Is this a real problem..........?

Question

If your in a 3 year relationship and some nights you just don't feel like giving it up, does this mean your cheating??? Cause if not then I;m tired of being at fault...... when i know i'm a good girl.........

Answer 1

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Not at all.
That's him trying to give you a guilt trip to persuade you to give in.
Tell him "No means No".

Let him sulk with a bottle of lotion.

Answer 2

i think he is spoiled, everyone has a"headache"" once in a while. he is just trying to control you. and you are not cheating. take care, good luck Mr C