Everyone else is fine because they were not the ones screwed over. This is family and I want to be over it too. Besides the sh** starting "confrontation" factor, what can I do to not let it boil up inside of me?
2007-03-08 00:38:38 · 4 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Give it time.Take care of you.Pamper yourself - spa, massage, makeover, new hairstyle, new outfit, dinner at your favourite restaurant, etc. whatever makes you feel good about yourself. You are worth it.
Take a martial arts class, great for relieving stress and eventually enables you to rise above ignorance. Set barriers, let no one cross them. List consequences,stick to them.
Pray
2007-03-08 04:07:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't be silent about anything that upset me. Get it out in the open. When that wasn't possible I picked up an aluminum
baseball bat and hit a tree until I couldn't feel my hands. That
made me think of my sore hands before I thought of anything else!!!
2007-03-08 01:19:37 · answer #2 · answered by Williamstown 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think of it this way, you know how you feel about the situation and you know that it hurt you, but does it make anything better by not forgiving or forgiving think about yourself. your hurting yourself more than this person has hurt you by not forgiving. Your causing more pain to yourself by not forgiving that person becuase your the one that was affected by it more than that person. Your giving power to that person and its draining you. By you letting go of what that person did to you (meaning truely forgiving them) your taking that power back. Overcome evil with good . Sometimes it will make you feel good even if it makes the other person feel bad but the truth is the truth.
2007-03-08 01:01:13 · answer #3 · answered by lovemefalif 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forgive and be happy, and obey your family. so there wont be a betrayal
2007-03-08 00:52:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋