I'm in 9th grade (just in case). I broke up with my ex when I was 8th grader. He is very generous, kind, polite.. etc. He never swears. Anyway, after we broke up, we always tend like we never knew each other before. Like, when we were passing by each other, we always looked away. Now, I really missed my ex boyfriend. It's not that I love him like before or anything.. I just want to talk to him like before. You know, comfortably. But I am afraid of it. Bit shy, I guess. It's just that I don't know how he feels about me now. Does he hate me, or does he just want to get rid of me, or whatever?? I am really worried. I mean, I really want to know how he feels about me. *said that twice. Help me out?
2007-03-08 00:46:28 · 9 answers · asked by Kileyn J 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I broke up with him actually. Plus, I want to know how he will feel if I start talking to him again.
2007-03-08 01:23:05 · update #1
move on little girl. find someone else to fill that void. yeah, he's nice, sweet, whatever, but there's no sense in living in the past. Once the line is crossed from friends to boyfriend/girlfriend you can never go back. It just doesn't work. You can be nice to each other but never back to the way it was
2007-03-08 00:51:53 · answer #1 · answered by icehawk00 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If hes the loving, kind guy that you described in the beginning of the question then why should he hate you and rect badly just coz you talk to him.
I think you should talk to him, and see how it goes....
2007-03-08 00:51:00 · answer #2 · answered by little_millsey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop using the word 'like' so much.
Sweetie, that's what break ups are. You dated, you broke up with him, now he resents you for it. Life lesson learned. Move on.
2007-03-08 00:50:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u say that he is realy generous and all that well he will talk to u........but let me ask u this who broke up u or him?????????because if it was him well he will feel weird cuz i had this kind of problem 2 cuz when i broke up with my ex she want to talk to me but i felt weird because i felt that she still loves me that is y........but go and talk to him and ask him things like friendsonly....
2007-03-08 01:02:29 · answer #4 · answered by oak cliff 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best way...bite the bullet and ask him. It'll also get you talking and to where you want be with him.
2007-03-08 00:49:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you see him ask him if you to can talk and ask him you guys are still elidgible to be friends. see what he says if he says no then he isnt worth it. if yes then hang out and talk some more.
2007-03-08 01:34:34 · answer #6 · answered by Carly-Bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must tell him how you feel, that is the only way to sort it out.
Good luck
2007-03-08 00:55:10 · answer #7 · answered by marina25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh,,,,to be young again!!!! It seems hard at your age I know, but trust me....move on...you'll be glad you did!!!!
2007-03-08 00:50:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
let him go there are plenty of men out there
2007-03-08 00:55:11 · answer #9 · answered by dazed n confused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋