I met this girl about 3 months ago. I wasn't immediately attracted to her; but we became really close really fast. She's been with the same guy for a long time; I chose not to do anything, but I started becoming very attracted to her, but I knew I shouldn't do anything.
So when this other girl asked me out, I said yes. She's cool too, pretty, fun to be with, we have things in common....yet, I can't stop thinking about the first girl, it has almost come to the point of being an obsession, problem is...now we're very good friends...
I was suppose to have dinner today with the first girl, but she had to cancel; I was looking forward to having dinner with her. The first girl is now on a break from her boyfriend. I care more about the first girl than the girl I am going out with now...
What should I do?
2007-03-08 01:45:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the 1st thing you have to do is talk to your current gf about how you feel and set things straight with her. Then you need to talk to the other girl and see where you stand and if theres a chance that the two of you could ever be together. And if there is a chance.....Go For It!!!
2007-03-08 01:53:05 · answer #1 · answered by juli3b3thx11 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the girl you want has broken up with her boyfriend, ask her out. If the girl you're currently seeing thinks the two of you are in a mutually exclusive relationship (e.g. "going steady") then you have to set things right with her first and make it clear that you're not ready for just one woman.
2007-03-08 09:48:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u really have feelings like this for the first one, than my dear frnd u r really in love with her. U should not be wasting ur time with other girls rather u should prefer getting her to know u and i'm sure she'll understand ur feelings
2007-03-08 09:48:56 · answer #3 · answered by nitro_khan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all break up with the girl its not fair to her that you so obsessed with someone else tell the first girl how you feel and take things fom there
2007-03-08 09:52:25 · answer #4 · answered by lisa r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends. If you are looking for something serious, go with girl number one. If not, stick with girl number two.
2007-03-08 09:48:55 · answer #5 · answered by Mark M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take care of what u have than what u may or may not get.
2007-03-08 10:07:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax! You want what we all want. You're just overthinking the situation.
2007-03-08 09:52:33 · answer #7 · answered by Bart Simpson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm......try to forget the first gurl if she has a bf...
if she's had a break up...try to put forth ur feelings for her !
hope that helped :)
2007-03-08 09:49:58 · answer #8 · answered by ღ♥~Samantha~♥ღ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have a 3 sum heheheeh
2007-03-08 09:48:37 · answer #9 · answered by licksuckslut 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
follow your heart
2007-03-08 09:48:20 · answer #10 · answered by Jerrica Starlight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋