First of all I'm the type of guy that will do anything sexually for a woman that I'm attracted to but....My new girlfreind has told me straight out that she doesn't enjoy sex unless I am totally aggressive and dominant with her...I've tried to fulfill her wishes but she always says I didn't go far enough for her...and the things that she has asked I think are too extreme for me ie. slapping her, ripping her clothes off, calling her very vile things and even spitting in her face on occation.......
I like this lady and outside the bedroom she is a very confident educated and professional woman...
Do you think that the things she is requesting are too extreme...
or should I just lighten up
Ladies what is your experience with being submmisive
And Men what is your experience with submissive ladies
Help
2007-03-15 20:04:24 · 5 answers · asked by HereForTheBeer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you both enjoy it and find it exciting there is nothing wrong.
As you described her confident outside of bed, maybe she need this change . Its not easy always to be strong;))
2007-03-15 20:28:47 · answer #1 · answered by cherry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, sounds like real drama. Looks like she enjoys being raped or something like that. Sorry I have no comments for this type of behaviour and maybe I will pray for you guys to be more mellowed and God fearing instead.
2007-03-16 03:09:07 · answer #2 · answered by Ashley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whooah freaky lol kinda like that girl on american pie that went to band camp.
2007-03-16 04:11:20 · answer #3 · answered by gangstawannabe1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look kiddo thats no extreeme i go even futher than that in bed wiz my gf so that a beginning
2007-03-16 03:18:51 · answer #4 · answered by antish_r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as this "bedroom" behavior does not effect your relationship, while you get to know each other and grow...then great....but, if this behavior domineers your daily life...I'd say RUN!!!!!
2007-03-16 03:09:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋