i do love him but this other person does not care if hes married or not should i confront her. know where she works
2007-03-15 07:00:47 · 15 answers · asked by justbecause 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
if you don't trust your husband, you shouldn't be married to him.
another woman can't break up a "solid marriage"... she didn't FORCE your husband to have a conversation with her, or cheat on you...
your husband made these decisions.
talk to him!
2007-03-15 07:11:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as women we do tend to attack the other women i am not saying what she is doing is right. it is wrong! but your husband is your husband. he is the one who needs to stop. he is the one you should be mad at. he is the one who could had made this all go away by not talking to her in the first place or not taking the calls. you get my point. I'm sure she is a ***** he cant be helping the situation either. i think if you do confront her you will only feed into her she will call more she will know she is causing trouble in a already trouble marriage. talk to the husband. try to make him understand. if that don't work then go talk to her because something else maybe going on.
2007-03-15 07:16:42 · answer #2 · answered by sassy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you do when he brings her back from overseas and divorces you and marries her? Oh wait--that is what happened to me.
Anyway, I wouldn't confront her. You will seem like the crazy, jealous wife and they will probably have a few laughs over it.
I would take care of it on your husband's end. Put your foot down. You do deserve to be treated with respect in any relationship and it doesn't appear that he is respecting you at all.
2007-03-15 07:07:41 · answer #3 · answered by intewonfan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No do not be and idiot---your issue should be with your husband not his whore. He's the one that vowed to be faithful to you on your wedding day. He's also the one that has broken that vow. Leave his mistress out of the equation.----why you are with your husband now, i have no idea. You should have booted his *** out the first time he cheated on you. ~once a cheater, always a cheater~
It doesn't appear as if your husband has any respect for you at all. If he did, he wouldn't be doing what he's doing. For your peace of mind, and your health, do not find out where she lives and do not confront her. It wouldn't be worth it in the end.
2007-03-15 07:40:30 · answer #4 · answered by Ghanaian Princess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't go over there and start "Raising Cane", or you'll get nowhere with this woman. You can catch more flies with honey....seriously. This happened to me, and I just approached the girl like, "My fight is not with you. He's the one with the committment to me. I just want to know the truth of what happened, what he said to you, did, etc.....and I'm not going to get it from him. How would you like it if this was done to you?" She sang like a bird. You need to be more ready to confront HIM. I placed most of the blame on my husband, because this woman owed me NO KIND of loyalty, but HE did. If he wants to do something, he's going to, and nothing you do can stop him. Let him know you're not comfortable with it, if he doesn't give a rat's rump, then THERE'S YOUR SIGN! Let her have him, and find yourself a real man.
2007-03-15 07:07:09 · answer #5 · answered by a_lot_smarter_now 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It takes two to tango. And that phrase is very true. Talk to your husband he has made a committed to you not that other woman. If he put the brakes on it there no reason to be bothered with her. Besides if you approach her first she might even go after your husband more aggressivley .
Good Luck!
2007-03-15 07:16:52 · answer #6 · answered by Tia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is your husband, he is the one who made the commitment not her. He is the one who is supposed to resist temptation..not her.
I think he may have feelings for her because why would he continue to keep in touch with her even after an affair? You might be better to cut your losses.
2007-03-15 07:22:38 · answer #7 · answered by swtlilblonde31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should confront both of them, together if you can. It does not make sense to just sit around and wait for it to get crazy, deal with the situation now!
2007-03-15 07:05:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about her, she's a skank whore. You just was well talk to dirt. It's your husband you need to worry about. Tell him in no uncertain terms if he is talking to his former mistress the marriage is over and he can look forward to child support and weekend visits to the unfortunate kids if you do have them.
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2007-03-15 07:06:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your facts are straight definitely confront her.
2007-03-15 07:11:10 · answer #10 · answered by m k 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋