Do you think that not allowing a woman to get to close to me or be with me is selfish?

Question

I need to know.

Answer 1

no

Answer 2

i think it will depend.
if ur married, it will be selfish but also when u need sometime to breathe for one reason or another, u r allowed to get it.
but....i dont think its selfish when ur not into a relashionship. am sure we were not created to just be biased to ourself but to share our all. but that can only come when u have made a decision.dont be rigid in a way that u dont allow people (women) to tell u how they feel about u.that will be selfish... but even after anyone tells u, remember its ua decision either to accept or not.so at least the person will be happy to have let u know how she feels.
again, dont be rigid with ua feelings that u cant express them to someone u like.now tell me my friend.. how would u call that?
but the things is, it will depend on how u relate with people.

Answer 3

I don't think it's selfish if you feel you have issues that you need to straighten out first and want time to yourself but you could be missing out on something good happening in your life.

Answer 4

Obviously you are just protecting yourself from something which is fine as long as you're not hurting yourself in the long run.
It would, however, be considered selfish if you are entering into relationships with women and giving them the false hope of something serious and "connected" with you.

Answer 5

i think it is very selfish!!!!! you dont be with a woman you will always be alone!!!!

Answer 6

yeah i think you are selfish

Answer 7

No.. when you want to be with someone or let them into your life then that is your decision

Answer 8

sounds like you dont want a woman

Answer 9

no