do you bleed for long? and is it pain just for duration or the next day too?
2007-02-28 22:15:14 · 18 answers · asked by pretty_pink 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I didn't bleed at all. I had quite a lot of pain at the time, but after that it was more like a dull ache. Kind of like a headache. It went away after about 24 hours. But the first few times are painful, not just that once.
And if you can manage it, make sure you're with a guy who's going to be gentle and get it over and done with as quick as possible. Like a bandaid! The guy I was with was trying to put on a great show for me since he knew it was my first time, and he lasted over and hour. An hour of hideous pain! I would have much preferred 5 minutes in one position.
Don't worry too much, just make sure that you're really really ready and you're happy to share this moment with the guy you've chosen. You only get to do it once, so choose wisely!
Good luck.
2007-02-28 22:28:35 · answer #1 · answered by Snow White 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The first time for me did hurt but i did not bleed, It depends on the person...Dont take note of some of the stupid answers that was given to you. Discuss with your partner to take it easy and be gentle..it is usually not sore the next day but could be a little uncomfortable the second time. Just take it very easy and dont rush..It is the most amazing experience that should be enjoyed..!
2007-02-28 22:43:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes u bleed other times not, but as far as the info i know, if u do bleed its like for 2days, the pain subsides 1-5days, &sometimes there is no pain at all.
these things differs from one women to the other, and the manner in which u had sex, hard, slow etc etc
2007-02-28 22:34:20 · answer #3 · answered by Phoenix21 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is different for everyone. And your first time size really does matter. When youre a virgin the smaller the better. Believe me. I cried my first time it hurt so bad. I only bled for the day after, but it was sore for a couple of days.
2007-02-28 22:20:05 · answer #4 · answered by Crystal D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most people don't bleed and it depends how big he is if it will b painful or not. but if u are a bit sore it shouldn't last to long. your first time should me great please don't rush in to any think. and have regrets like so meany of us xx
2007-02-28 22:49:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nt every1 bleeds- if u do then it wont hurt 4 long n girls dnt bleed 4 long
the more u relax, the less it will hurt
xxx
2007-03-02 08:09:55 · answer #6 · answered by pixiexxpixiexpixie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey! You better go and get checked out by a doctor. No it should not be that way. Maybe he's too big for you or not using enough KY lube.
2007-03-02 23:53:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, you seem to have a vague question. are you referring to first time experience in sex? are u a boy or girl?. and wahst ur age?
it differs... and please, if you only ask out of curiousity , divert your mind into other productive things. your proper time for this matter will come, take this as a sisterly advise, sex is not a play, its not a game, ok. you have to be very careful.
2007-02-28 22:29:17 · answer #8 · answered by candee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my 1st time i bled like a normal period, then a little my 2nd, i still wasn't enjoying it until my 5/6th time give it time and the right person will make you feel alot more better
2007-02-28 23:04:20 · answer #9 · answered by pinklinz@btinternet.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first time depends on the women
2007-02-28 22:20:15 · answer #10 · answered by â?¥ Pawya! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋