I decided to talk to the girl I miss and tel lher how I really feel about her, that I just want us to be friends again. The only thing is that I love her. I also think she's got to be the most beautiful girl I've ever seen even though my boys think she's just alright. I implied I was in love with her the last time we talked (online), saying "peope do stupid things when they're in love." She said " YOU WAS NOT IN LOVE, so dont say that, stop talking like that!" Since then we haven't talked in a long time (months), I gave her space. I want to tell her how I really feel, but do I need to keep the fact that I love her to myself to keep from scaring her off or worse?
2007-03-08 00:04:44 · 9 answers · asked by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Begging4love123 said what I was getting at, I basically want to tell her I care about her.
2007-03-08 00:12:03 · update #1
Honesty is the best policy...by all means, tell her all that's in your heart but only when she's comfortable with you and interested to pursue a relationship with you. You only implied that you were in love with her just by saying people do stupid things when they're in love. Did you actually tell her that you are in love with her? Oh gosh! She must be thinking that you're in love with someone else! Does this tell you why she has been avoiding you or why you both haven't been talking for a long time? And you are giving her space??? Hey, wake up before it's too late. She might be someone else' if you are still asleep.
2007-03-08 00:18:25 · answer #1 · answered by superb2dmax 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you love her, don't beat around the bush. Don't just "imply" you love her. If you love her, clearly tell her how you feel and be sure she understand it is not a joke or just some idea you're playing around. I would stop short of saying "love," because she might not take you seriously. Love takes time and usually a girl thinks you're just after sex or playing games if you say "love" before she thinks it is love. If she doesn't express at least an desire to see where it goes with you, then let her go. You can't make someone love you if they don't.
2007-03-08 08:10:51 · answer #2 · answered by Roger S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is not reciprocating your love brother. Tell her one more time you have deep feelings for her but don't go into detail. If she doesn't feel the same, move on. She isn't worth the headache. Especially if you think the "just friends" crap will work. It won't because you will always be angry about her boyfriends. Walk away and make her chase you. She'll do it once you tell her to pound sand. But......be careful what you wish for as you may get it.
2007-03-08 08:09:55 · answer #3 · answered by Jim from the Midwest 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If shes the kind of girl that doesnt want to hear that your in love with her then dont tell her that.. tell her that you really care about her and want to be with her. That shouldnt scare her off.. but it'll make her think
2007-03-08 08:08:20 · answer #4 · answered by begging4love123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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Man, DON'T DO IT! Real talk, bruh.
Spill your guts or show your hand and she'll know EVERY card you have.
You will be viewed as "soft" in her eyes - she will never admit it, but trust me.
She'll begin to stretch the limits to test you - because she KNOWS how you feel. You're asking for a headache.
NEVER SHOW ALL YOUR CARDS.
If you want to come clean, then give her a sample.
Divulge your true feelings (all of them) and you'll be run over.
MOST honest/mature women will tell you that.
One love............
2007-03-08 08:40:32 · answer #5 · answered by HottNikkels 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are on the very edge of stalking her! Back off before you really frighten her away.
2007-03-08 08:11:39 · answer #6 · answered by wheeliebin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't sound right for you. I don't see why she had to get so worked up. Find someone more suitable for you in temperament and like.
2007-03-08 08:13:24 · answer #7 · answered by Bugsy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is short. Don't waste time.Start now.
2007-03-08 08:15:59 · answer #8 · answered by arun m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi rainy da,
of course otherwise how they will be the true? enjoy the life!
2007-03-08 08:09:33 · answer #9 · answered by amarnath 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋