Have any of you men (those in their mid thirties to forties) had a young girl attracted to you?

Question

If so, share stories and tell me how you felt about it. I just wonder because I am 19, and find myself continually attracted to older men... I need to know if I'm creeping people out.

Answer 1

I had a girl age 21 attracted to me (42) when I was the karaoke host in a bar in Washington state. She acted actually a bit below her age and therefore had no chance.

I dated a 19 year old in England when I was 29. That was good. But she was too immature to marry and bring home.

I guess what I'm saying is it's kind of a big step up for the youngest of the pair when dating May June. That doesn't mean it can't work. Realize most 30's and early 40's guys are looking for some stability and not a wild party. But we do want some sizzle or we wouldn't date young.

Answer 2

Too many times to count ! It should be an Honorable
feeling for an 'Older guy'! some of the Good reasons for
your 'Attraction' to the Older guy, maybe you'v had bad
experiences with much younger guys, they were to young
to show the respect that you were seeking. You may be
seeking the Financial & Mature Stability of an Older guy.
An "Older" guy say 30-ish, is not a 'Right-Off' for Boy-Friend material ! he is just 10 -12 years older than you!
Most 30-35 yr olds I'v met have a Good job, & are single
& "Shopping" for a Mature 'Smart' young woman, (single)
Like you ! Most younger, 20-25, are still 'finding' their
Way. Most "older" of Us guys 40ish to 50ish are more
'Uncle' Material to you, maybe 'dad' too. I prefer a Younger Wife to an Older wife, as long as she is Mature,
& is educated, & is Attractive! She must make me feel
Younger ! Most of Us 40 + guys are More Stable in all
area's . This may be what you Seek !
I hope you find a 30ish guy, otherwise employed
& maybe looking for you ! Go to your favorite hang--out,
& be a steady visitor, you Will find him ! Depends are
you Seeking a blue collar, or white collar ? You may find
either, at your Hang-out ! Good-Luck !!

Answer 3

lol well sweeted it , only naturl,,,. i had lot of young girls,, attracted to me,, ,, some was feelling .like they was not worth much in this life,,, so, was wanted a dad,,,,,,, some was, just wanteding some one to love them,,,,........for what every reason ,you have,, dont worried,,,as a older man,, we i guess you could say , we show love ,more than the younger one,,,,,an honest it a houner, to have a younger lady to fall for us,,,but i never will croos the line,, for i know feelling are realy for them, an i never want to do any thing to hurt them

Answer 4

i have, many times... and i can't share any stories on here.. :D

i love being attractive to younger women, and am not creeped out... ;)

Answer 5

No you are not creaping people out