Family & Relationships - 8 March 2007

I have been married for about three years and I am going through a divorce as of right now. I was court ordered seperated while in the realationship for a year for domestic violence and aggravated assault for my husband on me. He then went to Iraq and I found out did many other things against me....the issue is while he was gone while we were seperated I met someone else. The chemistry between me and him were too strong to let go. I seen him as the perfect man and what I am trying to find in life. I waited for my husband to come home to file for divorce because I want to close one door before I open another. The problem is I feel wrong for doing this...am I? Me and him have been in contact for a year and I love him but dont think I will beable to give myself to someone again anytime soon because I am getting out of a marriage. He wants me to move to another state to be with him because he doesnt live in the same state as me. He doesnt seem to understand how I feel when I tell him.....

2007-03-08 00:15:51 · 8 answers · asked by lilsusie2483 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I love my boyfriend so much--he's my first boyfriend, and before we were bf/gf we were good friends for about two years. When I was just friends with him he was loyal, and trustworthy, and a real good friend overall.
He hasn't emailed/contacted me in nine days. (long distance relationship). He didn't even remember our anniversary yesterday. One time he didn't show up at a play when he was supposed to meet me there. My best friend, who is also his friend, told me that I had given him too many second chances, and that I was forgiving him too much. She said that was going to get me in trouble someday and I was going to get hurt. She said to wait until our relationship wasn't long distance (september) or to break up with him b/c he isn't a very good bf.
But I just can't do that, I just like him too much! And I don't know why I can't stop giving him second chances! What can I do to stop liking him and move on or just become more firm with him? I am seeing him on Sat., help me please!!!!

2007-03-08 00:15:24 · 12 answers · asked by horsesareforever 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm in a new relationship with a guy that just moved to Florida. He lived in New Jersey and there was a girl that was making it sound like they were together while we were. I asked him about it and he said he wasn't into her, that she was in love with him and that she wanted to be him. He said he didn't even like her, then told her to leave him alone and stop talking to him and even deleted him off her myspace page. He told me that once he got back to Florida and got his cellphone number switched, he wasn't going to give her the new number or talk to her or anything like that. Well, he's been here almost a month and he has since added her to his page and given her his cellphone number. I know I don't have anything to worry about, but I've been hurt really bad in the past. Am I being tested? I've been hurt A LOT in the past and I don't trust easy, but he has done nothing to make me not trust him. He tells me EVERYTHING. I'm scared my issues will ruin this relationship. Help please!!

2007-03-08 00:14:46 · 1 answers · asked by Sarah 2 in Singles & Dating

My BF and I broke up, but are trying to remain friends. (It's only been a week, so we'll see how THAT goes.) We got together with a few other couples a few days later, and he didn't tell them about us. I am in a bit of a "state of denial", so I don't want to mention anything. He is close to his parents and so far has only told them. I was a mess, so I told everyone that I was connected to without him.

Why wouldn't he tell people we broke up? Am I obligated to tell people? It would be really painful to share, and I don't want to end up in tears.

To clarify a few things- he was the one that broke it off, and we are adults and will encounter other adults. I asked this question before, but there seemed to be some confusion.

2007-03-08 00:14:19 · 11 answers · asked by loves2sing 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-08 00:13:40 · 13 answers · asked by pamela d 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What are your experiences? All answers welcome

2007-03-08 00:12:01 · 51 answers · asked by ? 7 in Friends

well you are!

You have done a great job at being you and I am blown away by you! whatever your thing is.... whatever large or small role you choose to play (or not play) in your community ! You have done it brilliantly , I just want you to know you rock!

2007-03-08 00:11:56 · 10 answers · asked by lowroad 2 in Singles & Dating

Checked out YouTube, read their policy, and it says nothing pornographic. Any ideas which website can do this? And for all of you who will tell me to grow up and be a man... thank you, I'll think about it :)

2007-03-08 00:11:23 · 2 answers · asked by Kaz B 1 in Singles & Dating

I personally love to be spanked on my bare bottom.
Seriously!

2007-03-08 00:10:26 · 6 answers · asked by Lily P 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

when a dude tells u you have good P****?

2007-03-08 00:09:46 · 9 answers · asked by iluvmalike 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-08 00:08:26 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i am told that i am asking too much for love and afeection and that i am being too clingy when it comes to intimacy and passion in my relationship. Am i in the wrong or does it mean i just have to suffer a life without it??? this is a really difficult question for me to ask but i feel i need to know if i am just too affectionate or i have made a bad decision????

2007-03-08 00:06:58 · 18 answers · asked by azznsall 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So which one do you prefer?

2007-03-08 00:06:37 · 18 answers · asked by tyemetght814 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I mean I find myself having these fantasies regularly and most I would be embarrassed to tell people out. Most are forbidden type of fantasies that society would look down upon. I think I am somewhat of a normal guy, but these fantasies and desires are still there. Just wanted to know if anyone else had these. Just interested I guess. You don’t have to admit to what yours are if you don’t want, but if you had the courage to go for it. I just wanted to see how many people would be willing to admit to this besides me.

2007-03-08 00:05:25 · 3 answers · asked by cheeks230 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I decided to talk to the girl I miss and tel lher how I really feel about her, that I just want us to be friends again. The only thing is that I love her. I also think she's got to be the most beautiful girl I've ever seen even though my boys think she's just alright. I implied I was in love with her the last time we talked (online), saying "peope do stupid things when they're in love." She said " YOU WAS NOT IN LOVE, so dont say that, stop talking like that!" Since then we haven't talked in a long time (months), I gave her space. I want to tell her how I really feel, but do I need to keep the fact that I love her to myself to keep from scaring her off or worse?

2007-03-08 00:04:44 · 9 answers · asked by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 in Singles & Dating

I am 34 yrs old and i was watching my 14 yr old nephew for my sister last night cause she went on vacation. one of my good friends was with me and she is the same age. so out of no where while we were swimming in the backyard pool, my nephew asks my friend sherri to "pull her shorts off" so he can see her thing! i almost fell over after i heard him say that! and what does my friend do, but yanks her wet shorts to her knees for like 10 seconds and says to me, "he has to learn somehow!" i was so mad i sent her home and him to his room. only for me stopping them, she would of let him touch it and play with it! what should i say to the both of them because i am so freaked out by the 2 of them right now. where do kids learn this stuff!

2007-03-08 00:04:38 · 6 answers · asked by Lisa girl 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-08 00:04:01 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

sun shining ; what more could we ask for.question is. shoud i stay at home ; or go to work.???????

2007-03-08 00:03:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

and why?

2007-03-08 00:03:25 · 6 answers · asked by tony r 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm in love with this guy in one of my classes. I have nothing in common wiht him but we have a lot of chemistry together. He's not even my type. He's a trouble makerand he gets bad grades I think he likes me too. Because he's always asking me out. I blush and I get nervous when I get around him.What should i do?

2007-03-08 00:02:19 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

vaginas have some kind of musky smell...why is it so? does a penis have the same smell?what can a girl do to get rid of that smell???

2007-03-08 00:02:09 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-08 00:01:37 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Would you have sex with a man you didn't particularly like for $100,000. Let's assume there is nothing wrong with him, he just doesn't do it for you.

2007-03-08 00:01:30 · 9 answers · asked by amazed_lab_rat 2 in Singles & Dating

In high school I was teased by some students including girls because I was fat, nerdy, and had glasses. However while attending college away I lifted weights, joined boxing, and now dress with the best urban gear. I now am able to get any woman I want and when I came back home I rejected and nsulted those girls who teased me in high school that now want me and they was upset and felt bad that I did that to them. Is this great revenge?

2007-03-08 00:01:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Have you ever met any outright weirdos?

2007-03-08 00:00:17 · 14 answers · asked by jack_diam_01 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-08 00:00:13 · 21 answers · asked by nims 1 in Singles & Dating