Family & Relationships - 28 February 2007

How do you know when you are ready to have sex? I have been with my boyfriend for 3 months. But how do you know when you're ready?

2007-02-28 17:41:11 · 21 answers · asked by Tempest6768 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 33 years old and my girlfriend is 30 years old. Her feelings for me is very deep. She loves me so much. She wants me to marry her and I know it. She's been holding my hand and leading me to engagement rings. I caught her looking at a bridal magazine. We have been together for 8 years. I like her as a friend and not more than a friend. I've been keeping her only for sex. We started to have sex 2 years ago. I was about to dump her 2 years and a week ago since we didn't started having sex yet. I'm thankful that she wanted to have sex with me after that 1 week passed. I starting tell her "I love you" 7 years ago. I am always loyal and faithful to her. I am only using her for sex. I will not break up with her nor ever leave her until her death or my death. Instead of paying a hoe money, I can get sex with my girlfriend this way. I am still sexually attracted to her. and plus, if I did pay a hoe to have sex with me, I might get STDs. When I am 65 and still horny, I can have sex with her

2007-02-28 17:40:47 · 14 answers · asked by Xian C 1 in Weddings

I am 33 years old and my girlfriend is 30 years old. Her feelings for me is very deep. She loves me so much. She wants me to marry her and I know it. She's been holding my hand and leading me to engagement rings. I caught her looking at a bridal magazine. We have been together for 8 years. I like her as a friend and not more than a friend. I've been keeping her only for sex. We started to have sex 2 years ago. I was about to dump her 2 years and a week ago since we didn't started having sex yet. I'm thankful that she wanted to have sex with me after that 1 week passed. I starting tell her "I love you" 7 years ago. I am always loyal and faithful to her. I am only using her for sex. I will not break up with her nor ever leave her until her death or my death. Instead of paying a hoe money, I can get sex with my girlfriend this way. I am still sexually attracted to her. and plus, if I did pay a hoe to have sex with me, I might get STDs. When I am 65 and still horny, I can have sex with her

2007-02-28 17:40:18 · 6 answers · asked by Xian C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 33 years old and my girlfriend is 30 years old. Her feelings for me is very deep. She loves me so much. She wants me to marry her and I know it. She's been holding my hand and leading me to engagement rings. I caught her looking at a bridal magazine. We have been together for 8 years. I like her as a friend and not more than a friend. I've been keeping her only for sex. We started to have sex 2 years ago. I was about to dump her 2 years and a week ago since we didn't started having sex yet. I'm thankful that she wanted to have sex with me after that 1 week passed. I starting tell her "I love you" 7 years ago. I am always loyal and faithful to her. I am only using her for sex. I will not break up with her nor ever leave her until her death or my death. Instead of paying a hoe money, I can get sex with my girlfriend this way. I am still sexually attracted to her. and plus, if I did pay a hoe to have sex with me, I might get STDs. When I am 65 and still horny, I can have sex with her

2007-02-28 17:39:37 · 3 answers · asked by Xian C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok my dating life is so twisted, heres a bit of a back story and it is all true. Ok well my ex from 2005 came back into my life in 2006 when I started dating this new girl and I cheated on the new girl with that ex for 3 months then ended it. Then my ex got pregnant by another guy. And now the girl I dated in 2006 is my ex and I dated her best friend for a while this year. And today my ex from 2005 best friend just told me she wants to be with me. So I'm just wondering what is about me that my exs best friends go after me to and now my ex that I cheated on wants to get back with me and my ex from 05 still likes me even though shes with the father of her baby and my ex from last years best friend also told me last week she misses me and the what shes feeling is strong. What is it about me? Is just the type of girls I date? What should I do? (AND YES THIS IS ALL TRUE AND I AM STRESSED OUT FROM IT ALL)

2007-02-28 17:38:29 · 7 answers · asked by spayhappy 4 in Singles & Dating

Here is a strange sum up of my marriage. When we wed I had to pick who's last name would change. Hers or my son's. My son was born before we wed and took her maiden name.

My wife is Bi-polar, borderline personality disorder and has fibromalgia.

I did everything I could to keep her happy including a brief interlude of a threesome with one of our friends. Who she later went and had an affair with and lied to me about it.

She has an attempted suicide attempt along with very bad housekeeping habits. I'll come home from working 14 hours and my kids are not bathed and dressed. Having free run of the house the whole day.

I care for her but can honestly say I don't love her anymore. Been thinking of divorce and started to build a case for custody. I just would like more feelings from others. Its a hard road to pick to travel but since she cheated on me I have been falling into a state of false happiness and now can say I have not been happy for over 2 years now.

2007-02-28 17:38:07 · 18 answers · asked by Todd C 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I caught my husbands affairs 2 months ago, yes the wh##e is also married and yes they met on christian dating site,my life and my kids life changed because of his insecurity.This is what he said to the councelor. No problem in bed,his the one who don't know how to please. Now while he was on this adultery mood, he took his wh##e to the place that sacred to me,like the beaches that I go to think. We even took our kids to those beaches, and now he used it to meet and be with her. He can't even understand why I felt disgusted,disturbed for what he did. He knows that I don't have feelings towards him anymore since he told me that he cares deeply for her, and my kids as well too. I'm amazed after 22 years of loving him unconditional love, just like that my love died. So if your spouse,did the same thing to you married people, will you do what I did,(even I know the answers ). Thanks all, no need to feel bad for my situation,cause itys not me who lost something,but him..

2007-02-28 17:37:52 · 12 answers · asked by islandgirl06 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 33 years old and my girlfriend is 30 years old. Her feelings for me is very deep. She loves me so much. She wants me to marry her and I know it. She's been holding my hand and leading me to engagement rings. I caught her looking at a bridal magazine. We have been together for 8 years. I like her as a friend and not more than a friend. I've been keeping her only for sex. We started to have sex 2 years ago. I was about to dump her 2 years and a week ago since we didn't started having sex yet. I'm thankful that she wanted to have sex with me after that 1 week passed. I starting tell her "I love you" 7 years ago. I am always loyal and faithful to her. I am only using her for sex. I will not break up with her nor ever leave her until her death or my death. Instead of paying a hoe money, I can get sex with my girlfriend this way. I am still sexually attracted to her. and plus, if I did pay a hoe to have sex with me, I might get STDs. When I am 65 and still horny, I can have sex with her

2007-02-28 17:37:33 · 3 answers · asked by Xian C 1 in Singles & Dating

Would you read a book that is the collection of e-mails/letters sent to the best friend of the female Author during her late 20s, detailing her humorous yet frustrating hunt for love through handfuls of internet dates, bar hook ups, and friendly meetings?

The author gives no dating advice, and by no means claims to be a love expert. this is simply a book to entertain the masses who have (or have not) been through the dating wringer. The stories are humorous in a tonge-in-cheek fashion and discuss dates with 20 different men, some leading to more interesting dates while others fizzled after the first meeting.

2007-02-28 17:35:59 · 10 answers · asked by foreveryoung 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay gentleman... Got a question for you!

I'm dating a really great guy. He's the type who likes to show his care and feelings with how he treats me. He treats me wonderful and full of respect. Which is great. But, like every female who's ever walked the earth. I want to hear it. And is like pulling teeth when talking about feelings. So... what is the best way to approach a guy, and get him to talk about what's in his heart and share what's in mine, without being a psyco nag!?

2007-02-28 17:35:26 · 12 answers · asked by lilnickle144 2 in Singles & Dating

We will get married soon, but sometimes we bump on each others ego. I love her trully and I am willing to change and sacrifice my priorities in exchange for peace, harmony and for a lasting marriage.

2007-02-28 17:32:53 · 22 answers · asked by General Josh 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok, i told this guy that i like him and he told me that he likes me back so i was really excited. but, now he isnt mentioning anything else about it so is our relationship just dead? is it going to go anywhere or what? help!

2007-02-28 17:32:20 · 11 answers · asked by dellcutegirl 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-28 17:31:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Yesterday was my birthday and none of my friends even called me. I call and take them out for dinner, etc. So should I confront them?

2007-02-28 17:30:12 · 10 answers · asked by Peanut Butter 5 in Friends

OK so this is going to sound bad but just answer the question. So I am 29 and have been dating this woman for 6 years. She has done some untrustworthy things to me over the years (cheated, lied on several occassions) and while she has done a lot of good, her mother has been divorced 3x and she grew up in a broken home. Anyway....we are thinking of getting married, but I make a lot of money and will make a lot more in the future and want to protect myself if she ever f's up (like cheats or lies or tried to leave me for another man). If I do something bad...fine..my fault, but if she just goes crazy I don't want her having much. Anyway...thinking of getting a prenup...anyone know how specific I can be? I live in California.

2007-02-28 17:29:50 · 5 answers · asked by micg70 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-28 17:28:25 · 22 answers · asked by x_cinnamon22_x 2 in Singles & Dating

I remember our love life when we were young and it was great and exciteing and daring but after 29yrs its just seems to be more pleasing we dont get it on in the closets of restarnts or in the back of the boat but it s still more pleasing the avg times in the week hasnt change much how bout you

2007-02-28 17:28:17 · 10 answers · asked by Msdeb gee 6 in Marriage & Divorce

theres this guy that i have a crush on and we went to winter formal together (i asked him lol :) and since then we have been casual friends i suppose and now our sadie hawkins is coming up and i would like to ask him but the problem is:
1. its at a theme park, which will be lame (not the whole park will be open and i dont care for rollercoasters too much :/ so i wouldnt want to ruin the fun for him becuase i dont want to go on them)
2. i dont know if he likes me more than a friend and i dont want to seem desperate, since ive already asked him to the last dance.

i was thinking of maybe asking him but going somewhere else instead. i dont know..... should i do that?

thanks :)

2007-02-28 17:28:07 · 14 answers · asked by ... 3 in Singles & Dating

I never do housework at home,I don't know how to do it,plus,I don't want to do it.My mother said no one would marry me in the future.After I went to other city for education,I have to do a little housework such as cleaning the dorm,and do my laundry.But many times when I washing my clothes,my hands got hurt and bleeding.
I'm not worried about that.

2007-02-28 17:27:47 · 29 answers · asked by ♡Ling♫ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

sometimes when i close my eyez and press them shut with my fingers i see different color dots....like different color stars < just wandering if that happens to other ppl and why the heck does that happen?>

2007-02-28 17:26:53 · 11 answers · asked by lucie 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over a year, we've been living together for about the same amount of time. Things happened, long story. Anyway, over Christmas he took me to CA to meet his family and friends and we are constantly together. Sometimes he talks about us being old and he asks me about how I'd feel if he'd re-enlist, chose a different career, etc. He had a dream lately, that we were in a foreign country on vacation and I said something about "girlfriend. He said, "well actually, yeah.. girlfriend." I think he thinks about it but isn't ready to admit it or make that step, he's in his mid twenties. what do you think?

2007-02-28 17:26:31 · 8 answers · asked by iman_tx22 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-28 17:25:48 · 12 answers · asked by cooldude 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm a 26-year-old virgin. I'm dealing with a lot of people around me who think there is something wrong with me for still being a virgin at my age. They tend to think there is something wrong with me for still having it and not wanting to give it up so easily--even my family thinks this. My reasons used to be largely religious but a few years ago I had to reconstruct my belief system after my family fell apart, I only learned how to masturbate two years ago, and I have very strong feelings about sharing my body with someone else before I am ready. My deeper problem is letting someone get close enough to me for me to eventually be ready, as I have a very limited trust of men right now. I'm convinced they are all alike and yet I can't do sex for the sake of sex....it is deeper to me than that. Honestly, am I so wrong for retaining my virginity, and not buckling under pressure from others, no matter their comments might hurt me? Am I right in sticking to my guns?

2007-02-28 17:25:30 · 4 answers · asked by zeoviolet 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Once in awhile in a relationship, someone says something really immortal that you always remember long after you've parted ways. It can be, good, bad, gut-wrenching, romantic, whatever.

2007-02-28 17:23:34 · 64 answers · asked by Katrine 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok so basically I've come to the wise for help. I am 15 and have my girlfriend. We do love each other very much and we have great fun times with each other. We've been going out for about year and a half and everything seems perfect. But now my family wants to move out of state to the west. (I live in NY) Probably I won't be able to see her at all. Any advice guys?? I've told my family the main reason why I want to stay and that I would work if money is the problem. They said it's not and deny to tell me the reason why. XD why should I do??

2007-02-28 17:23:24 · 7 answers · asked by SilverFox 1 in Family

ok for v-day a few weeks ago...i gave this girl a hand made card...but she doesnt seem too interested ...or maybe shes just shy but anyways i wanna make friends with her instead cause i dont want her to feel uncomfortable around me so...i wan to tell her that....umm..i think we start off the wrong foot...i knew the card was a dumb idea but at least now u know how i feel...anyways i want to get to know u cause u seem like a fasinating person ...so wanna be friends....heres my email ....blah blah "?

2007-02-28 17:23:22 · 6 answers · asked by -{s0c}- 2 in Singles & Dating

I was 18 at the time. I gave this guy my heart and soul. (Big mistake) Of course he played games and I let him. (Another big mistake) I though that if I stuck with him through the good and the bad he would see that I was the one for him. (BIG MISTAKE). SO it's been about 1 year since we have stopped talking totally. He has moved on with his life and so have I but I still feel myself lusting over him and then regretting him for leaving me. But my problem now is that I’m a hard a** to guys. To protect my feelings. And as you may know I’m not getting any where being like that. I know that I have to change the way I think about man but it is so much easier said then done. So what I guess I'm asking is how can you let your guard down to be able to give the next guy your all? No baggage.

2007-02-28 17:23:10 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

From a females perspective or point of view, for what reason(s) would a girl look at a guy,and when the guy looks up at her, she turns away as if she wasnt looking or dont want you to know shes looking?

2007-02-28 17:23:03 · 15 answers · asked by GRS 1 in Singles & Dating

well its not a club we are just lookin for a name for our group , ok i thought the gr8 girl was ok but nvm my frend want somfin beta, ok thers one
skateboarder, gangster, senstive but very nice crybaby , braniac um shes sorta wanabe popular girly girl , book worm, girly tomboy sk8ta , samoan i kno weird group, anyways who can think of a good name not for a club but a group
i kno werid group

2007-02-28 17:22:46 · 2 answers · asked by Chinky 4 in Friends

ok what to do if a guy says that he loves you and he want's to be with you, but the very next day he treat you like any other person? What I mean is that he will hug me kiss, he act like he can't live with out me. Soon his action tell me different. Does this mean that he is playing with my emotions? or does it means something else. We have been together for a while. IT's not like I don't know him. I just want to know if he is falling out of love with or he still do he just don't show it all the time. Should I be worried?

2007-02-28 17:22:29 · 6 answers · asked by sweetmocha07031984 1 in Singles & Dating