Family & Relationships - 15 March 2007

Why why what happened between us?
recently me and my best friend had sex
we tried this to fulfil our fantasies. The moment i beg him to lost control (role playing) of himself to "roughen" me up .. everything went haywire.. i felt i was rape/humiliated and fighting for my life never been so scared in my life ..he was totally a different person(like a beast).. i guess it was a major disaster.. and after the whole thing .. i cried and cried partly coz i was bleeding and felt so dirty.. i'm shocked that he even cried too .. i'm not sure if he's really crying ...

does it happen to any of u in any role playing thing.. why is fantasy so much different from reality..

i'm not underage.
we are both in late 20's

2007-03-15 07:09:58 · 17 answers · asked by CT T 1 in Friends

I had a deam about one of my friends that I used to like. Well I don't like him anymore and he doesn't like me...that i know of. Ok well in my dream he like me and we were holding hannds and doing all the stuff ppl who are going out do. Well, I like another guy, but when i dream about him, his picture is fuzzy, and we never act as though we are going out. I see my other friend perfectly...is my dream or God trying to tell me something?

2007-03-15 07:09:19 · 8 answers · asked by tennis_chick52292 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been talking to this guy online for 6 months and want to meet him badly. Thru circumstances we haven't had a chance to meet...should i wait around and be understanding or forget it?

2007-03-15 07:08:27 · 9 answers · asked by ohellyesidid 1 in Singles & Dating

i was asked out by a morman gurl and not that i think religion should seperate people this gurl we will call 'A' for auguments sake is lovly but what are morman beliefs on relationships because i heard you cant have a girlfriend until your 16 is this true HELP PLZ!!

2007-03-15 07:08:17 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

According to my wife I'm the bigger baby because I hate going to the doctor. Yes it true!

2007-03-15 07:07:53 · 18 answers · asked by celticdragon 6 in Marriage & Divorce

first thing that comes to your mind when I say.
( asian)

2007-03-15 07:07:22 · 12 answers · asked by jessica c 2 in Friends

I have been married for 3 years, I have done everything from doing as he wants to forgiving him for things that another woman would of left him for. I am now to the point that I am so confused and now snapping at him for really small things. I feel thier is nothing left between us, I am ready to move on, but, I have no job and I live in a area that jobs are very hard to come by, I have 2 kids, no car, no friends that have room for 3 people, A mom who barely makes it on her own, etc... What can I do? What should I do? Should I stay for the kids? Should I stick with him until I can get on my feet then run? Please help! I am so confused and depressed, I feel like running away and leaving EVERYTHING behind and never return. ever. I am hopeing that your answers will help me and guide me to do what I must. Thank You.

2007-03-15 07:07:17 · 15 answers · asked by trekken85 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance is a very much a breast man. He is very respectful about it. He keeps his comments to himself, he doesn't do"porn" (or he keeps it well hidden) and he has a few old (1999-2003) Playboys under the bed. Last night we were watching T.V. and he commented (tastefully) on how much better the woman's cleavage looked tonight than it did the night before because she was wearing a different style of dress. I don't even rememeber WHAT she was wearing the night before let alone what her cleavage looked like. When I asked how my breast measured up, he smiled, gave me the thumbs and said "good". Just "good"? I'm big busted for my size (34D) but I've seen the woman he dated before me and I can't compete. He has always dated "bigger" women because they tend to have bigger breast. The first time he saw me naked he said I have "awesome" breast but that is the only time he's ever commented on them. When we go out, I try to wear clothes that draw his attention, but he never comments.

2007-03-15 07:06:36 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am not having shower and I think it is tacky to include the registry card in with the inviation. So can I put a card 2x2 white card that says "Please visit our wedding website" in with the invitation. That way people will know where we are registered and they can view our information, maps, etc. or would this as well be tacky?

2007-03-15 07:06:21 · 8 answers · asked by Lizzie 2 in Weddings

my self esteem is really low right now...i am an international student in singapore and i'm pretty alone. I have a wonderful girlfriend and I live with her... its great and i dont really have the need to have friends.. even when they call me out I dont wanna go.. but i feel there's something wrong in feeling that.. i dont have many friends.. and its really tough to get to know ppl.....
please .. i just need some assuring words and feel good about myself.....

2007-03-15 07:06:12 · 19 answers · asked by Nathan A 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, So I met this guy when I was about 17 yrs old. He was friends with my older sister, and he was about 26 at the time, a married entrepreneur. He took me out for fantsy sushi dinners,and spoiled me by taking me to exotic places. I thought it was all fun and games until I became pregnant. He did all the right things, divorced, bought us a house, etc. But even at this time I wasn’t even 21 yet. He came and went as he pleased. I dedicated myself to him and my fam I even wrked for him for free. He never would let me access any money without asking him, (hed always give it) he didn’t want me working, and seemed very controlling. I continued to work 40+hours a week for him for free for 4 yrs.
I ended up finding him talking to girls on the internet, we got over that.
I helped him quite using drugs, and partying, I got over that. I even caught him talking to girls at a Club we both worked at, completely inappropriately.

2007-03-15 07:05:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-15 07:05:47 · 23 answers · asked by A True Gentleman 5 in Singles & Dating

We have been together for about a month and a half. I know he is REALLY into me wich is great cuz I am really into him too. To be honest, he is the best guy I have ever dated! :) Everything I would ever want in a man.

One thing that is confusing me though... Sometimes he tells me he loves me. But I don't know if it is an "I love you" or more of a "luv ya"... Last night when I dropped him off at his car when he was getting out he kissed me and said "love you baby", then today he sent me a text message and at the end of it he wrote "love you babe".

My question is do guys throw around the "L" word? Or when they say it do they really mean it?

I have not said it back to him because to be honest, I don't love him YET. I can tell I will, but I personally need more time. Is it rude not to say it back? Should I because I know I am heading down that path or keep my lip zipped for now?

Thanks :)

2007-03-15 07:05:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Thats the vibe i get from this yahoo page. because when i was back home 11 years back, you could not even hold hands in public, let alone date someone or have sex with someone, that just did not happen.....so what is really going on there now, i'm curious...

2007-03-15 07:04:32 · 14 answers · asked by DesiGirl 3 in Singles & Dating

A friend of mine has been asked out and she doesn't have any experience and neither do I. So, I need to give her some advice and I'd like to know , guys especially, if you like kissing with a lot of tongue action or if lips are just enough. And to all the girls out there, what do you prefer and if the tongue thing is worth it let me know.

2007-03-15 07:03:24 · 22 answers · asked by diva 2 in Singles & Dating

I know she's a lesbian because she's said so many times during class. When the class first started she mentioned she didn't have a girlfriend and she would also look at me then. But this last Tuesday she said she has a new girlfriend but she kept looking at me throughout the entire classtime! I don't get it. If she has a girlfriend why does she look at me?

I'm not a lesbian but I have to admit I'm bi-curious. That's why I'm asking. Thanks.

2007-03-15 07:02:17 · 18 answers · asked by promiseitsnot_me 1 in Singles & Dating

Who out there thinks that what goes around actually comes around...that you can't treat people like crap forever and not have it come back to you??

2007-03-15 07:02:11 · 16 answers · asked by chica11 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a real problem my boyfriend asked me to marry me we already arranged the wedding (it's in a few months) and now he tell me he doesn't want kids at least not in the first 10 years! i don't want to wait that long i'm already 26 :( what should i do? should i cancell the whole thing ? P L E A S E help!!!

2007-03-15 07:01:59 · 40 answers · asked by katya 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I like this guy and he told me i could call him sometime or that he would call me... he has not called me yet...is it ok for me to call him?

2007-03-15 07:01:45 · 34 answers · asked by lala 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok so my BF and I are not ready to say I love you but we like eachother more than I can say....we both have very strong feelings for eachother. Gimme a word that can replace "like". Even if it is one u have made up lol. Thanks!

2007-03-15 07:01:37 · 22 answers · asked by supergoober 4 in Singles & Dating

9 years ago, my brother and his then current girlfriend had a daughter. Although they are not together anymore, I still try as hard as I can to be in the little girl's life, since I am her uncle. She is rarely brought over to our home, and she doesn't know us by name, only by the fact that her mom tells her I'm her uncle. Well, She recently started playing Baseball in a Kid's league, and I want to give her a gift that shows that I am encouraging her to play more, and to do things she loves. She also loves to skate, and I had bought her a skateboard for Christmas. I just want to know what I can get her to let her know that we care about her. I thought about a new glove, or a bat, but the fact that I don't know much about baseball, and what types are better, stalls me. What should I get her?

2007-03-15 07:01:15 · 13 answers · asked by Adrian G 2 in Family

2007-03-15 07:00:56 · 3 answers · asked by c_benson06 2 in Friends

i do love him but this other person does not care if hes married or not should i confront her. know where she works

2007-03-15 07:00:47 · 15 answers · asked by justbecause 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been with my husband for 8 years. he has been in prison for three years now. We have a son togother. i dont want to lose him but i know that i have to tell him but i dont know how. I was lonley and wanted attention. i dont know what i should do.

2007-03-15 07:00:46 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

that went to Broxton Ele. Schoolin the 80's

2007-03-15 06:59:50 · 2 answers · asked by sandy.d 2 in Friends

Im going to college to learn english, and this is my homework, to write thease numbers in words.Thank u.

2007-03-15 06:59:29 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay what do you do when your going with one person but your got feelings for another person. Is this wrong for me to feel like this. what should i do

2007-03-15 06:59:21 · 4 answers · asked by Mrs.Grandberry 1 in Singles & Dating

I can orgasm on my own but not through intercourse. I don't think it has to do w/ my partner. I enjoy it, I just don't get to that point. It has nothing to do with length of time it lasts either, that doesn't work and neither does a lot of foreplay. ANY ADVICE would help. Thanks.

2007-03-15 06:59:21 · 5 answers · asked by tawneelove17 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ever attracted to someone but pass it off thinking there probably..... whatever?

2007-03-15 06:59:15 · 1 answers · asked by ROCKET 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-15 06:58:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating