2007-03-08 00:45:26 · 18 answers · asked by Ogore420@yahoo.com 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Free pass to sleep with someone else.
2007-03-08 01:00:28 · update #1
Bad timing for me with that question. Before I would have said no, but we have been togerther for a while and I would have to say yes. My husband is selfish when it comes to sex, and I have needs and desires also. I would prefer it with my huband, but he is too selfish. So that is why I would say yes.
2007-03-08 01:11:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A free pass for what? The metro? Disney? What? Try being clear. We are not mind readers and you know what happens when you assume.
OK, now that you clarified your answer, I can say I think if I were you I would not be asking us this question. I would be asking your husband why would be want to do this. My guess is that he is sleeping around on you and wants to feel less guilty about it or he wants to get a swinging lifestyle going.
I would never give a woman I loved a "free pass" to sleep with anyone else. That woman is MINE. lol
However, I guess I have not answered your question. Since I'm a man, I can't answer it as it is written, but if I were intending to stay married, I would be worried if my wife offered a "free pass" to me unless it was a joke such as celebrity free-pass. You know, you can sleep with a movie star... because that would never happen to most of us anyway. I have, on the other hand, been told by a girl I dated that she wouldn't like it, but would "accept" if I slept around because she just thought that is how men are. It was sad to hear her say that.
2007-03-08 08:49:35 · answer #2 · answered by Roger S 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There is no such thing as a free pass. There has to be some motivation behind it. If you are happy with the way things are , this wouldn't come up. If you are wanting to expand your horizons with your marriage, be more straightforward. Don't offer an empty gimmick. I think she would want you to be honest in the beginning, instead of wondering what is under the surface.
2007-03-08 09:54:54 · answer #3 · answered by krysmaslily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A free pass? I don't know what you mean by that. Maybe to a favourite concert? In that case, yeah I'd love one of those! ha
Addition:
A free pass to sleep with someone else? No way. I would not want that, because I am a one woman man....I'd still like to go to my fav. concert though.
2007-03-08 08:50:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you meant that "A Free Pass" to enter a concert, for a cinema show, some sort of "vouchers" that can redeem gifts without paying a single cents, then, "YES" I do want it & definitely use it!!
If its a "Free Pass" to sleep with someone else, then something is wrong with his mind. He is just offering his wife to someone else, in return, he has already accepted somebody's wife offered!
You are no longer valued to him!
2007-03-08 09:35:11 · answer #5 · answered by lonely lady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! If hes suggesting this to you, I wouldn't be worried if I should use it or not, I'd be worried about why he wants you to have one?!?! Could it be perhaps that he wants one too? In that case, you've moved out of marriage and into its time to get divorced. Marriage is about commitment. You took vows to be faithful. No where in that vow does it say love, honor, and get a free pass every once in a while! Thats kind of a no brainer!!!! If this is where the two of you are in your relationship, maybe your next question should be "Where can I find a good divorce lawyer?"
2007-03-08 09:23:25 · answer #6 · answered by anncinn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I wanted a Free Pass I wouldn't have gotten married in the first place.
It's called commitment for a reason.
2007-03-08 09:07:37 · answer #7 · answered by puckbunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A free pass? To sleep with someone else? No, I wouldn't use it.
2007-03-08 08:58:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he gave me a 'free pass', it's probably because he either wants one too or already had his ride. I'd be suspicious and no, I wouldn't take it no matter what the circumstances.
2007-03-08 09:05:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my wife has a free pass all the time and yes she uses it. she like the variety.
2007-03-08 08:50:53 · answer #10 · answered by Scound 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋