Ladies how would you react if somone u didnt even bother about, tells you that he loves you? som1 who looks physically stupid to you, or a guy that you cant imagine you can love... what would you say if he said that he loves you? would u turn your back? give him a chance? or just ask him to think of som1 else? or just say nothing?
2007-03-15 21:15:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Listen bro, before you go off doing something completely stupid. Listen up. Don't let the teenage hormones make you think that you live in a movie. She isn't going to fall inlove with you and see your inner self. So in other words. Don't go telling some girl that you don't even talk to that you love her because she isn't going to reciprocate the feeling you dig? Besides, if your thinking the way your sounding, it's just lust anyways, not love. Go whack off or something.
2007-03-15 21:22:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is my sincerest belief that as single people we need to take every opportunity to let the ppl in our live know that they mean so much to us. Time is a fast runner. You never know when it will pass you up.
I think that if a guy told me that (and I am single) that I would have to just stop and really listen to him, because I would know that it took some kind of courage to show his heart. Many men refuse to show that kind of courage for fear of rejection. So do women. Life is too short to let this kind of fear inhibit us. Some women are actually deep enough to look way beyond physical appearance of a man and see his beautiful heart! This is a fact! If they are not deep but just shallow, self-absorbed types, they are not worth your breath.
Be ready for any reaction, my friend. Be ready to be rejected flatly, rejected softly, accepted joyously or be for the first time recognized as an option to her. Love can be brave. In fact, true love is brave. Love with no strings attached and then you will not be actually setting yourself up for a let down. You have simply stated the way you feel about her. 'Tis okay to love and lose, it happens all the time. But, keep it up because some wonderful lady wil return your same feelings, friend!
2007-03-16 04:27:21 · answer #2 · answered by Hestynuster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There could be tell-tale signs that the girl loves you so you don't have to second guess. So long as she doesn't mind you physically I don't see why you should be overly concern about your looks. Have some self-confidence! Besides a person shouldn't like a person based on looks. Its the character that one needs to live with day-in and day-out after marriage.
2007-03-16 04:22:00 · answer #3 · answered by SGElite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep it to yourself, because things can turn seriously ugly for you if the girl is immature. Be sure if she likes you before saying anything.
2007-03-16 05:01:16 · answer #4 · answered by Mista R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its true that opposites attract. us girls we have a type that we want but its possible to get a girl to like you even if you are totally opposite to what she wants. we like being treated like queens, we need guys to show us true love. if there was two guys going after me, one my type but doesnt treat me like a queen, and the other totally not my type but gives me all the love i need, if the one who is not my type persists unfortunately he can win me. know how to play your cards right.
2007-03-16 04:23:05 · answer #5 · answered by sphe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ould tell him that although i am very flatterd i regret that i am unable to return the same feelings. although i would be more then willing to be friends.
2007-03-16 04:20:03 · answer #6 · answered by swanksarah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends how long iv'e known him,,,and if i liked him as a friend,,,,yea i'd give him a chance
2007-03-16 04:21:18 · answer #7 · answered by igottadrive2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no ! real love is unconditional
2007-03-16 04:19:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No
2007-03-16 04:18:19 · answer #9 · answered by iz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋