Family & Relationships - 8 March 2007

constant fighting between the two, my 7 year old constantly picks on the 5 year old, it goes as far as playdates. the oldest doesnt want his freinds to talk to my 5 year old.. meanwhile my 5 year old is so easy going...
myself I have an older sister who is bipolar..havent talked to her in 10 years she treated me the same way my 7 year old treats my 5 year old..
I am at a point that I am gonna have my 7 year old tested for bilpolar or ADD etc...
my mom ignored the behavior of my sister towards me.. I am not gonna ignore the behavior.. am I wrong to do this??
i have taken things away, I dont treat them any different, any toys they get are the same (different color)
I feel stressed and tired... we have our own business so my husband is not home and I am like a single mom especially in the winter... I need advice I love them so much I just want peace in my house

2007-03-08 01:46:38 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-03-08 01:45:42 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I met this girl about 3 months ago. I wasn't immediately attracted to her; but we became really close really fast. She's been with the same guy for a long time; I chose not to do anything, but I started becoming very attracted to her, but I knew I shouldn't do anything.

So when this other girl asked me out, I said yes. She's cool too, pretty, fun to be with, we have things in common....yet, I can't stop thinking about the first girl, it has almost come to the point of being an obsession, problem is...now we're very good friends...

I was suppose to have dinner today with the first girl, but she had to cancel; I was looking forward to having dinner with her. The first girl is now on a break from her boyfriend. I care more about the first girl than the girl I am going out with now...

What should I do?

2007-03-08 01:45:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It's to celebrate woman's day. I haven't seen them in a while, might be weird to see them after not seeing them for 6 months.

2007-03-08 01:44:51 · 11 answers · asked by hello 6 in Friends

2007-03-08 01:44:47 · 17 answers · asked by Ceaser 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok, we have only been married for 7 months and were already going to marriage counsling...
we went one time together and the lady took him aside for 20 minutes and when I came back in she said" ok, the picture has been painted very clear here and this is what's going to happen"
She recommended that I see her twice a week and then my husband should follow up with us TODAY! Well, I had a chance to get a lot out...the last two times have been ok but I'm freaking out about going today with my husband! I told my husband that I'm going to be very honest when I'm in there and he's going to HATE me more when we leave there! I feel like it's a no win situation. I feel like we both have a lot of controll issues. I can't even say ONE sentence and he cuts me off and tells me I'm wrong, or that not logical, or now he just walked in and said "He can't go to counsling" I guess work is too important...
What should I do? I'm so unhappy and so is he! I think were past the point of fixing this!

2007-03-08 01:44:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Say i meet a friend of mine at casino, she recently got married, during dinner i spill wine and have to go to her place to change, then next thing you know i am smearing sour cream all over her-is that cheating? am i cheating also??
And say we are both drunk on rum? i am confused-all my fantasies dying quiet deaths.

2007-03-08 01:43:11 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hey all, this is a silly question, but just wondering what ya'll think. I've been married for 4 years and STILL don't have an engagement ring or a wedding ring. All of my friends are getting engaged and married and their fiances/ husbands gave all of them absolutely BEAUTIFUL engagement and wedding rings . I've tried hinting numerous times to my husband, but it doesn't do any good - I still don't have either and it kind of hurts my feelings way more than a little bit (and I've told him that too). Is it dumb that this is bugging me? Anyone else out there in this same situation? Just wondering.

2007-03-08 01:43:10 · 23 answers · asked by ~*Mrs. GM2*~ 5 in Weddings

Is there anyone who knows of any good djs that are not expencive? Does anyone have any ideas for doing myself?
I live in North Carolina and I'm looking in the Greensboro,Winston salem area. Thank you so much

2007-03-08 01:43:00 · 9 answers · asked by gettingmarriedinnc 1 in Weddings

What's up with that?

2007-03-08 01:42:58 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My man is always on the net sending IMs. He always tries to close out whatever web page he is on. I feel that I need to give him an ultimative that he either gives up the internet women or lose me. Am I being to controlling or am I doing the right thing?

2007-03-08 01:42:25 · 19 answers · asked by PASSIONATE LOVE 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-08 01:42:06 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He's a surfer kindof guy I'm a rocker. He lives near her and I'm about a half hour away. She gets along well with both of us, but i need something i can do that will put me over the edge. Girls have an suggestions?

2007-03-08 01:41:40 · 8 answers · asked by Derek F 1 in Singles & Dating

ok recently I got with this guy and was happy about it but now I am not to sure if it was the right thing to do should I stay with him? I just don't feel right.

2007-03-08 01:40:57 · 11 answers · asked by spawnof_thedevil 2 in Singles & Dating

ok hear is the deal my mom left without telling me wear she was going we are mad at each other. i wanted to go someware but she said no and i got all mad at her and she took off. is she doing this to try to make me mad?

2007-03-08 01:40:51 · 30 answers · asked by hanna j 3 in Family

NO......not the show.but the real thing who is a real desprate housewife looking for excitment

2007-03-08 01:40:26 · 4 answers · asked by K the lost 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am breaking-up with my GF, now she given me an Card and an gift on this valentine's day. Now when breaking-up shall i return the gift & card or shall i burn it (Wud luv 2 do tht BTW), coz she is a b*tch and an hopeless person.

I do intend 2 remain friend with her after (dont ask why), so which option wud be wise burn or return?

2007-03-08 01:40:24 · 14 answers · asked by jack frost 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband is at work and i have inspectors coming to my house today for a couple hours you dont think they will do anything bad to me do you?!!?! im so freaked out!!!!! please help?

2007-03-08 01:40:13 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My guy works at a strip bar. He already told me that a lot of the dancers like him even though they know he has a girlfriend. Tomorrow is his birthday and he told me that the dancers give the bouncers lots of attention on thier birthday. I wanted to do something for him, but he wants to go to the club to celebrate. I'm guessing they'll be teasing him with a lap dance or something else sleezy and although I trust him enough to know he wouldn't sleep with anyone - I just don't like it at all. Is anyone comfortable with thier guy going to strip bars?

2007-03-08 01:40:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-08 01:39:38 · 19 answers · asked by maddie xx 4 in Singles & Dating

I went to a concert last night with my girls and at the gate, a security officer had to search me. he took me aside and said he saw something in my skirt, so he got a female officer to search me. right in front of my friends this female officer put her hand up my skirt and basicaly massged my privates for like 10 seconds in fromt of 2 other security guys and my friends. is this legal cause i was really really embarrased! then the girl smirks at me and says "ok your fine, but your panties are a bit wet now" and laughed after she said it. i didnt say anything cause i was told that they were allowed to do that.

2007-03-08 01:39:00 · 13 answers · asked by Lisa girl 1 in Singles & Dating

i like this guy i have known for a year and he doesnt want a relationship with anyone yet but he had tried to get down my pants, i dont know what to do. i didnt let him go down there and he has respected my decision... what do i do???

2007-03-08 01:38:20 · 4 answers · asked by Carly-Bear 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok, I want to impress this girl by showing her how much i care for her. I am sick and tired of the repettitve "just be yourself" answer, so be creative. I need lots of ideas. If I pick your idea you get 10 points.

2007-03-08 01:37:46 · 28 answers · asked by tONY g 1 in Singles & Dating

it gets better for a few days, then its back to the same thing. Im 28, hes 29, we have 4 kids between the 2 of us(mine, his and ours.) I know he isnt fooling around. I also know he loves me and I love him. How do I deal with this, I have teased about going out and getting some, he jokes he wouldnt care but seriously........

2007-03-08 01:37:37 · 15 answers · asked by brandi_mrrw 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-08 01:37:20 · 3 answers · asked by DM 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a question that has been bothering me of late. If a man and a woman are living together, how much money should each of them put into the common expenses? I work and bring home approximately $3200 a month. My boyfriend is retired and has an income of approximately the same amount. I have no outstanding bills (car payment, credit cards, etc..). He has a car payment, boat payment and credit card payment every month.

He pays the rent of $1400 and I pay the phone, cable, water, electricity, my cell phone, his cell phone, groceries, gasoline to go to work (45 miles per day) and other incidental expenses. I also make payments on his credit card totaling about $700 a month.


He feels stressed because he feels that he is shouldering the bigger amount of the bills. I feel stressed because I feel that I have no savings and that all of the little bills add up to my whole take home pay.

What do other couples do? What is reasonable for a couple living together to do?

2007-03-08 01:36:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If your in a 3 year relationship and some nights you just don't feel like giving it up, does this mean your cheating??? Cause if not then I;m tired of being at fault...... when i know i'm a good girl.........

2007-03-08 01:36:40 · 2 answers · asked by Ms.Re-Re 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay so I met this guy last year we have been friends for a year now and we started to talk a lot more and I felt as if we liked each other and recebtly he met a girl at a party and theyve been going out 4 two weeks now I found out that they had sex within 4 days of knowing each other....... I still like him and feel like we have something though.... what should I do in this situation? tell him what I kno? probably not or should I just play the friend role? i mean i know if a gurl is gonna let a guy get sum den he of course being a guy is gonnna do it..... what shud i feel about all this?

2007-03-08 01:36:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

anyone else sometimes find it hard to look a guy in the eyes? like, someone you like. i find it hard to look at this one guy i like. i looked him in the eyes once and kinda got lost. anyone else?

2007-03-08 01:36:17 · 7 answers · asked by jessica 1 in Singles & Dating

prom is coming up soon and i dont have a date... and my good friend cant go wither her boyfriend because he is in 11th grade.. and she is in 9th. at their school,,, juniors and seniors can only go. i was going to ask hium to go with me bc i have no one else to go with... is this wrong?

2007-03-08 01:35:33 · 2 answers · asked by Brittany 2 in Singles & Dating