Ok, there's this guy I like, and his reactions have been positive towards my advances. We've enjoyed meeting up and last weekend we went on a date and that went well too.
Thing is, I've been the one to organise all these meetings, and he doesn't initiate contact. He's keen enough to meet me and talk to me and stuff, but I'm the one who's doing all the work!
It's probably his personality, because even though he's really good looking, intelligent, and generally a nice guy, apparently he hasn't had much luck with relationships. Like one long-term and only a few short-term I think he said.
Anyway I'm thinking it's too one-sided with me putting in all this effort. But I think if I have one more meeting I'd be able to have some real fun, like without the clothes.
Should I arrange another meeting and then stop? Should I stop now? Do you think if I stop he will start to arrange things instead?
I haven't heard from him since the date last weekend. I'm 21, he's 22.
2007-02-28 22:00:28 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Explain to him that you wish he would make an effort to plan dates because you're running out of ideas. Ask him what he wants to do. Tell him you want to be with him but you're just tired of planning all the activities. Give him ideas of what you'd like to do and let him take it from there.
2007-02-28 22:05:56 · answer #1 · answered by Rocky 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Iwould think that a guy would be up for anything casual if you ask me.
2007-03-01 06:36:42 · answer #2 · answered by DiG iT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋