ok me and my bf have been together for 7 months ...and well we are having problems...i asked him if he would call me more cuz he never odes and then he goes off on me saying if i wanted to talk to him i'd call ...........and gosh i need some advice ..sometimes i wonder what goes on in a guy's head...anywhoo...and well i barely see him...and well i dunno
what should i do?
2007-03-08 00:40:18 · 11 answers · asked by juggalette jade 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Unfortunately you did not say your ages, so I am just guessing you are both fairly young.
Maybe he is just not as in to you are you are him, I would say to you don`t call him for a while and see how long it takes him to call you.
If he complains then just tell him if he wanted to talk to you HE WOULD CALL YOU.
Us guys really play hard to get more times than girls think but trust me we do like the attention, just a bit embarrassed to call if friends around sometimes.
2007-03-08 00:52:08 · answer #1 · answered by Archie. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You two should be seeing each other at least two times a week maybe three. As fars as phone calls go it doesnt really matter if you two are seeing each other. If thats happening your ok but if its not then you may want to consider other options. Now I dont know if this is a long distance thing or something like that but if he is unwilling to talk/see you something else may be going on.
2007-03-08 00:46:39 · answer #2 · answered by ski025025 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What I would really like to say, is talk to him...but yes, i know what you mean and talking to him aint as simple as it sounds....isit?lol
Well try calling him and see if anything changes.
Also who would you say is in control of the relationship? Who 'calls the shots'? If its him, YOU start 'calling the shots'.
Make him want you not the otherway round.
I think that the saying treat them mean keep them keen, is true with some guys, and it seem like it may be with yours. He should worship the ground you walk on not 'go off on one'.
You deserve better!
I hope this works!
xxxx
2007-03-08 00:47:28 · answer #3 · answered by little_millsey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-30 09:27:41 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
too bad... well, guys are like that... they enter into a relationship which they cannot handle well and when they are tired of it and want to end it they cannot be honest enough to tell their girl about their real feelings. so the girls are left alone floating in the air not knowing where to go and what to do, sending questions to yahoo answers and getting answers from strangers...
hmmm, get real girl... forget him, move on and you'll soon meet the right guy for you... good luck!
2007-03-08 00:52:23 · answer #5 · answered by enigmaticenegue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's may now be the right guy for you. Seriously think about moving along
2007-03-08 00:45:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont want to be a but. but when u really like someone u care about that person and u call her( one call is enough) so he may be pasing time with u
2007-03-08 00:50:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that if he if really cared for you he would call you more often, but on the other hand he could care for you in his own weird way.but i think you should just talk to him and find out how much he really care's
2007-03-08 00:54:11 · answer #8 · answered by K the lost 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then fix the solution
2007-03-08 00:47:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-03-08 00:47:43 · answer #10 · answered by 8-tentacles-of-AAnsweroni 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋