Family & Relationships - 8 March 2007

I really love my husband and I would never ever want to be without him but I can't stop thinking about things that I did when we weren't together.

Lets just say I've had a colourful past and at the time it was fun, but now what I have with my husband and I couldn't ask for more, so why do I keep fantazising about my past experiences and keep having dreams that get me 'excited'?

I feel awful about it but I can't help it, I think it's just the excitment I miss. What should I do???

I would never act on any of these thoughts but is there anything I can do to cool it?

2007-03-08 02:24:36 · 12 answers · asked by joanna b 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-08 02:24:35 · 18 answers · asked by bugs280 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

My ex-husband and I have been divorced for almost 12years and each have new relationships. Despite that fact, we always call or send each other a card on birthdays and mother/father's day. Recently, my ex-had a birthday and I sent him a card in the mail. His new wife freaked out on him. I am not sure why because she has know about this for the 4 years they have been together. Apparently she told him that now that they are married (for a little over a year) that we shouldn't do this anymore. My ex and I have maintained a good relationship for our children and neither of us see anything wrong with what we are doing and neither does my "new" husband. Are we wrong?

2007-03-08 02:24:20 · 12 answers · asked by itsjustme 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I want to buy something he can keep.

2007-03-08 02:23:58 · 14 answers · asked by anne b 6 in Friends

So I went out with this girl few night ago for the first time, everything went fine but I need a womens opinions btw we are in late 20's
when I dropped her off back at her place, it was around midnight during weekday, she asked me if I want to come up, so I told her only if she wants me to come up. This is when she said I don't want to be rude or anything. I asked her if she had any movies we could watch but she didn't, so i told her I'll just let her go to sleep, she had to weak up early for jury duty
she leaned forward to give me a kiss, and so did i but I kissed her on the cheek and I think she was going for my lips ( i could be wrong) but quickly changed directions when realized I was only going for the cheek
I know she is not that kind of a girl that would put out on a first date, and thats not what I'm looking for anyways so don't anyone suggest that
its not that I don't like her, because I do, she has everything I would look for in a girl, but I'm fresh (4months) out of a 5year

2007-03-08 02:23:42 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

life. She has behavioral problems. My stepmother works so she asked me to check in on my sister. This was an opportunity to get her to do her homework and start being nice by taking away responsibilities (such as late bedtime, tv and phone). She did fine for about 2 weeks, but I was always the one with the stress. THEN someone enlightened me and told me that I shouldn't be the one doing this, it is her mothers responsibility.Told me to try and motivate her by saying things like "if you dont do your homework, you could get left back. That is your decision". I tried that and she still didnt do her homework. She said that she doesnt care, so last night I went back to the old method of removing responsibilities. She usually responds to that, but this time, no matter what I took away, she just sat there and said she didnt care. I told her your on your own and left. I called her mother at work and told her that I could not take care of her anymore. I feel horrible, but was I wrong?

2007-03-08 02:23:26 · 6 answers · asked by B 5 in Family

2007-03-08 02:23:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My friend and I have became friends with benifets but I really like him now and Sorta want to date him but don't want to tell him is there anyways of telling him that I want more than "friends with benifets" Without sayig anything...What I am saying is there any way in body language in other ways I can move fourth in are relationship?

2007-03-08 02:22:39 · 15 answers · asked by skatergirl3722 1 in Singles & Dating

problem is our daughters are the same age and attend the same school are in the same classes and her daughter would spend weekends every weekend with my daughter at our house. problem is now her daughter is talking about mine behind her back and my daughter is so hurt and confused, i brought this up to my friend several times but nothing has changed..problem is my friend is always needing my help with different things and i have always helped her before biting my lip and all, however this situation is really hurting my daughter and me of course for her sake, and my friend is in the process of moving and needs my help, noone else will help her besides her husband...i am really angry with her kid and we have talked about it but still nothing has changed what would you do would you help her move knowing her daughter is a monster or would you distant yourself for a time and not be there for her? i am confused i have always been good to this family

2007-03-08 02:22:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am the 16 year old boy. Nowadays, I am in love. Thus, I always think
about myself and also my girlfriend. I recall my activities of every days passing by.
I think a lot about myself that how I am, what should I need to be for her, what wrong
I did to her, what should I do to interst her and so on and on. And more and more
points come in my mind and I am being more engage just thinking. I thinks a lot
specially on holidays when I have no any friends to do time pass. And my this habit
of thinking is effecting my daily activies such as my study and other tasks. As my mind
is too much tired by just thinking, I want to get rid of this habit. How can I get
rid of it?

2007-03-08 02:22:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-08 02:22:09 · 4 answers · asked by mukesh ganatra@yahoo.co.in 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-08 02:21:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

By that I mean, if your b/f was really nice, hot, funny and so on, but when it came to sex he was really freaky; he likes to pull hair, call you dirty names, tell you what to do, and is real rough?

2007-03-08 02:21:43 · 4 answers · asked by st.camilus 2 in Singles & Dating

When is being to nieve enough? Is it good to ignore what is in front of you?

2007-03-08 02:21:21 · 1 answers · asked by Tea 1 in Singles & Dating

For example....leaving the lights on, leaving his empty red bull in the shower, opeing up a jar of sauce when there is already an open jar in the fridge, scraping his plate clean when he's done with it, not leaving cereal to harden in the sink....

We're married almost a year now & these little things are driving me crazy!!!! If I ask him to stop he thinks I'm nagging or trying to fight with him. I try to tell him we just need to be open and work on making each other happy and I try to encourage him to tell me the things that I do that drive him crazy, but he doesn't. Is there a nice way to get him to be a little more courteous around the house?

2007-03-08 02:21:16 · 21 answers · asked by autumn 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Im planning on moving to VA beach to go to college which has been my dream for years but my boyfriend of 1 year says that if he finds a good paying job up here in WV that he's not going to leave with me. I have one more year of high school left but he is just now getting out and is going to be looking for a job soon. What do you think I should do: live my dream and leave my boyfriend, or stay here and settle for WV so he can keep his job and we can continue to be together? Advice anyone?

2007-03-08 02:20:23 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm a 22 year old circumcised male and was circumcised. I can't achieve orgasm...I'll be thrusting away for like 10 minutes and nothing. I'll keep going and going for another ten and not even a hint of a orgasm wila arise.

2007-03-08 02:20:14 · 11 answers · asked by Timothy 1 in Singles & Dating

how do u deal with people who r bitchy and sluty and think they r popular but not and who wanna fight i dont know how to handle this in high school but see me and my bff r really popular

2007-03-08 02:20:11 · 1 answers · asked by ~Shan~ aka Shannon B 1 in Friends

2007-03-08 02:19:53 · 34 answers · asked by Roxas of Organization 13 7 in Family

2007-03-08 02:19:37 · 3 answers · asked by sexy-star 4 in Friends

Guys / Gals Just wanted to know ur opinions on this.

2007-03-08 02:18:59 · 19 answers · asked by hiteshmax24 1 in Singles & Dating

Hey y'all,

I met this really cool guy at work. We've made out of few times, but I think he might be ready for the next step.

My problem is, I want him to go to church with me. I don't date anyone unless they are willing to go to church.

My husband and I go to a service Sunday morning, and I go with my regular boyfriend to another church's night service.

Is there a denomination that has Friday or Saturday night services? I don't want to lose this guy.

I don't have much time either, 'cuz I'm 2 months pregnant with my boyfriends child. My husband thinks it's his, and we are already planning his baptism!

2007-03-08 02:18:25 · 9 answers · asked by Lökásennäaa 1 in Singles & Dating

I need to know.

2007-03-08 02:18:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-08 02:17:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was pals with him for over ten years but it was always on the provisal that we were neighbours and he fancied me. He now has a family of his own and our parents had a big fall out, so no longer speak to each other. He has come to visit his mum & dad with his family and I don't know weather to ignore them and let by gone be by gones or aproach him as I feel if I didn't, that would be it. I'm not sure how long they are here for, so I need to act quick, if I'm to do anything! Please help!

2007-03-08 02:17:10 · 10 answers · asked by gypsy girl 2 in Singles & Dating

Please help. We dont know each other that well and when i tell him i like him i dont want him to come back and say how do you like me you dont know that well.

2007-03-08 02:17:08 · 20 answers · asked by Un-Happy Gilmore 4 in Singles & Dating

We are currently in an apartment and we are moving into a spacious mobile home...The problem is this: #1... I am a pack-rat and I do not like to part with anything...But I am willing to now...#2., our Family consists of myself and my husband along with an 11 year old, 4 year old, and 20 month old....WHERE DO I START????

2007-03-08 02:17:05 · 11 answers · asked by ♥shannon c♥ 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have a great friend that i have known since fourth grade. we are the best of friends. the only problem is she likes the same person at me. i was mad at first, but now it is all okay. i have liked my crush for almost two years now. and i really like him. he is so nice, cute, and super hilarious. he has to many good things about him. i really do not want to hurt my friends feelings if one of us ( there are three others who like him ) gets asked out and it is not her or me. what should i do?

2007-03-08 02:17:04 · 7 answers · asked by ATL<3 3 in Friends

if yes did you like it, if no would you like it?

2007-03-08 02:16:52 · 15 answers · asked by yoshi 2 in Singles & Dating

We are divorced and I have 3 kids, him, 2. His kids dont live with him, one is at college, one lives with his Mom but does come to visit regularly. My 2 youngest sons still live with me, 18 and 15(19 yr old) moved out already.
Brandon says after our kids are out of school (his youngest is 15 also) he would want to have a home together. We live in different states, Ohio, Indiana, so our kids go to different schools.
Thats 3 years !
We are together all the time for the most part. We have a good relationship but I feel like if you want to have a future with someone, you shouldnt put stipulations on the future, like, wait til the kids are out !!I dont like the idea of "waiting" for my kids to be gone. Sometimes I want them to be ! But not really ! You know, like when they are being difficult and a pain in the butt! Im 40 now and I know I would like to be married and share a home with someone.
what would you say if someone said... , I want to marry you, AFTER our kids are moved out !

2007-03-08 02:16:44 · 10 answers · asked by crazartgirl 4 in Weddings