Family & Relationships - 28 February 2007

How to know there not abusers???

2007-02-28 22:27:45 · 8 answers · asked by baby_mother_dj 1 in Singles & Dating

even if they dont know it before hand. Is it something in the girls atitude?

2007-02-28 22:27:16 · 13 answers · asked by SAgirl 5 in Singles & Dating

recently i have noticed that she is not bothered about anything at home. most of the time office work is her priority inspite of having 2 small (3 years & 1.5 years) who frequently fall ill. sex is avoided with intelligent excuses. is she cheating on me or am i suspecting unnecessary?

2007-02-28 22:26:47 · 17 answers · asked by adityaganesh 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my q is about his feelings.

2007-02-28 22:25:48 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How did you feel after all about it? Was it cool/delightful, scary, or rather regretful? Was it with someone ur age or much older? I am doing some research on this and would very much appreciate your candid input/answers.

2007-02-28 22:24:30 · 20 answers · asked by romeo 1 in Singles & Dating

nearly every man iv been with has cheated on me. im attratctive, easy goin and dont put a leash on them so why do they do it. if u r one of these men id really appreciate your input as to why u feel the need to do it?

2007-02-28 22:20:25 · 14 answers · asked by kate 1 in Singles & Dating

i am meet a one girl in internet. when is see her picture. i see her in all girl. i look dreams her. i am in love?

2007-02-28 22:19:36 · 15 answers · asked by Prince of Love 2 in Singles & Dating

I earn good money, am quite ambitious and did well at uni. My boyfriend also did well at uni, but he did art. He is 7 yars older than me, I am only 23.
I pay for eveything for him, shopping, cover a fair amount of his ent, train tickets, travel, holidays, food.
I am strugglin with money now and it is a massive problem.
He has no concept of mony, it does not bother him, he is not stressed by it. His parents give him money also.
He does have a job but artists virtually earn zero.
I do love him, more than anyone, ever, but I am wondering if the practical side of money means that we are doomed.
I have lost a lot of confidence I think, I am always a stresshead about money nowadays and it's not a cool look for me. I have increasingly become paranoid about his ex-girlfriends and how they seemed more care-free and I just seem like a nag about money :-(

2007-02-28 22:18:36 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is it so much to ask for a man who doesn't cheat on you! if theres anyone out there feel free to get in touch!

2007-02-28 22:18:28 · 26 answers · asked by kate 1 in Singles & Dating

Love per month.
I am told between 15 to 40 times per month.

What do you think and please if you can Keep It Clean.

We currently make love about 50/70 times per month

2007-02-28 22:17:47 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-28 22:17:41 · 9 answers · asked by POOH BEAR 1 in Marriage & Divorce

do you bleed for long? and is it pain just for duration or the next day too?

2007-02-28 22:15:14 · 18 answers · asked by pretty_pink 1 in Singles & Dating

What does it feel when the girl you desire busted you out, she refuses to be with you and she does like handsome and rich persons,

will you still get her heart and be with her, I experienced it,

when you are fantasizing, it will not came true, she will refuse
do you still carry on to the girl you desire on of almost 6 months?

2007-02-28 22:13:50 · 3 answers · asked by VC 1 in Singles & Dating

Ever seen something that you can't explain or felt something near you but nothing is there..........Whoooo! how Scary is this one........dont have nightmares...........................

2007-02-28 22:11:29 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-28 22:09:39 · 13 answers · asked by mrugz 1 in Friends

my wife is very innocent and she loved me a lot. before our marriage i hav visited prostitute girls please help me out because i am afraid that if she get to know by someone else than what, some of my friends knows all this thing and now we had a cold war between us(me and my friends)

2007-02-28 22:08:39 · 32 answers · asked by ravi r 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I love a gal.I am confused about her. Sometime she behaves like she is caring but sometime she show no any interest. I proposed her. She didn't give any answer.
If any person is not interested in love affair then should I try to convince her or if yes then up to what extent?

2007-02-28 22:06:46 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

anyone wanna give me some sympathy or cheer me up.....:0( x x x

2007-02-28 22:06:38 · 21 answers · asked by Dolly 5 in Singles & Dating

hi my gf got back with me last week, and i was so happy. and now her nans ill and her step dad and mother are on the verge of splitting. what do i do to help my gf ? i start getting upset and arguing cos my gf cant find to see me and she says she finds it hard to find to time to meet meat the me cos of the problems at home! what can i do to support my gf i like her to bits and i dont wanna ever lose her again. also i feel as if tho she maybe taking me for a ride because she is supposed to go out with her work mates on friday night and no time for me ? what should i do, if she goes with her work mates on friday ? should i qustion her ? please help each time i ring her i end up arguing with her saying why she not meet me or owt. please help on what i could do

2007-02-28 22:03:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I think is because girls they like to play hard to get or not there type. Is not like I am ugly & lots of girls say that I am cute & sweet. I am confuse. Any advise guys?

2007-02-28 22:03:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This makes me really uncomfortable and I don't know why. I think it's coz most of my friends are single at the moment, and the ones who aren'ts bfs arent all over them at lunch! I would really be fine with being with him this way...if we were alone, but we never are at school and i can't see him outside of school really coz of my mum. help! and no, im not some little 12 yr old kid or something!

2007-02-28 22:02:17 · 4 answers · asked by Bambi 2 in Singles & Dating

My MIL (mother in law) is about 72, lives on her own in Dublin. I have been married almost four years, I feel her hobby is us which is now getting very dull and I would prefer if she played a game of cards, she doesn't drive, so my husband all the time to drive her places and meet her for lunch. would prefer if she played golf or something?

2007-02-28 22:01:22 · 16 answers · asked by sunflower 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, there's this guy I like, and his reactions have been positive towards my advances. We've enjoyed meeting up and last weekend we went on a date and that went well too.

Thing is, I've been the one to organise all these meetings, and he doesn't initiate contact. He's keen enough to meet me and talk to me and stuff, but I'm the one who's doing all the work!

It's probably his personality, because even though he's really good looking, intelligent, and generally a nice guy, apparently he hasn't had much luck with relationships. Like one long-term and only a few short-term I think he said.

Anyway I'm thinking it's too one-sided with me putting in all this effort. But I think if I have one more meeting I'd be able to have some real fun, like without the clothes.

Should I arrange another meeting and then stop? Should I stop now? Do you think if I stop he will start to arrange things instead?

I haven't heard from him since the date last weekend. I'm 21, he's 22.

2007-02-28 22:00:28 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why does she tell me to come in the backdoor? Why can't I just use the front? Sometimes I like to ring the doorbell.

Is there a hidden meaning to 'backdoor'?

2007-02-28 21:56:15 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ya how?? He sends me mixed signals and i'm unsure but i'm afraid to let the oppurtunity slip...

What he did (in random order)
-Stares/looks in my direction
-sometimes turn back if i'm behind him for i dunno what though
-blushed once and mumbled when he thanked me for a gift i got him and was really fidgety too
-thanked me for a gift i got him more than once
-replied my smses though not all
-never gave me emial when i asked him for it
-preened himself in front of me once
-tried to look handsome when he smiled at me once ( i guess...from the way he acted)
- i dunno abt this but i was wearing a top once and he was like standing there, eyes were prolly on my chest area (though i'm nt too sure if he was looking at my neckalce or THE THING)
-smiles whenever we say hi











SO WHATCHA THInk?? Should i tell him or not?

2007-02-28 21:54:02 · 13 answers · asked by Clemence 3 in Singles & Dating

He was my boyfreind for a year.

It wasnt intimate realtionship. he used to work night shift, and i did day shift.
everytime we met he was tired. and i couldnt meet him at night as i wasnt allowed out after11pm, as i lived with my parents. and i was 20yrs old that time.

(yes i know, 20yrs old and not allowed till late is pathetic, but i understand why parents did this)

yeh so anyway,
i was to afraid to dump him, as i was scared how he will react.

i didnt have a mobile phone with me at that time so i got my freind to tell him that i moved town!! (omg, dont beleive i did this)

Freind said he took it well, as it wasnt going to work out anyway.

About month later, we bumped into the street. I coulnt cross the road or hide as it was too obvious he seen me and i seen him face to face.
and my heart was pounding with embarrassment and shame, as i didnt know what to say to him.

we totally ignored each other, as if we didnt know each other at all

2007-02-28 21:53:58 · 5 answers · asked by Rosy 4 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is a widow and has too kids, i met him when he lost his wife, then things are not in good shape. but each time he wants me to always be around him. and now am facing fianaicial problems he doesn't hav to give. he is always talking about marriage but yet there is no money. so my fear is that if i end up marrying him what will happen about fianacial problems.

2007-02-28 21:53:49 · 6 answers · asked by Ema Ema lee 1 in Singles & Dating

Relationship is falling apart, what does it mean when a guy is distant, cold, not affectionate, he says he loves me but it's he just doesnt treat me the same as it used to be. All I do is try to be good to him & treat him how I'd like to be treated. Maybe I should let him go, but why is it so hard? Is this what happeneds after you've been with someone for a few years? No?

2007-02-28 21:53:21 · 6 answers · asked by idk 3 in Singles & Dating

Before he got to this country he had a girl he was dating.he isnt going back anytime soon. He loves me but wldnt tell his ex in his country that hes got another girl.
Shld i remain with him or leave

2007-02-28 21:53:21 · 10 answers · asked by Saon 1 in Singles & Dating

ok..here's the story...there was a boy.let say, i just call him as 'xy'.it began from last year..mid year i guest.he is the boy from next class.my boy classmates said xy likes me..well,i dont care bout it much so i just ignored it,maybe it was some stupid joke but later xy kept smiling at me or saying hi nearly everytime he saw me and sumtimes stared at me..and then he said yes..he even asked me for my phone number..most last year's everynight he sent gudnight message..
and then,this year..we are in the same class..sumtime he always stared at me.my friend also realised that..but his friends said he was already had a gf..lol.and then why did he still kept smiling at me.when i was going home ,sumtimes he will say gudbye..in fact his gf was in the same class of us *but i dont know his gf* ..dont he think his gf would be jealous..??
for all of ya information, he has many fans..he is quite cute.lol.im gonna be mad if this keep happening.aargh!!

2007-02-28 21:51:48 · 3 answers · asked by emmy_vanilla 2 in Singles & Dating