Ok my dating life is so twisted, heres a bit of a back story and it is all true. Ok well my ex from 2005 came back into my life in 2006 when I started dating this new girl and I cheated on the new girl with that ex for 3 months then ended it. Then my ex got pregnant by another guy. And now the girl I dated in 2006 is my ex and I dated her best friend for a while this year. And today my ex from 2005 best friend just told me she wants to be with me. So I'm just wondering what is about me that my exs best friends go after me to and now my ex that I cheated on wants to get back with me and my ex from 05 still likes me even though shes with the father of her baby and my ex from last years best friend also told me last week she misses me and the what shes feeling is strong. What is it about me? Is just the type of girls I date? What should I do? (AND YES THIS IS ALL TRUE AND I AM STRESSED OUT FROM IT ALL)
2007-02-28 17:38:29 · 7 answers · asked by spayhappy 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are a cheater,
this implies you are emotionally stunted,
hence you will only find emptiness as you age.
2007-02-28 17:42:53 · answer #1 · answered by ★Greed★ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After reading your heart felt story I think this is what you mean to say.......
Is it something about me that GUYS can't get enough of or is it the type of GUYS I go for?
Ok my dating life is so twisted, heres a bit of a back story and it is all true. Ok well my ex from 2005 came back into my life in 2006 when I started dating this new GUY and I cheated on the new GUY with that ex for 3 months then ended it. And now the GUY I dated in 2006 is my ex and I dated HIS best friend for a while this year. And today my ex from 2005 best friend just told me HE wants to be with me. So I'm just wondering what is about me that my exs best friends go after me to and now my ex that I cheated on wants to get back with me and my ex from 05 still likes me even though HE"S with the father of HIS baby and my ex from last years best friend also told me last week HE misses me and the what HE"S feeling is strong. What is it about me? Is just the type of GUYS I date? What should I do? (AND YES THIS IS ALL TRUE AND I AM STRESSED OUT FROM IT ALL)
try to find a nice guy to settle down with and not the guys that want a quick backdoor banging.....
2007-03-01 01:48:32 · answer #2 · answered by Iam_canadian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its simple, you first have to work out why they became ex-s.
You see 9 times out of 10 when a girl says she wants to break up, she thinks its going to reduce a guy into a blubbering wreck and hes going to promise to change and do anything she wants to stay together.
Now when a guy doesnt do that, she feels thats the worst thing that could happen, its almost like HE dumped her!
The point being just cos a girl SAYS she wants to break up doesnt mean she really means it, thats why they keep coming back, its almost as if they called your bluff and lost and now they give in to you.
2007-03-01 01:48:49 · answer #3 · answered by vaivagabundo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok take a deep breath and relax. As hard as it may be, you should stay single for a while. Thats messed up how you cheated on your ex. Thats just not cool, I bet it hurt her. So yeah just stay away from girls, be single for a while, flirt and whatever but just dont have a girl friend. it seems like theres a lot of stuff going on in your love life.
2007-03-01 01:43:30 · answer #4 · answered by Diana_Is_Amazing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's about you. Maybe you're a very handsome and lovable character that everyone gets envious about, and wants to be with by many. Of course, there always are girls that go for taken guys no matter what. It's your actions that will decide how they will react.
2007-03-01 01:44:16 · answer #5 · answered by -_- 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls just can;t get enough of you, whats the problem again here? You lost me at "hello."
2007-03-01 01:43:55 · answer #6 · answered by Dr. of Situational Psychology 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
decide who you want, and go for it.
2007-03-01 01:41:53 · answer #7 · answered by anthony 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋