ok hear is the deal my mom left without telling me wear she was going we are mad at each other. i wanted to go someware but she said no and i got all mad at her and she took off. is she doing this to try to make me mad?
2007-03-08 01:40:51 · 30 answers · asked by hanna j 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i think she did that to make u feel sorry for being mad at her and to give u time to realize how much u needed her
2007-03-08 01:50:06 · answer #1 · answered by enasshalaan 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i don't think so she just went off like that to make u more mad she know the situation rite so maybe there's something she need to settle 1st which is not so relevant in your problem so she didn't bother to tell u where she going and maybe because of the problem that both of u is involve(is there any?) that's why she don't want you to go she want to be sure that your there when she come back so both of u can sit down and settle the problem once and for all trust me your parents love you more than anybody and anything else in this world if i am u instead of getting mad of them try to be with them more often as long as u can because when 1 of them is not around anymore then u will realise how much u miss them that's how i feel now after my fathers death................................. i felt miserable for not being with them when i have a chance and time (i hope your old enough to understand what i mean)
2007-03-16 04:48:50 · answer #2 · answered by charlsangel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is doing this because its damn hard being a parent. It seems often children do not realize the stress they put the parent through. She needs time to reflect. Unfortunately parenting doesnt come with a ready set of guidelines and we all need time to sit and think about if we are handling things properly. Your mother is trying to give you guidelines I am sure she is having your best interests at heart. You have to realize your mom feels at her wits end. Wait for her to come back and say you are sorry and give her a hug..all hopefully will ease up..
2007-03-16 08:00:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I assume she came back. If not, she's got some problems because she abandoned you.
Where's your dad?
If she's a single mom, she's stressed. She's not trying to make you mad - although it did end the argument for at least a while - she' s just trying to calm herself down so that she can talk to you without screaming.
2007-03-14 12:47:35 · answer #4 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think she was doing it to get even with you or anything. She proably left to just blow off steam. My mom and me didn't get along really great until I was older. I look back and realize that she was just trying to do her best but I really didn't think she was at the time. I still don't see eye to eye with her all the time. But I do remember what it was like having to deal with her. Good Luck
2007-03-15 21:23:50 · answer #5 · answered by CaseyK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she needed some alone time to think about whats going on so it don't get any worse than it already has.I know what your going through but we love our parents and I'm sure your mom won't just leave you without saying where she was going.She loves so show her some more respect alright!!! PEACE-OUT
2007-03-15 14:49:31 · answer #6 · answered by Umeko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to say this but you are the child, You did not give birth to your mom. your mom gave birth to you.so she does not have to tell you where she is going. No matter what. And no she was not ting to make you mad IT is a parent thing. once you have a kid you will understand.
2007-03-15 08:57:01 · answer #7 · answered by dmncprkr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, she’s not doing it to make you mad. She’s doing it because she needed to cool off. I assume you are old enough to stay by yourself for an hour or so while she’s gone. And I highly suggest you be there when she gets back home.
2007-03-08 09:47:37 · answer #8 · answered by kp 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
She left probably to cool off. Your mom is human and I'm sure she did not feel like dealing with a child who was throwing a tantrum because she did not get what she wanted. I think you need to apologize to your mom and grow up!
2007-03-08 09:47:11 · answer #9 · answered by JENNIFER C 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Assuming your mom is more mature than that, She probably just needed time to be alone and work out her frustration.
She has feelings to ya know and you know what it feels like when your mom is mad at you? it doesn't feel to good does it.
Don't get so mad at her, It does nothing for you or her.
2007-03-08 13:00:14 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't know you, your Mom, or the situation; but speaking from experience, she is most likely frustrated and just needed to get away to be by herself. Or maybe she is tired of fighting and her leaving is her way of telling you that. Why don't you ask her? I don't know how old you are but you will see that the older you get, the more of a best friend your Mom becomes. And then you will always feel bad for all the crap you put her through.
2007-03-08 09:46:40 · answer #11 · answered by melissac723 2 · 3⤊ 2⤋