hi everyone,
i'll start by saying that i feel really stupid.i was going out with a guy for a year.He was shallow and very jealous.Always wanted me to be with me 24/7.He didn't like the fact that i saw my friends once a week and so i stop seeing them in order to not have an argument.
Always calling me selfish.He bought me 2 presents in the first month and after that nothing.He counts how many time phoned him and see him.Dosen't like the fact i work a lot.I'm pretty but he thinks that most of my collegues has a crush on me.He always told me the way he show his love is trough love making and making supper when i visit him.We almost never went out.He whould make a scene when a guy loocked at me.I broke up with him( a week ago) and he didn't react.So am i stupid for still loving this guy??(i need honest opinion from guys about this type of men and guys act this way??)
2007-03-15 07:27:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this guy is wayy too insecure, you need to find a real man
2007-03-15 07:31:25 · answer #1 · answered by www.japanvideogames.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably don't even love him, you just feel empty.
You get into a habit and it's hard to break. Without someone there yelling at you, and calling you - you feel very alone even though it will be better than being with him.
It's like when you always put your car keys in the same place every day, and int he morning you go to get them and they are not there.....something just feels "off".
You have gotten so used to having him, that now by yourself you don't know what to do next.....find some hobbies, work out, meet new people, and reconnect with friends you may have lost during your relationship.
It will get easier with time!
2007-03-15 14:32:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not stupid, actually, you are very much the opposite. You finally realized HE was stupid, so you took a stand and broke up with him. It takes strength and courage to do this after one year. We get into a habit, and it's hard to get out. But you did it. Pat yourself on the back. But, do NOT go back to this controling man who will put you down the rest of your life. He is obviously insecure, and will not let you live happily. Move on to bigger and better things. Move on to a real man. A real man will let you be yourself. He will love you the way you are, and encourage you to be and do your best. That other boy, well, he's not the man.
2007-03-15 14:35:04 · answer #3 · answered by Mimi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is insecure to me. Any man that can take a girl out for fear of someone else looking has a problem within himself. His no reaction is common in guys, they tend to move on and not care more quickly than we women do. It sounds like you are successful and pretty, why do you want a man that is always being clingy. Be single for a while and wait for a confident man to come along.
2007-03-15 14:33:25 · answer #4 · answered by Queenie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
run girl....
he is a control/manipuative type of man...
not the kind you wish for a life partner ever !!!
i know, been there, done that....
you were smart to leave. eventually you would have looked into your mirror and you would not have been able to see yourself....
this type of men are 'joy/life' vampires....
they suck the joy and the life out of the one they are with....
then they have the nerve to blame the victim they are holding a virtual prisoner .....
you are worth a man who truly loves you
and love is unconditional...
always remember that
unconditional...
2007-03-15 14:33:59 · answer #5 · answered by gypsy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not about being stupid... you're not. It's about your choice to be with him... and I would say it's not a good choice to be with someone who is jealous, insecure, and has no interest in your feelings. Move on, and find a truly nice person! :o)
2007-03-15 14:31:59 · answer #6 · answered by JP 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not a man they don't act that way, you are better off without him.
2007-03-15 14:32:39 · answer #7 · answered by James B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋