that a boyfriend does. He even acts like my boyfriend when I talk about other boys. Does he just want to keep me right where he wants me? I like him but I know he's bad for me. I know I mean a lot to him but yet he doesn't want to get with me or even be any kind of physically romantic with me. But yes, we do hang out like boyfriend/girlfriend all the time. I mean, without all the sex and hugging and kissing. It's weird. I want to stop thinking about this person but their my everything right now. What to do?

2007-03-15 21:06:21 · 2 answers · asked by Ahmalya 3 in Singles & Dating