I can orgasm on my own but not through intercourse. I don't think it has to do w/ my partner. I enjoy it, I just don't get to that point. It has nothing to do with length of time it lasts either, that doesn't work and neither does a lot of foreplay. ANY ADVICE would help. Thanks.
2007-03-15 06:59:21 · 5 answers · asked by tawneelove17 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
its very common, you have to get to know your own body and how it responds to different forms of stimuli, experiment with toys, different forms of pressure and how it feels to you, then you can learn what works and what doesn't for you so that the next time you can easily convey this to your partner and have more enjoyment of of it...
2007-03-15 07:27:00 · answer #1 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is completely normal, I am the same way. I can do it fine on my own but with my man i just cant orgasm. And your right, I still enjoy it. I enjoy pleasuring him, kissing, touching, and intimacy. Its actually rather different and enjoy both in different ways. So why does it matter or not if you orgasm, your still enjoying it? right?
2007-03-15 07:24:30 · answer #2 · answered by TroubleRose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women just take a lot more to get off than others. If you can get yourself off, then maybe you ned to try a different technic with your bo. Experiment some. Maybe have him or you pick up one of those vibrators that you slid around his thing, You both may find it rewarding.
2007-03-15 07:10:21 · answer #3 · answered by golden rider 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just enjoy what you can. eventually it will come i would think. my girl girl had that same problem at one point, but after a while she started getting them. if you are already enjoying it, don't worry about it. the orgasm is just a bonus.
2007-03-15 07:47:22 · answer #4 · answered by donttrustsheep 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its normal
2007-03-15 07:06:20 · answer #5 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋