2007-02-28 17:28:25 · 22 answers · asked by x_cinnamon22_x 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's not during sex when i cry its the next day after he/i leave each other's place. i just started doing this just recently and we've been together for 3 years. never cried before.
- no i dont have aids
- no hes not bad
- no hes not HUGE nor is he SMALL he's just big
2007-02-28 17:38:49 · update #1
Yes he's my first so I did lose my virginity to him. i love him to death as well as he loves me. he never forced me to have sex with him and he still doesn't force me to do things with him.
2007-02-28 17:50:33 · update #2
I'm going through the same thing so I feel for you - I cried because I didn't want it to end and I missed him so much when he wasn't near. This went on for some time. I broke up with mine yesterday - I couldn't stand the pain anymore, the sick to my stomach feeling and the depressed mood I got in when we would depart - I know that I really care and love him but it's not a 'whole' relationship - I want more of him, more time and more than the way it is right now. I don't think it's right to self-torturee myself - kind of crazy if you ask me.
2007-02-28 17:56:35 · answer #1 · answered by hot single mom 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Are you crying because you are not satisfied after wards? Are you crying because you feel lonely and want him to be with you all the time? Are you crying because you are or are not in love with him? Do you feel empty after sex? Are you satisfied? Is there more to your relationship then just having sex? See there are alot of questions that can be asked additionally about your one question. Think about these questions and then you may come up with your own answer. Good Luck with solving this problem. Feelings are very tricky and only you can get them under control.
2007-03-01 01:47:49 · answer #2 · answered by stuffy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you are feeling guilty or uncomfortable. Are you just starting to have sex with him for the first time? You might think you're ready and it feels right while you are with him, but then later you regret it. If so, my guess is you are not completely comfortable with it yet or you don't want to be having sex at all. If any of these reactions are the case, you should try talking to your boyfriend, telling him you feel, and setting some boundaries. Ask him to be patient with you and if he truly loves you, he will respect your feelings.
2007-03-01 01:39:26 · answer #3 · answered by kiki 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i know you have a mistake lady, a big mistake. but there is nothing you can do to take it back. You wished it, but its already on your past, what you could do is just move on.
If you are break up (bad case), dont so worry about it. Do not blame on yourself. it is gonna take you "a deeper wound" on your life. The most important thing is open chance to you. Just have a new life, be a good girl from that point on. What you need to by then is just think how make your life to be a better and much better person. LIfe is beautifull very wonderfull. Your life is not about that mistake.
"As long as you are breathing, you still have very wonderfull CHANCES to make you SUCCEEDS"
2007-03-01 01:43:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Either it's a hormone imbalance (totally natural) or he's bad in bed. I'm gonna guess it's the first reason. lol Go to your doctor and explain how you feel. He might put you on birth control pills to balance out your hormones. Don't feel bad, most of us girls get a little weepy once a month or after sex. That's just part of being a woman.
2007-03-01 01:33:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Do you think he doesn't "love" you? Is he faithful to you only? Are you jealous? Do yo want more of a commitment?
I have never cried the day after. I have cried right after because it can be that intense and emotional.
2007-03-01 01:38:01 · answer #6 · answered by GiGi 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There could be a million reasons for this....but if a girl started to cry during sex I would be getting a little nervous why she would be crying.
2007-03-01 01:36:01 · answer #7 · answered by Ranz 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There are many reasons to cry. Was he your first? did you lose your virginity to him? do you feel that you were educated not to give in like so? your question needs to be more specific. Also, how do you feel about your boyfriend? how does he treat you during intercourse? or could it be a compilation of things?
2007-03-01 01:33:19 · answer #8 · answered by Charlie H 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Do some soul searching, and check out how he makes you feel. How do you feel about yourself? Is he there for you or is it sex and good bye? You really need to look at things. Good luck
2007-03-01 01:35:09 · answer #9 · answered by rainingonme 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Your conscious is speaking to you, but you don't want to listen. I would bet that the sex satisfies him more than it does you. You're looking for an emotional connection, which you are not getting with this guy......Am I right?
2007-03-01 01:34:57 · answer #10 · answered by TwinkaTee 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋