My boyfriend is a widow and has too kids, i met him when he lost his wife, then things are not in good shape. but each time he wants me to always be around him. and now am facing fianaicial problems he doesn't hav to give. he is always talking about marriage but yet there is no money. so my fear is that if i end up marrying him what will happen about fianacial problems.
2007-02-28 21:53:49 · 6 answers · asked by Ema Ema lee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Since both of you of have kids, I would think its better that u wait until your financial situations improve a little bit before jumping into a commitment.
Ask any married couples and they will tell u that money is always a big issue btw them.
Good Luck
2007-02-28 22:06:52 · answer #1 · answered by loves_nature 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes, you are not a native to this land are you? well my wife was not either when i married her 21 years ago. I did have two ex wives and a couple of children that I had to pay child support for.
When she came to the U.S. she had to pay her own air ticket and that was not cheap...she also found out we lived in a mobile home and she never seen one in her country before..surprise. I guess she thought all americans are rich or had money but she could not believe she had more money then me...well,in america divorces and kids cost a lot.
I can't have no more kids so she was never married before with of course no children and we have been married 21 years and now she is 55 and I am 62 but we have a nice home paid for and no bills thanks to her thrifty ways.
It is not easy when the man has no money. You will have to either pitch in and do without or just get a more stable man with a better income and does not have debts hanging over your head.
Its not easy to find a good mate as the men with money sometimes are not kind and generous either...marriage is a gamble so keep a nest egg hidden from your man in case you might have to escape from a life you do not want to live. My wife kept $5,000 dollars hid from me in the closet before she trusted me enough to put it in our bank account...beware
P.s. Also..get him to make a will protecting you in case he dies or his children and family could take everything you both have worked for ...yes even your money too if you can't prove it!
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2007-02-28 22:10:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need a sugardaddy to be a whore for. That way all your fiancial needs are met and leave the real men alone !!!
2007-02-28 22:00:39 · answer #3 · answered by quiet times 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If all you think about is money marry a rich guy, problem solved.
2007-02-28 22:03:00 · answer #4 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
obviously you are a foreigner. this would explain the mis-spellings and grammar problems.
too kids? lol
you're funny
2007-02-28 21:58:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
So you're both broke, why not be broke together? But please, learn to use spell check
2007-02-28 21:59:08 · answer #6 · answered by Steel 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋