Family & Relationships - 28 February 2007

Hi everybody, My girlfriend get very upset when ever I leave her place at night to go home. I work early in the mourning and I dont do well without sleep. If she comes to my house she usally leaves after I fall asleep, When this happens I have to get up to let her out and lock the door and she gets upset then too. She also needs someone to complain to, About whatever is going on in her life.She constantly tells me that her best friend sucks becuase " She dosent ask me how my day went." I might add this girl is her only good friend. And she seeks approval from her parents whom she dosent even like. Theres alot more stuff, but I dont wanna bore you guys. Let me know what you think. Thanks everyone.

2007-02-28 23:28:54 · 14 answers · asked by Peter fro 1 in Singles & Dating

is'nt there anyone you can trust nowadays?

2007-02-28 23:28:42 · 10 answers · asked by kitten 1 in Singles & Dating

i am a divorced independent lady who enjoys the company of men. I go out on dates,walking, dancing, the theatre.
i occasionally sleep with one of my men friends and he seems pretty cool about it. we never talk about feelings or commitment.he treats me with respect although sometimes he doesnt contact me for 2 -3 weeks do you think i am on dangerous emotional ground? should i stop having sex with him?
I get on really well with another male friend. he lives very close to me and is able to watch my comings and goings. We have a lot of fun and laughs and i know he really adores me,he is 15 years younger than me and rather shy with strong principles but i dont think i fancy him i dont want to hurt his feelings and i dont want him to know about my sexual encounters.
any suggestions about how to handle this?

2007-02-28 23:28:33 · 31 answers · asked by sweet cherie 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend love sexy and do sexy and he always want me to do sexy with him and i say no but now i really missed him very much and i love him too now he said to me to think about and call him when i get ready and i dont know if i do that or not .remember that i love him and i cant live without him tell me what will i do please dont say to me to say to him no because he will leave me for ever and i love him .i cant forget him please help me

2007-02-28 23:27:56 · 8 answers · asked by ME.....& LOVE 1 in Singles & Dating

Is the age of a man really super important. Is being older considered O.K. because of maturity or is it not good because men "peak" earlier than woman?

2007-02-28 23:26:51 · 3 answers · asked by Rich 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-28 23:25:52 · 16 answers · asked by kaps 1 in Singles & Dating

and why?

2007-02-28 23:24:33 · 21 answers · asked by tony r 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-28 23:22:03 · 17 answers · asked by Ker Plunk 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-28 23:19:47 · 21 answers · asked by tom b 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend has been engaged to his fiancee for a few months. They both love each other, but he only knew her for a week before they got engaged, and he came to me asking how he should tell her that he loves her. So I told him to talk to her, and he told me that he got engaged to her. And he has been lending her a lot of money. He has lent her over $5k AUD now, and its still going. She says that its for work,she comes from Malaysia, and that's how they do business in that country, is that she is a project coordinator and she collects clients and gets projects, that she has to pay them to hire her, and then if she does a good job they will pay her. I think that this is a lie, and she is just using him. What should I say to him? I don't want to tell him that she is using him, and that the relationship won't last.

2007-02-28 23:18:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

but not have sex with them. i mean guys do all the work when trying to get sex, unless the girl is a mindless slu/.t, which i doubt many are, unless they are bipolar, or have other issues,

2007-02-28 23:17:58 · 8 answers · asked by 7thwonder-answeronigreatness 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-28 23:17:24 · 10 answers · asked by Lucky 1 in Singles & Dating

What's the advantages and disadvantages

2007-02-28 23:17:15 · 9 answers · asked by STARS 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My fiancee has trouble with me having guy friends he doesn't know. He went to look at my phone last night and I took it away because a guy friend had texted me on advice about his GF. My faincee completely blew up saying that he'll get me back and he doesnt trust me.

What do I do? He says he never heard about this dude before but I had told him about me having lunch with him and another girl. I'm at a loss for what to do or say.. is he taking it too far?

2007-02-28 23:16:03 · 17 answers · asked by All I have to do is dream... 4 in Singles & Dating

i am just only 18 yrs old and i have been in a serious relationship.. i love my gf so much & she loves me also a lot. we've been so long but theres a guy who is trying 2 break our relationship. because the guy also love my girlfriend so much & he is doing everything to destroy my personality with my gf. i feel so bad about it!!! i don't want to seperate with my gf. i want 2 be married with her....... he is doing everything to get my gf from me. he is doing everything to stay away my gf from me... i do a lot of things 2 not stay her from me but i am very hopeless because my identity with my gf is already destroyed ...... i cannot affor 2 lose her....

2007-02-28 23:15:04 · 14 answers · asked by JP 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I dating a very tender girl and on the long run I stopped seeing for reasons that she was using me to get financial help and when we meet she doesn't allow me kiss her and sometime told me that I was not her `Diego' a romantic soap opera character who wa s in love battle for a girl he love. so after all these I saw her with another boy. pls was it right for me to have left her. hellllppp!!!(911)

2007-02-28 23:14:07 · 13 answers · asked by sheetpaul 1 in Singles & Dating

they have stopped dating each other but they love each other still

2007-02-28 23:12:49 · 12 answers · asked by cool girl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I would like to hear some sugestions to surprise my wife. Both romantic and hot&spicy answers are welcome.
Please do keep within reasonable respect.

Before you make your sugestions take this into consideration:
1 - We do have an interesting sex life and are pleased with it;
2 - I do make dinner oftern and bring home flowers often;
3 - I do book the occasional weekend out on surprise...

Now lets hear those suggestions. I'm most interested in suggestions from you ladies...

2007-02-28 23:08:32 · 14 answers · asked by night 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have decided to forgive my boyfriend, we were going out for 5 months then he cheated on me, he was then seeing that girl for over a year, he has only just been in touch and now i forgave him, he said he made a big mistake and he was scared but hes not anymore and likes to talk about our future, we are going to have a long distants relationship but are seeing each other every fortnight, i do trust him, just wondering if you all would trust him?

2007-02-28 23:07:53 · 28 answers · asked by pinklinz@btinternet.com 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm moving out in a few months, but my parents are treating me harshly/unfairly now. I'm 20 yrs old and not a partier/druggie or anything crazy, so they have nothing to worry about but they worry anyway, and their anxieties are driving me insane.
Also, I've read that kids lash out in anger when they're moving out in a subconscious effort to ease transition or something... Because I know my parents would hold that against me, I have been really careful with my attitude and everything, but they still treat me like I've done everything wrong.
An example is that I tried to help with unloading groceries one day and instead my dad just told me nastily to go away. They're constantly treating me like that with that attitude and I never get any apologies. They just assume that the problem has gone away since THEY got over it and if I haven't, it's because I'm grudge-holding or overreacting.
Any advice appreciated. I need to talk to them or I'll go nuts, any clues as to what I should say?

2007-02-28 23:06:29 · 14 answers · asked by Emma 1 in Family

My bf got very drunk couple weeks ago and he pushed me out of the way and slipped n fell on to some rocks and have cut my back n brusied it ..he helped me up but then he got really bad pulling my hair he even threw his kehab at me lol i no stupid but it was hot it went everywhere and he pushed me on my hands n knee's made me clean it up...he has never done anything like this before he just switched then all of a sudden he starts crying beggin me to forgive him he knows i dont trust him at all now after it but my mum said if he had hit me then it's classed as abuse and she thinks it was just the drink he didnt realise he was hurting me......

2007-02-28 23:06:19 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Did i do the right thing breaking up with him, cause now he wont leave me alone but i dont trust him anymore and i will never trust him

2007-02-28 23:06:07 · 15 answers · asked by Thandazo A 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-28 23:04:59 · 8 answers · asked by she 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok theres this girl i like and before i told her i liked her we were cool but after that she stopped talking to me. I really cared for her and i wanted to know why. This might sound bad (i thought it was for the greater good) but i cracked her myspace and read all her messages. It turns out this girl is holding inside a lot of emotions. Shes(emo) got the feeling of loneliness and has had guys mistreat her and take advantage of her for the longest of time. She plays a game called habbo which im assuming is her "escape" to be friendly to people. I really want to tell her i really care for her and want to help "pull her out of this emotional state" but i dont know by which way of doing it.

any advice would really help

2007-02-28 23:04:58 · 4 answers · asked by 281 Playa 2 in Singles & Dating

Is it cheating if you are involved in an emotionless mental relationship with someone other than your spouse? Secret meetings filled with intriguing and mentally stimulating conversation...no mention or actions of a sexual nature...EVER!!!

2007-02-28 23:04:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i am in love and thinking about it but what to know what age others do it??

2007-02-28 23:01:27 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-28 23:00:55 · 16 answers · asked by sally 4 in Singles & Dating

because when i broke up with my boyfriend i heard lots of break up songs that just made me fall to pieces, then i heard this song and thought it might be hard for people going through this to listen to this song without falling apart??

2007-02-28 22:59:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I want to get back with my ex. It is a difficult one to know what to do. She broke up with me because her feelings changed. This happened at exactly the same time she was depressed and admitted it but blamed us.

I could see when she was down and that was exactly the time when she took stuff out on me/us. She admitted that she gets down and pushes people she loves away.

I think I am going to give her another week and will then give her a call to say hi. That will be a month since we broke up & last had contact.

I am going to ring her & suggest we catch up. When we meet I am not going to mention anything negative e.g. depression or our break-up but just see how she is.

I will keep it short as well, no more than a couple of hours and then ring her a few days after and suggest we do something again. Funnily enough, she said when we broke up that she would like to see me "when I'm ready" so it's probably a case of taking things slowly!!?

Any tips?

2007-02-28 22:55:12 · 14 answers · asked by bepositive1976 1 in Singles & Dating

hi i am 28 years old girl living with my boyfriend for over 2 years, i work full time, i enjoy living with my boyfriend as we love each other very much, i also enjoy my work, travelling around the world is something i try to do as much as possilbe. Recently i found myself kind of determined NOT to ever get married, only 'live in' with my boyfriend, if heaven forbid, we become seperate one day, i will find another man and live together without marriage, why am i thinking like this? i am just so happy to live the life i have, i really don't want to EVER get married, am i normal?

2007-02-28 22:54:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce