i m 20 yrs old guy &in love with 7yrs elder girl. she got married with a NRI &in USA from 3months. today i got her mail. i love her very much& can,t live without her. plz help me?
2007-03-08 00:43:31 · 21 answers · asked by saurabh k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You were "you" before she came along, and you will still be "you" now that she's gone. Get out there, meet other girls, and let this one go. She is married. Do not answer her mail or try to be "friends" with a married woman. You're only asking for her husband to come and rip your throat out. Leave well enough alone and celebrate your singleness.
2007-03-08 00:47:11 · answer #1 · answered by Kyle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
saurav....just wake up.... you are a part of a bad nightmare my friend!!!
the girl is gone and you cant't do anyhting about it. that's a fact.
the age factor is very potent in INDIA!! even if she was not married to anyone, i am sure you would never get her
20 years !! just 20 years you are...go get a career first... grab the opportunities around you..AND listen although people say LOVE IS GREAT N ALL THAT...life is no fairy tale...or a stupid movie
so don't waste your time like this... time is the more important thing in life... much more than that girl
3months ....3 years...and so on.. you will live since you are a human being... i m sure you will find a way out
2007-03-08 01:11:51 · answer #2 · answered by deyyboan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you need to re-check yourself here. You maybe to go somewhere and be alone and get back in touch with yourself and reality. If she is in fact married, that is gonna lead to some major problems. Men seem to be a little more possessive than most think when it comes to this and could even lead to violence. If she is seeing you on the side beware, You are gonna get caught! Then what? If she wants you like you want her then it is up to her to free her self from her present situation. She needs to do this with no involvement from you and you had nothing to do with getting them to this point! Stay out of that period! If she elects to remove herself then you have opportunity for a possible relationship. She may be using you to accomplish this for herself dude. Now another thing to look at, if she will do this to her husband now, what makes you think she would not do this sort of thing to you? Even could be easier the second time! Experience You know! Be aware of the downfalls from this and look out for number one which you don't seem to be. Your emotions, though strong right now, can be controlled through positive attitude and desire to do what is right. Go figure it out man. Good Luck!
2007-03-08 01:02:32 · answer #3 · answered by oskkid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can most certainly live without her. Nevertheless you are not living without her , because she has written to you. Get together with some other friends and hang out with them . So you can get your ming far from this way of thinking. this world is filled with other people and each one is different and unique . Chances of you finding another person whom you will eventually feel the same way about even more so is 100%. So get out there and start meeting different people.
2007-03-08 00:54:33 · answer #4 · answered by unsocialyelite 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the age diffrence shouldnt make a diffrence my hubby is 10 years older than i.
and there is always a chance things might not work out. but in the meantime tell her how you feel and let nature run its course.
date and meet other people until u relize either it will or will not happen...
2007-03-08 00:48:04 · answer #5 · answered by dazed n confused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know it feels but you have to make your heart understand.........
she is married now she is not yours
if she would have loved u then she would not have married with some another guy
age doesnt matter in love but you r just 20
you have to shape up your career
and now as she is married you have to forget her
she sent you an e-mail.........
she may be treating you as one friend
not more than this......because sending e-mail to friend is very common thing......
try to understand
2007-03-08 01:07:21 · answer #6 · answered by inspy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Build a replica of her out of used body parts. There are probably lots of options floating down the ganges.
2007-03-08 00:47:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Last 3 months how you lived without her? Change your mind otherwise you will become a psycho.
2007-03-08 00:49:25 · answer #8 · answered by tsiva_4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U are late but now u cannot arry her so now u should control your fellings for her Iunderstand tht it would not be easy for u but still u have to do so.u should concentrate more on what u do and to forget her.
2007-03-08 01:03:19 · answer #9 · answered by Divya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first u have to make it clear that she too loves u or not...if she do then there is no problem go and get her...and if she didn't loves u then no need to waste ur time... just look after ur career and family...
2007-03-08 02:29:08 · answer #10 · answered by pink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋