My friend and I have became friends with benifets but I really like him now and Sorta want to date him but don't want to tell him is there anyways of telling him that I want more than "friends with benifets" Without sayig anything...What I am saying is there any way in body language in other ways I can move fourth in are relationship?
2007-03-08 02:22:39 · 15 answers · asked by skatergirl3722 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe you should just try and be honest. Maybe tell him you are not sure if you can continue with the way things have been going because you are developing deeper feelings for him. Maybe he has those feelings too! Good luck.
2007-03-08 02:26:59 · answer #1 · answered by Leah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he act like he likes you? This is how my huband and I got together. We were friends just messing around and the next think I knew we were engaged and married. I can not actually tell you when we started "dating" or when it became more than friends. I knew I liked my husband from the beginning and even told my friends on the night that I met him I was gonna marry him LOL. We became friends then it moved on to benefits. I acted cool like I wanted nothing more and that made him want more. If you really like the guy watch his reactions towards you. If he is checking out other girls when you're around and trying to talk to them ect... I would say he isn't into you that way and it is not worth opening up to him about your feelings. But if he looks at a girl then looks away and doesnt say anything..you got him! But let me warn you being friends with benefits can be very painful and and ruin your friendship so think long and hard about weather you are willing to loss him as a friend if things do not work out...because if you are having feelings and he isnt... in most cases, your friendship will not last. If you are like most girls you will become jealous and get ticked and he will be like whatever and totally quit being around you. But let me tell you from experience most guys are into the friend that they are having "benefits" with!
2007-03-08 02:40:08 · answer #2 · answered by louise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect for yourself is important. If you don't respect yourself, he will never respect you. I hate to lay this to you so bluntly, but the answer is absolutely no! The best way to communicate your feelings to him is by telling him. Avoid sounding like you want to get married or something, that'll scare even the best guy away. Tell him you want more than just sex, and you might be surprised, he may be more open to the idea of a relationship than you think. If he doesn't understand, please do yourself a favour and move on, you deserve better than a guy who wants your body and nothing else. Hope I was of some help.
2007-03-08 02:31:42 · answer #3 · answered by the15don86 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends w/benefits is never a good idea. You've just found out why. There is a VERY good chance that he does not want it to be more than it is and to push for more could end everything. People don't get into FWB situations if they are looking for a relationship.
2007-03-08 02:28:05 · answer #4 · answered by lunasage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will never get involved in a friends with benefits relationship again. I started to get feeling and he fled. I think that even though women say sex is sex really have that deep down desire for love. Also going out to dinner and him paying made me feel like a prostitute, sex in exhange for dinner.
2007-03-08 02:29:10 · answer #5 · answered by sweet sue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not that I know of. If you are friends with benefits and you use body language to try and express how you feel he make take it differently than you mean it. Why don't you want to tell him how you feel?
2007-03-08 02:26:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is stopping yo from sharing your true feelings? It is not fair to you and fair to him in not being honest. What will it hurt to be honest. Good relationships should be built upon honesty. If you cannot be honest with him, that may say something about the relationship, and it is not a good thing.
2007-03-08 02:26:30 · answer #7 · answered by Kerry 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
in my experiance friends with benifits never work because one person always gets jellous of the other. It's either all or nothing.
2007-03-08 02:26:11 · answer #8 · answered by Lipiew 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in case you nonetheless do an identical issues as you probably did earlier once you have been jointly, then dating is basically a trivial identify which you place on your friendship. it somewhat is not acquaintances with reward, its purely good acquaintances.
2016-10-17 21:06:31 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing I would suggest for you young people is to learn your spelling words before you jump into the bed for sex
2007-03-08 02:25:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋