I have a online chatmate,we like each other,we had our instant connection,
Then one day I didn’t know whats on her mind,she tricked me,her friend pretended that she was somebody,but she admitted it,she tested me how honest I am to her,
She got upset when I talked to her friend online,of course I am so mad too because its not fair to test somebody like that,I have decided to stay away from her for awhile,she keeps on calling me saying sorry, sending emails apologizing,but I don’t talk to her yet.
Should I forgive her give another chance?Or forget about her?
2007-03-15 20:16:45 · 9 answers · asked by jewel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What your friend did was because she was insecure..she wanted to see if you really liked her and would be honest and loyal to her ...she did not do this to hurt you or even upset you ..and I am sure wishes she hadn't but can't undo what she did...I am not condoning what she did just trying to explain......I think she acted badly but is truly sorry for what she did ..she is making a large effort to show that,,.Would it hurt to give her a second chance ? I also will say I would forgive but not forget...I wouldn't totally trust her again yet..she would have to earn that back .. everyone deserves a second chance ..we all make mistakes..
2007-03-15 20:31:53 · answer #1 · answered by connie b 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How serious are you with this girl? If she's a potential girlfriend, you need to tell her to stop playing the immature games, that you don't have time for the games. If she feels the same for you then she will get serious and stop playing. Forgive her if you really care about her. Just stop conversing with other females on line:0) If you're feeling her, but don't think there's a future with her that just tell here you can only be friends and move on.
2007-03-16 03:35:08 · answer #2 · answered by berrymya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
both of you are cheating on each other so why there is a question of forgiveness coming in the picture, its better that you talk about it to her and if she understands its ok. otherwise there are lots of fishes in the sea.
2007-03-16 03:23:32 · answer #3 · answered by Sammy76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people get silly like that.especially girls. forgive of course
Its good to wait like you did though
never appear anxious
2007-03-16 03:21:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let it be like that for a short while then u forgive her
2007-03-16 03:48:30 · answer #5 · answered by antish_r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think both of you had not enough commitmet in your relationship. and if both of you really want this friendship, say apologize to eachother and forgive.
good luck
2007-03-16 03:25:18 · answer #6 · answered by *Grace* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is so unfair........your right...........i would talk to her and explain that is rude what she has done and give her the benefit of the doubt and move on.........................forgive but don't if she does it again..............
2007-03-16 03:22:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
forgive her.
2007-03-16 03:26:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
forgive her.........i think she really like you:)
2007-03-16 03:25:07 · answer #9 · answered by night_age_germany 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋