i wanna know how 2 help my friend.she has a bf that beats her and he got her pregant.im only 13 but i know whats wrong and whats right.she bout 14.im scared 4 her.he slaps her around.she lets him do it 2.she doesnt try 2 stop it.how do i help her?i cant fight him he is bigger and stronger than me.
2007-03-15 20:19:26 · 23 answers · asked by janae_gaines 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Tell her father or her brother if she has one...He is a coward and a pu**y to be hitting on women, he deserves to get his a** kicked...
2007-03-15 20:23:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
YOu need some help to get her out of this mess- it's what a real friend would do. Talk to an adult or someone you trust to get your friend away from him and then get a restraining order against him or he will continue to come after her. She is only 14- she can defintely find someone who will treat her better. And if she doesn't care about being slapped around, make her realise that if she stays with him, he will hurt her child too. And that child will resent her for not protecting them.
2007-03-15 20:26:56 · answer #2 · answered by Guppy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Go to a responsible adult that you trust and let them know what is going on. Don't just let this go. Too many times people have let abuse go and your friend and her baby are in serious danger. If it is this bad now, it will only get worse for your friend and anybody else this guy ends up with. You don't want your friend to end up seriously injured or killed... I know it probably doesn't sound possible to you now, but this is how it happens. First he is slapping her around a little, next he is controlling every aspect of her life and they are in the house fighting with the butcher knife while her little kid is playing with blocks on the floor.
2007-03-15 20:28:24 · answer #3 · answered by ssmith 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Inform the world of this punk's activities. Spread the word that he is beating a girl. He is a coward and a punk, and most true men would kick his punk-a** just for GP (General Principle). I hate punks who beat on girls, especially if the female is underage. Let everyone know what kind of piece of s**t he is. That should do it. Most guys will come to her rescue, because they know better than to be beating on someone much weaker and smaller than he. That punk wouldn't be doing that to a man, I'll bet you. It doesn't matter if you like this guy or not, because to me, he is a punk. A PoS (pronounced: pause). Have everyone call him a PoS. I'm serious, that pi**es me off, royally. That is just as bad as a Chester (molester).
2007-03-16 04:16:53 · answer #4 · answered by fingerssfv 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no matter how strong or big a guy is if you kick him in the Balls it will hUrt. and after you do that tell your friend to get a life cause she is putting her life and the baby's life in danger, and stand by her, tell someone in her family she might hate you for it now but will thank you later when she has found someone that loves her and don't hit her. and ur friend is under age and if this damm sorry butt head is older that 21 he can be charge with rape. tell someone the police her parents or even yoUrs but get help for her. she is still young and does need ur help no matter what she says, don't back out.
Good luck to u and Ur friend.
2007-03-15 20:38:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is a coward and a big bully who needs help. Get a grown up help. Never tolerate any kind of abuse because it is wrong and no one has the right to do that to other person or animal.
2007-03-19 04:34:13 · answer #6 · answered by mothergoose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the next time you see him tell him you know but dont tell him what as to your friend she needs to know that if hes doing that right now what does she expect for the future and would she want him to hit there future kids too ask your councelor at school for some pamphlets Im sure they have some or a teen hotline it sounds like you need expert advise
2007-03-16 20:21:10 · answer #7 · answered by lizziemoffles 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait, yor ony 13 and 14!!! u REALLY need to tell someone, im NOT kidding! if he got her pregnant and is beating her you CANT do Anything, you need to get yor friend help right away, you could save her life, im not kidding! that guy needs to b Seriously punished and delt with, its for her own good, just go up to yor parents or an adult that u trust and look up to and slowly tell them all that has happened, im serious, u can change her life...this is serious, u r waaayyy too young to be dealing this kinda stuff, PLEASE get help, I pray for and wish u the best of luck and Courage...its not going to b easy but i know u can do it, yor friend needs u!...
2007-03-15 20:27:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should tell your friends parents. And your friend need to go to t he authorities and report him. It isn't much you can do. She needs to help herself as well. She needs to leave him, get a restraining order on him and never fall for him again. Anyways, how old is this guy???
2007-03-18 09:19:01 · answer #9 · answered by Jenny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to her parents or to a counselor at school. She needs help, and tho she may be angry with you for awhile, at least she will be alive. You can even report this anonymously if you don't want her to know you told anyone
2007-03-15 20:24:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your friend is obviously scared of her boyfriend and would like to get rid of him. Do her parents know? I would tell your parents and have them talk to your friends parents. If that doesn't work, your friend should call the police. This is serious!
2007-03-15 20:24:05 · answer #11 · answered by Batman 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋