Family & Relationships - 15 March 2007

K how do I tell my boyfriend that I have been spending time with my friend Kris? The hard part about is I like Kris ALOT! Like I go to his house just about everyday after school and I go see him play in his band! Now the hard part about all this is me and Kris kissed the other night just before I left for home...I haven't told my boy friend that I did this so how do I?

2007-03-15 20:23:59 · 19 answers · asked by angel5469ca 1 in Friends

what does it mean when a guy asks you if you have plans for the weekend? is that hinting that they want to ask you out or just making small talk?

2007-03-15 20:23:29 · 23 answers · asked by aques 2 in Singles & Dating

I was under the impression that she loved me for me. Why when she left me for a more manly man, she said I loved you more like a brother? This other guy is bigger than me, Im not that small, just under 6 foot. I think he is 6 foot and has bigger shoulders. I was with her for 3 years! I mean come on? We got on great cause i have a good personality. ARE people really shallow in this world????

2007-03-15 20:23:27 · 13 answers · asked by stephen b 1 in Singles & Dating

I’ve been married to my husband Jordan for 3 years now (first marriage for both), since we were both 26 and it’s been absolutely amazing. The only problem we’ve had in all that time and it’s a reoccurring one is my friendship with my ex. My ex Jack and I remained good friends after we broke-up following a 3 yr relationship. My husband has never been able to accept my friendship with Jack because he’s convinced he wants me back which is just crazy. After a while I just got so sick of him going on about it that I only hung out with my ex when Jordan was away on business. I though this way everyone wins but I got caught. Last week Jordan came back from his business trip 1 day early saying he wanted to surprise me and found me and Jack playing around in our pool. Nothing ever happened between me and Jack while my husband was away or otherwise .My husband was really mad, kicked him out and has barely spoken to me in days. I’ve never cheated on him or anyone else in my life and he knows that

2007-03-15 20:22:52 · 16 answers · asked by Carrie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my ex and i were "together" though she was still with her bf BUT it was agreed that she was serious about me again and that they were breaking up asap.today she tells me that we have to stop cuz she can't be w/ the two of us cuz she can't cheat, that she's not a cheater and its unfair to all 3 of us, that its hurting her and making her upset.then said that she was going to break up with her guy asap and she just needs to be alone for a while because she's not ready.i've heard that before. in her words, we're just putting "us" on hold and that she'll come back when she's ready but we'll stay best friends like we were before we got back together. the past few days, all i heard from her was how happy she was that were trying again,how much she loved me, and how she wanted to be with me for a long time.she says thats still all true. the transition back to just friends is hard. what r the chances that she's telling the truth and will actually come back?

2007-03-15 20:22:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Guys, fill me in.

2007-03-15 20:22:02 · 8 answers · asked by ssmith 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm posting this for a friend.
I've been in love with someone for over a year now I was a patient of his and only seen him once a week and during the days I didn't have appt. he was on my mind 24/7 I'm not his patient any more for a couple of months now and I'am totally love sick I feel a deep lost and horrible pain like something died in me. I'm not exactly single, I'm with someone and have children, but we don't get along. what do you think about this.

2007-03-15 20:21:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

this gal says she loves me just after she came to know i am interested in another gal. She is nice and a regular gal with a job. She sent some of her naked pics to me and also comes on cam and does anything i tell her to do. She is very big compared to my body frame. I am not attracted to her. How do I dump her?

2007-03-15 20:20:39 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

DO you believe if your kind or give out kindiness it will come back to you? How do you know?

2007-03-15 20:20:00 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I got married 2 years ago. I have a 6 months old baby. I am feeling lack of love & attention by my husband though I know that it is just 'coz he's not getting time due to his office. He loves me I know but doesn't show it often.I think either he's shy or doesn't feel it important to show his love for me. Earlier in the very beginning of our marriage he used to do it but now no hugs, no kisses,no touch even. I observed that every time I have to begin to have sex with him. It seems to me that only I need it not he. After childbirth we didn't have any intercourse. I am feeling that perhaps his work is over & now he will do it only when he'll need another child. I feel life with him so boring & dry. He is a trustworthy person I know it that he won't go to another lady but the problem he doesn't come to me either. I think I am living with a workoholic. I am depressed. What to do to bring him back to romance?

2007-03-15 20:19:33 · 10 answers · asked by Tina 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i wanna know how 2 help my friend.she has a bf that beats her and he got her pregant.im only 13 but i know whats wrong and whats right.she bout 14.im scared 4 her.he slaps her around.she lets him do it 2.she doesnt try 2 stop it.how do i help her?i cant fight him he is bigger and stronger than me.

2007-03-15 20:19:26 · 23 answers · asked by janae_gaines 2 in Family

We dated for 2 yrs. Things were good initially. In this period i was cheated on, lied and disrespected. He broke up and got back with me a couple of times. Finally I moved on with someone else. He made me break up with the new guy in my life. I did it for him . My ex wants me back and promises to treat me right and also is willing to marry me and speak to my parents. He is treating me exactly the way i wanted all this time and is keeping me really happy. Will he let me down again??? Is it just time before he reverts back to the old himself cause im available once again. Please tell me. Am i gonna end up hurting myself all over again? Is this just a dream??

2007-03-15 20:18:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-15 20:17:58 · 9 answers · asked by john cena 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a online chatmate,we like each other,we had our instant connection,
Then one day I didn’t know whats on her mind,she tricked me,her friend pretended that she was somebody,but she admitted it,she tested me how honest I am to her,
She got upset when I talked to her friend online,of course I am so mad too because its not fair to test somebody like that,I have decided to stay away from her for awhile,she keeps on calling me saying sorry, sending emails apologizing,but I don’t talk to her yet.
Should I forgive her give another chance?Or forget about her?

2007-03-15 20:16:45 · 9 answers · asked by jewel 1 in Singles & Dating

my bf trys 2 show off n front of me.i dont know y.he thinks he has 2 act kool 4 me 2 love him.i like him 2 just b himself but when he is with his family he talks nasty 2 me like:''i wanna do u crazy''.''i wanna f*** u''.or i know what i wanna do 2 u what do u wanna do 2 me?'' i dont want him 2 think he has 2 act special n front of me.What do i do?

2007-03-15 20:15:36 · 10 answers · asked by janae_gaines 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-15 20:13:37 · 11 answers · asked by Virginia Y 1 in Singles & Dating

he's five years older to me. he has a girlfriend. yet he kissed me twice last week alone. he gave me my first kiss infact. why is he acting like this when he already has a girlfriend of three years??? does he reali like me, or is he just fooling around, or what?

2007-03-15 20:11:40 · 11 answers · asked by shushbabe_xoxo 1 in Singles & Dating

if the wife comes to know???

2007-03-15 20:11:09 · 10 answers · asked by shubha97 1 in Marriage & Divorce

she lives far from me and we sometimes make love on the phone.we mate a few days back and it was ok but for the last 5days i cant reach her in her phone and she hasnt contacted me through any phone and am so worried coz we have not even kissed could she have got another man?coz back home another gal wants me and she gives her wrong informations about me so that she can leave me.wat do i do coz all my drimz revolves around her even though we have not made love.

2007-03-15 20:10:50 · 8 answers · asked by sifa_kazungu 1 in Singles & Dating

The girl I have sorta been "seeing" latley has pretty much gotten attached to me I think and I never really wanted this to happen. What makes things worse is that I am much more interested in another girl, and this girl that happens to be one of her friends too...I know her friend is interested in me too but since their friends I do not know how to go about this situation. In the end I dont want her to be mad at me and I also do not want to try and ruin their friendship. Please give me some advice on what to do.

2007-03-15 20:09:10 · 10 answers · asked by renegade89 1 in Singles & Dating

I really, really don't want to be them girlfriend. But they don't listen what I saying that. I don't believe that's how can I have to get my 25 boyfriends?!? But I am just deaf girl and 15 years old. I know they really love me so much. I really don't know how to do what. Why many guys like me be like deaf?!?? Why?!?

2007-03-15 20:08:46 · 15 answers · asked by Stupid 1 in Singles & Dating

My son is basically an A student, every now & then a B or C sneaks in, but he always manages to pull the grade up. He gets up @ 5:00am and rides the bus for an 11/2hr to school. He is also part of after school sports. So on the days he has practice he is busy from 5am until 9pm. This is really the only constant issue he has with his teachers. However they are fed up and he needs to stop before they turn against him. Any suggestions on what to do?

2007-03-15 20:07:37 · 13 answers · asked by ugcj10 1 in Family

I wish someone had told me how much divorce costs. I wish someone had told me you have to wait a year in England to divorce. I wish I hadn't married. I wish I could just annul the marriage and go back to square one, but it's been too many years. I don't dare divorce, I think it will be hell. My husband is so insulting, mean, and worse than that. I want to keep away from him. It doesn't seem worth fighting, should I wait until the children are all grown?

2007-03-15 20:07:16 · 11 answers · asked by katy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Females during that time of the month are always so angry and moody. I would like to know how a man can better serve his female friend when she hits her time of the month. Sometimes I think I should try to comfort my girlfriend and just be with her but then ask myself if I should just leave her alone. I love my girlfriend and want serv her as best I can.

2007-03-15 20:07:05 · 7 answers · asked by Country Boy 1 in Friends

Why is it that my gf wont reciprocate anything I do? I do everything I can to make her feel like the most important soul on the planet, but yet she doesnt try to make me feel the same. Am I wrong, or is that totally one-sided?? I dont kno why girls want nice guys if theyre just gonna crap on them. >:(

2007-03-15 20:06:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

mine is Do guys hit on you? if she says yes , i say dont let no guy hit you, haha.

2007-03-15 20:05:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I stayed over at my bf house because his family had a late barbeque. But guess what my bf does? He decides to go out with his friends and leaves me at his his house! I couldnt go with him coz his mum is strict. So i stayed behind and slept in his siter's room ...thinking what a jerk my bf is to just leave me. And he onky came back home at 6 in the morning and he went to a club ...which he knows i hate. What should i do? And when he came in the morning i was awake waiting for him..and he came home drunk....and he says he loves me...i don't deserve to be treated this way

2007-03-15 20:05:32 · 4 answers · asked by WHATEVER!!` 2 in Singles & Dating

We have been dating for 1 1/2 years and haven't used condoms (I'm on the pill) for a year. Some days ago he confessed his undying love for me. He left for a trip and I found a condom in his bathroom bag. I let him know I knew and he said he was shocked to find it, had no idea it was there, and didn't think he even had any left anywhere. He took it out, but late placed another in a different bag which I found too. I asked him if he put the first condom in his bathroom bag and he denied with hugs/kisses. I know he put it in there, I am 100% sure it wasn't there before. I don't think he is planning to cheat on me given recent events, but I'm not sure why he had to have one/lie to me. Is it a guy thing to have a condom when traveling?

2007-03-15 20:05:05 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-15 20:04:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

First of all I'm the type of guy that will do anything sexually for a woman that I'm attracted to but....My new girlfreind has told me straight out that she doesn't enjoy sex unless I am totally aggressive and dominant with her...I've tried to fulfill her wishes but she always says I didn't go far enough for her...and the things that she has asked I think are too extreme for me ie. slapping her, ripping her clothes off, calling her very vile things and even spitting in her face on occation.......

I like this lady and outside the bedroom she is a very confident educated and professional woman...

Do you think that the things she is requesting are too extreme...
or should I just lighten up

Ladies what is your experience with being submmisive
And Men what is your experience with submissive ladies

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2007-03-15 20:04:24 · 5 answers · asked by HereForTheBeer 1 in Singles & Dating