Okay so I met this guy last year we have been friends for a year now and we started to talk a lot more and I felt as if we liked each other and recebtly he met a girl at a party and theyve been going out 4 two weeks now I found out that they had sex within 4 days of knowing each other....... I still like him and feel like we have something though.... what should I do in this situation? tell him what I kno? probably not or should I just play the friend role? i mean i know if a gurl is gonna let a guy get sum den he of course being a guy is gonnna do it..... what shud i feel about all this?
2007-03-08 01:36:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Unless you would be willing to have sex within a few days of dating, DON'T HOLD OUT FOR HIM! He's not the kind of guy you would want.
2007-03-08 01:39:31 · answer #1 · answered by glinda2125 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rejected maybe?!! You've known the guy for a year and you haven't been asked out on a date. That should tell you what you need to know. You may have 'felt as if the two of you liked each other' but that sentiment seems to be one-sided. He met a girl he likes and they're going on. And everyone already knows about their sex life. If I were you I'd be glad it's not your sex life that has become so well known. You seem to be quick with excuses and justification...by adding all that stuff about him being a guy, of course he's going to hit it, etc. He is a guy, but he only seems interested in a friendship with you which is probably a good thing. If you were dating him he probably wouldn't show you any more respect than he's showing this girl. I'd reconsider my need to express affection and just leave it alone. I hope you keep your guard up and not fall for his lines if you continue the friendship.
2007-03-08 09:43:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
to tell you the truth i would leave that situation alone he is in playing mode now if you get into a relationship with him i don't think it will last ask your self is your friendship worth this headache. when a guy talk about intimacy he had with another person so candid he will do the same about you that tells me right away he is into playing games and just having fun. if that all you want, will go for it but if you are looking for a relationship will make sure it is with the right person with qualities you like not some one who shares there body with any and every one because you will just be a number in his book.
2007-03-08 10:05:14 · answer #3 · answered by claudia w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said you two have just been friends, so really, you have no right to say anything about this. If you like, out of conversation you can ask him if he is seeing anyone. See what he says. Other than that, you will look foolish asking him as if he owed you an explanation. Continue to be his friend also maintain friendship with other people. Who knows what will result later. Best of luck to you!
2007-03-08 09:42:25 · answer #4 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just be his friend . You have been friends for this long so why not continue your friendship . Let him be with this girl , if he didn't want none he wouldn't have done it . That's why he most likely didn't push the issue with you because he knew you weren't giving it up any time soon . Let him be and find someone you are more compatible with . Good Luck !!!!
2007-03-08 09:43:12 · answer #5 · answered by Me777 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You missed your chance but that doesnt mean your not going to get another one in the near future. Just stay friends for now and hopefuly things will turn out OK.
2007-03-08 09:46:25 · answer #6 · answered by juli3b3thx11 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell him, Definitely keep your cool, don't come off desperate, maybe he just sees you as a friend. Maybe he likes you but just wants to have his fun if you know what I mean. I would wait for him to come around but not too long because you might just be wasting your precious time on someone who is not meant for you!!
2007-03-08 09:45:23 · answer #7 · answered by Breann 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
point is if a guy really likes a girl then he doesn't go around just getting some from others. I would remain his friend and not let him get in my pants at all.
2007-03-08 09:39:17 · answer #8 · answered by Ruth Less RN 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Matty's right. You missed your shot for the moment but that doesn't mean another one isn't coming up. Just wait it out or start checking around for someone else.
2007-03-08 09:40:42 · answer #9 · answered by indydst8 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with answer no.1 you had a whole year, so i think you should just stay with the friend role for now
2007-03-08 09:40:25 · answer #10 · answered by bshelby2121 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋