my ex and i were "together" though she was still with her bf BUT it was agreed that she was serious about me again and that they were breaking up asap.today she tells me that we have to stop cuz she can't be w/ the two of us cuz she can't cheat, that she's not a cheater and its unfair to all 3 of us, that its hurting her and making her upset.then said that she was going to break up with her guy asap and she just needs to be alone for a while because she's not ready.i've heard that before. in her words, we're just putting "us" on hold and that she'll come back when she's ready but we'll stay best friends like we were before we got back together. the past few days, all i heard from her was how happy she was that were trying again,how much she loved me, and how she wanted to be with me for a long time.she says thats still all true. the transition back to just friends is hard. what r the chances that she's telling the truth and will actually come back?
2007-03-15 20:22:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she really wanted to be with me, would she risk letting me go, even temporarily? she told me not to go looking for other girls cuz she will be back. She wants to start our relationship off right she says. I really don’t doubt her feelings but I don’t know what I should do now. First I have to see if she really breaks up with her bf soon. Maybe if I get someone else she might worry I won’t take her back? Then I can see how she really feels? I don’t know. We were from dating to best friends to dating again and now to this. So...i admit this does put a strain on the friendship. The longer this crap goes on, the more I feel we may never actually get back together. I seriously thought she was going to leave him and that we were going to make it work. I can’t wait forever. So is her whole excuse bull? Or could she be telling the truth?
2007-03-15 20:22:16 · update #1
It's bull.
She's making you wait for her if her relationship with Joe Whatsit goes south.
She keeps talking about how happy she is that she's trying to make it work with the other guy? Take that as a hint buddy, you're waiting on the sidelines to be put into a game with other players.
Branch out and find someone else. It takes two seconds to dump someone; if she wanted him gone he'd be gone.
2007-03-15 20:32:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shes basically letting out her feelings like I did with my ex. He told me to move on and I have. If YOU think this is just a story shes saying the tell her to move on like my ex did.
2007-03-16 03:26:58 · answer #2 · answered by angel5469ca 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i suggest moving on with your life and don't wait for her . you wasted too much time with her already . you might lose the real love of your life if you continue to wait for somebody like her who doesn't seem to know what she wants
2007-03-16 03:25:35 · answer #3 · answered by asphyxia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might come back to you but she'll also go back to him.
2007-03-16 03:28:31 · answer #4 · answered by Rouzer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dnt lose ur time
2007-03-16 03:30:38 · answer #5 · answered by antish_r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋