We have been dating for 1 1/2 years and haven't used condoms (I'm on the pill) for a year. Some days ago he confessed his undying love for me. He left for a trip and I found a condom in his bathroom bag. I let him know I knew and he said he was shocked to find it, had no idea it was there, and didn't think he even had any left anywhere. He took it out, but late placed another in a different bag which I found too. I asked him if he put the first condom in his bathroom bag and he denied with hugs/kisses. I know he put it in there, I am 100% sure it wasn't there before. I don't think he is planning to cheat on me given recent events, but I'm not sure why he had to have one/lie to me. Is it a guy thing to have a condom when traveling?
2007-03-15 20:05:05 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is hiding something from you...and you better find out.
2007-03-15 20:17:00 · answer #1 · answered by WHATEVER!!` 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe he feels that u being on the pill isnt protection enough...but dont see why he had to deny it all.
I would be surprised if i did find a man that did not have condoms around somewhere hiding in someplace. Its a guys objective to be ready &or placed in a position that they cant have sex cause a condom isnt around.
But this is kinda fishy, since yall have had sex without it for a year now....so make him use it, everyone of them u find!!
&one day u make a joke that u put a hole in one...&see if he goes pale. Say it doesnt matter since u on the pill...but if he is still pale or angry...then u know
2007-03-15 20:19:28 · answer #2 · answered by Phoenix21 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
FYI to begin...being on the pill doesn't mean you are "safe" from getting pregnant...the pill is not 100% effective and since he's putting condoms in his travel kit I would figre you would want to be sure you didn't get pregnant. Also the pill does nothing in protecting you against STDS and HIV which obviously you SHOULD be thinking about if he's carrying condoms when he goes out of tow. As for WHY he has a condom in his travel kit....you're going to have to ask him.
2007-03-15 20:10:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Nope, it's not a guy thing, unless your boyfriend has plans of getting laid, but not with you.
I think you should be careful with him, and you know what, from what you said, it's obvious he's hiding something. I mean denial with hugs and kisses is never a denial.
He is so sure you will believe him that he is not buying condoms from the place he will go to, no he is packing it with you around.
Again, be careful.
2007-03-15 20:12:57 · answer #4 · answered by peachy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think hard about this one kiddo. My assumption is, he is playing on your innocents and good nature. Surely in 1- 1/2 years he has gone thru his own bag. He knows what is in there. Follow your heart on this one. He has some explaining to do. Only , the truth!.....good luck.
2007-03-15 20:13:53 · answer #5 · answered by larry m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After 1 1/2 years you are still only dating? Red Flag #1
You do not trust him, so you go through his personal belongings. Red Flag #2
He lies to you. Red Flag #3
How many warning flags do you need before you see the big picture.
Good Luck!
2007-03-15 20:16:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Guys don't have to travel with condoms. Your BF is strange. Is he sharing rooms with a buddy when he's travelling? Is so, then maybe he's just showing off.
2007-03-15 20:09:34 · answer #7 · answered by justdennis 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That you don't think he's planning on cheating on you? Girl, by what you're saying, I think he already did. Be a bit more cautious. Like my grandma says, "No matter how much you love and trust him, always have that little doubt in your mind, because life is full of surprises."
2007-03-15 20:09:44 · answer #8 · answered by Cardiophobia <3 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ummmm...unless I'm single and planning to have sex...no.
Sounds strange to me. Are you traveling with him? If not, don't you obviously think it's strange for him to bring a condom with him? Sounds shady to me. Good luck
2007-03-15 20:10:40 · answer #9 · answered by WolfmanMason 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
In case he has the opportunity to score while he is away. He probably isn't planning on cheating, but if the opportunity presents itself, boys will be boys.
Be thankful he is prepared in case it happens, at least he won't bring home any new diseases.
2007-03-15 20:21:46 · answer #10 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he is cheating on you. or plans to. period. this is not a normal travel accessory.
think about things u use on a reg basis that u would pack:
toothpaste-yes
deoderant-yes
toothbrush-yes
shaving cream-yes
CONDOM-NO NO NO NO NO NO NO
2007-03-15 20:12:45 · answer #11 · answered by Not here 2 make friends 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋