My man is always on the net sending IMs. He always tries to close out whatever web page he is on. I feel that I need to give him an ultimative that he either gives up the internet women or lose me. Am I being to controlling or am I doing the right thing?
2007-03-08 01:42:25 · 19 answers · asked by PASSIONATE LOVE 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YOU ARE DEFINITELY DOING THE RIGHT THING. THAT IS THE SAME AS CHEATING. IF HE DON'T WANT TO BE FAITHFUL THEN YOU DON'T NEED TO BE IN THE RELATIONSHIP. GOOD LUCK.
2007-03-08 01:49:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have trust in him a bit. your obviously a bit too self conscious and just because he closes some page out doesn't mean he is doing something wrong, just that he wants his privacy. lighten up a bit seriously and then see what happens he may be doing things like this cause he feel like you're your being too controlling in which you are in my eyes. don't get me wrong i know that some guys do cheat this way and are dogs for it! however you obviously don't have all the facts. relax and enjoy life if he cheats lose him but if not and there is only suspicions. wait till you have all the facts to give him an ultimatum that could end something over nothing serious. and it looks to me like you havent trusted him from the get go.
2007-03-08 09:57:37 · answer #2 · answered by patricia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your doing the right thing and your not being controlling because if you were doing it he would probably tell you to do the same thing. Besides what is he on the Internet for if he has you and you should be enough.
2007-03-08 09:49:03 · answer #3 · answered by Lady T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No your not being too controlling. If he is not spending time with you you are the one being neglected. And what is he doing IM females if they are not friends I would wonder especially if you walk in the room and he is trying to close the window. if he had nothing to hide he wouldnt be doing that. Kick his *** to the curb and find a man who wants a real women not some fantasy im
2007-03-08 09:48:05 · answer #4 · answered by bbinqueens33 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you're being too controlling, but do you have proof that he's talking to women on the net or are you just assuming? It might be good to have some evidence before you sit him down for a talk.
2007-03-08 09:46:04 · answer #5 · answered by Vivita 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
youre definatly doing the right thing! is he on the net looking for other females?if so,then give him the boot.dont put up with that crap.love yourself and dont let anyone make you feel like you have to "share ur man".please know that the internet is another way of people cheating on their partner,cuz they can always arrange for a "meeting".GIVE HIM THE BOOT!
2007-03-08 09:50:45 · answer #6 · answered by fishin for answer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is apparently trying to hide something. Cheating is cheating. On the inter-net, over the phone or anywhere or anyway else. If this man really cares about you, he will gladly give up pursuit of all other "activities". If he isn't willing to do that then you know where you stand. Tell him to "kiss off" and move on to someone who appreciates you. Just my opinion.
2007-03-08 10:00:57 · answer #7 · answered by sarge 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are doing the right thing, if he is happy w/ you and loves you then he wont need internet girls.
I wouldnt want my guy doing that....
I think you should give him the choice.
2007-03-08 09:46:21 · answer #8 · answered by chelseylauren2007 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
in a way you are being too controling but in another sense you are just looking out for your self and your future together. so no you are not wrong.
2007-03-08 09:47:38 · answer #9 · answered by yoshi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're doing the right thing. He should be spending more time with you and not IM'ing other women at all.
2007-03-08 09:47:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋