Family & Relationships - 8 March 2007

UR ADVICE WILL BEWLCOME. WE HAVE TO ENERGISE OUR BRAINS ALL THE TIME TO REMAIN ALERT AND HEALYHY. THANKS

2007-03-08 00:57:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Can infatuation turn into nothing? I was completely head over heels for my boyfriend for the first 3 months. He could do nothing wrong and everything he did was perfect.

We have now been dating for about 6 months and I feel as though something is wrong and is missing. I have constant anxiety about "what if i am falling out of love with him." I dont trust myself. I dont know if its because I have been in dramatic/abusive relationships up until now but there is no reason why I could see I would be feeling this way.

All of my friends and family say that I seem most myself when I am around him. They think that this relationship is different from any past ones I may have had…..So I don’t know what that says….

I still enjoy spending time with him and being intimate with him but for the 1st 3 months I KNEW he was the guy I was going to marry and have kids with and now I cant say that anymore....

Am I commitment phobic, is this just my anxiety, or am I really falling out of love with him?

My ex who was a dramatic abusive partner may possibly still have a tiny piece of my heart but its been 2 years so I dont know why it hasnt gone away.

I want to feel the love I felt for him when we were 1st together. Can infatuation just end like that? There is nothing that I can think of that could have possibly changed my feelings?!?!? This is the first guy I actually trust but I feel like i trust him cause maybe I just dont care...I dont know how to tell and I dont want to break up with him......

Thanks!

2007-03-08 00:56:43 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

entertained all the time lol they are always bored

2007-03-08 00:56:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

We've been friends for ages, I know that forum that he visits, he posts messages there often at times I don't see him online, should I confront him, ignore him or block him?

2007-03-08 00:53:52 · 16 answers · asked by Jenny 1 in Friends

I know the dangers of dating a co-worker but this girl has really cought my attention. We know a little about each other but havent had any conversations about anything personal. Sometimes she flirts with me but then there other times where it seems she could care less if I was around. Its funny I just cant tell with her. Any advice would be helpfull.

2007-03-08 00:53:32 · 8 answers · asked by ski025025 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-08 00:53:15 · 20 answers · asked by andrea t 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-08 00:52:16 · 6 answers · asked by The Cheeseburger 1 in Singles & Dating

I tend to stay in relationships as long as possible. The threat of an ending relationship is a serious blow to me. I can't handle the loss of people in my life. My parents divorced. I'm divorced and remarried. I'm working on being less dependent by just taking care of my own needs. I'm critical as well so it's hard for others to be with me sometimes. (working on that as well). Gosh, I just need some help. This mix is counter-intuitive because I need people, but also feel like I'm driving them away from me (because critical people aren't generally a lot of fun to be around).

2007-03-08 00:52:16 · 22 answers · asked by PersonalImprov 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i seriously dont know what i should do. i want to keep it, but he isnt so sure. i love him and dont wanna lose him. what do i do. i know i should make this decision on my own, but cant someone just give me a lil boost of encouragement

2007-03-08 00:51:45 · 11 answers · asked by shorty 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

f girls come to have sex what should i do

2007-03-08 00:51:24 · 11 answers · asked by sheik_akram_786 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend recently told me that he had sex with a girl (shes a complete whore) last year. he was having a hard time when he first moved here and took the wrong way out. im the only person hes ever told, he said he thought i should know because he loves me and doesnt want anything to come between us, but it still kinda hurts. i know he feels terrible about it, you can tell. i go to a small school so you see everyone all the time, he cant even look at her, i always wondered why but i guess i know now. i love him very much, and i know he loves me. how do i get over this news, and can love conquer all?

2007-03-08 00:50:32 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I told a lie (about money), i finally came clean about it 2 days later, my husband was really mad. how do i get him to forgive me and to start trusting me again. also, he is always throwing it in my face that i lied...how do i get him to stop?

2007-03-08 00:50:03 · 18 answers · asked by Lindsey M 3 in Marriage & Divorce

has any one tryed putting bunkbeds together. there are so many pices. so how long did it take you.

2007-03-08 00:49:49 · 4 answers · asked by ladyjamie 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-08 00:49:20 · 9 answers · asked by inquisitive 1 in Friends

2 years ago, my first love walked out on me, leaving me with 6 month old twins. He left me for another woman. 2 years, I have suffered, been unlucky in love, and had convinced myself that I was meant to be alone forever. Then, 2 months ago, a guy walked into my life and completely changed it. We have been together 2 months and things have been AMAZING! Except for one small problem. My issues. I don't trust him, I get mad over the little things, I can feel myself starting to push him away and build a wall around my heart because I'm TERRIFIED I'm going to get hurt again. This guy treats me like a queen, he is so good to my kids, they adore him, all of my friends love him, my mother loves him, and they all tell me that I don't see how he looks at me. Yet, I find myself checking up on him. I check his phone records to see who he calls, I check his myspace to read his messages that he gets and sends, I check his friends pages for comments he's left.

2007-03-08 00:48:46 · 11 answers · asked by Sarah 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi my name is Dana and im 17 years old. I feel inlove with this guy named Rodger. He is 18 and he graduates this year. The only problem is he is now living in Texas. We are still togehter and we are going strong. I love this guy with all my Heart he means the World to me. Its hard not being able to see him right now. Im am goin up there this summer and im stayin 2 weeks. Then when i graduate next year im moving to Texas. What can i do to keep him well u know happy until this summer??????????????

2007-03-08 00:47:59 · 14 answers · asked by babyboo200320042003 2 in Singles & Dating

I recently had to visit a social worker at my school for punching some kid in the face. We talked. She seems to have some crazy idea that I'm some kind of psychopath. She wants to contact my parents. How do I convince her to just shut up?

2007-03-08 00:47:54 · 11 answers · asked by Daniel B 1 in Family

I'm just curious; I've never seen them used at any wedding that I've attended. My wedding reception will likely be semi-formal, taking place in the evening in a hotel ballroom/conference room (suitable for 500 people for dinner). The wedding ceremony will be taking place in the early afternoon.

2007-03-08 00:47:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I'm in 9th grade (just in case). I broke up with my ex when I was 8th grader. He is very generous, kind, polite.. etc. He never swears. Anyway, after we broke up, we always tend like we never knew each other before. Like, when we were passing by each other, we always looked away. Now, I really missed my ex boyfriend. It's not that I love him like before or anything.. I just want to talk to him like before. You know, comfortably. But I am afraid of it. Bit shy, I guess. It's just that I don't know how he feels about me now. Does he hate me, or does he just want to get rid of me, or whatever?? I am really worried. I mean, I really want to know how he feels about me. *said that twice. Help me out?

2007-03-08 00:46:28 · 9 answers · asked by Kileyn J 2 in Friends

and why do they turn to total strangers on Y!A for advice, to people who don't know them or care about them? Why aren't they talking to their friends and family?

P.S. Don't tell me I know nothing about relationships, I turned myself inside out for someone who treated me like crap.

2007-03-08 00:45:42 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-08 00:45:26 · 18 answers · asked by Ogore420@yahoo.com 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i m 20 yrs old guy &in love with 7yrs elder girl. she got married with a NRI &in USA from 3months. today i got her mail. i love her very much& can,t live without her. plz help me?

2007-03-08 00:43:31 · 21 answers · asked by saurabh k 1 in Singles & Dating

My son is now 41 years old. His two kids are l7 and 19. Recently the 19 year old girl moved out because he was abusing her mentally. She moved in with her mother. I didn't blame her, I would have done the same thing. It started me thinking if my grandchild who is only 19 years old can move out, then why can't the abusive father, so I'm planning on telling him to go. Someone told me that since he's been living in my house so long, that he might have squatters rights. Is this true? Do you think I'll have any trouble getting rid of him? What is the best thing to do? If any of you have had this problem, please let me know.

2007-03-08 00:42:28 · 10 answers · asked by shirlandjerry@yahoo.com 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok me and my bf have been together for 7 months ...and well we are having problems...i asked him if he would call me more cuz he never odes and then he goes off on me saying if i wanted to talk to him i'd call ...........and gosh i need some advice ..sometimes i wonder what goes on in a guy's head...anywhoo...and well i barely see him...and well i dunno


what should i do?

2007-03-08 00:40:18 · 11 answers · asked by juggalette jade 2 in Singles & Dating

ok long story short. my husband and i split up after 3 yrs of marrige,[not the first time]. i was gone for 2 months ,and had an affair,now i know thats not right .but i told my hubby he wanted to know , we both had problems ,so anyway we are back together. while i was away he got on several dating services, and worte several women. HERES THE PROBLEM he told me that he wiped them all off thier pices and addys... i just found out he has kept the one that he was suppose to go out with in a folder marked yahoo stuff. what to do ...???

2007-03-08 00:39:54 · 27 answers · asked by sissy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Iv been with my gf 4 5months nw, but im not happy. i no that she loves me but i dnt feel the same, i dnt wana break her hart, i wana stay frnds with her, she hasnt got ne1 and i dnt wana lose contact,i no we'l b gr8 frnds

2007-03-08 00:39:02 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have only known my boyfriend 3 months but we have lived together for 6 weeks and are very much in love.
I know he is 'the one' and I would love to marry him. I feel that if we were married then he would really be 'mine'.
We have both been married before and let down by our partners. I would ask him to marry me but I feel it might scare him off and he is possibly not ready (he has only been divorced 4 months).
He is so good-looking and I feel a little insecure that someone might tempt him away from me.
It is preying on my mind. Please help!

2007-03-08 00:38:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Everyone else is fine because they were not the ones screwed over. This is family and I want to be over it too. Besides the sh** starting "confrontation" factor, what can I do to not let it boil up inside of me?

2007-03-08 00:38:38 · 4 answers · asked by ? 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

How many relationships/dates did you go through before you found 'The One'?

2007-03-08 00:38:37 · 5 answers · asked by lyla384 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

okay...i just got out of a relationship wit a boy...and my ex wants to go back out wit me,what do i do? i mean i have hard feelings for both of them do you think we should just be friends or should we try it again?

2007-03-08 00:38:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships