my boyfriend recently told me that he had sex with a girl (shes a complete whore) last year. he was having a hard time when he first moved here and took the wrong way out. im the only person hes ever told, he said he thought i should know because he loves me and doesnt want anything to come between us, but it still kinda hurts. i know he feels terrible about it, you can tell. i go to a small school so you see everyone all the time, he cant even look at her, i always wondered why but i guess i know now. i love him very much, and i know he loves me. how do i get over this news, and can love conquer all?
2007-03-08 00:50:32 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Easy, accept that no matter what he did with her it doesn't compare to what he is doing with you. If you accept that and still feel bad your being selfish. Get over it. Just being honest, don't let past hold you back in a relationship are you'll have a lot more hell to come.... and no love doesn't conquer all but it gives people the motivation to do it their ownselves. Got to think of love as just the beganing, out of love comes the actions that are ether compassionate or passionate. Start showing some compassion babygirl it seems you already understand, now feel like you understand....
2007-03-09 06:27:27 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋