My guy works at a strip bar. He already told me that a lot of the dancers like him even though they know he has a girlfriend. Tomorrow is his birthday and he told me that the dancers give the bouncers lots of attention on thier birthday. I wanted to do something for him, but he wants to go to the club to celebrate. I'm guessing they'll be teasing him with a lap dance or something else sleezy and although I trust him enough to know he wouldn't sleep with anyone - I just don't like it at all. Is anyone comfortable with thier guy going to strip bars?
2007-03-08 01:40:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It would be one thing if my guy was just going as a one time thing for a bachelor party or something, but him working there? Nah I probably wouldn't be cool with it especially if he said the dancers like him and I'd be especially pissed if he'd rather spend his b-day AT WORK than with me.
2007-03-08 01:44:27 · answer #1 · answered by Vivita 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your that worried about go to the strip club and celebrate with him. Get a private booth and give your man a lap dance at the club. Show him that you have as much as the strippers that he works with have and it keeps the spice in your relationship.
2007-03-08 09:46:45 · answer #2 · answered by PASSIONATE LOVE 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes it is very bad if your in a relationship and you have a family at haom to take care of, but you a at a strip club. that could really make you lose some thinks in your life.
2007-03-08 09:55:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was ok with it-plus he came back to ME all worked up too. Plus i enjoy going once a year too-he never went with me-said it would be too odd, but always wanted too, think it woulda been real erotic
2007-03-08 09:45:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really, cuz I've seen the things they do. Even if your man keeps his hands to himself, it doesn't matter cuz the girls don't anyway.
2007-03-08 09:49:55 · answer #5 · answered by angelbaby 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I wouldn't feel comfortable but then, he doesn't work at one either.
2007-03-08 09:45:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there any option for u other than tolerating.
2007-03-08 09:58:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my guy doesn't but your guy works there...of course he is going to socialize with his co-workers...don't you?
2007-03-08 09:44:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋