Family & Relationships - 28 February 2007

hi i am 28 years old girl living with my boyfriend for over 2 years, i work full time, i enjoy living with my boyfriend as we love each other very much, i also enjoy my work, travelling around the world is something i try to do as much as possilbe. Recently i found myself kind of determined NOT to ever get married, only 'live in' with my boyfriend, if heaven forbid, we become seperate one day, i will find another man and live together without marriage, why am i thinking like this? i am just so happy to live the life i have, i really don't want to EVER get married, am i normal?

2007-02-28 22:50:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Me and my wife have a good relationship but the one thing that is wrong is i keep beating her. People tell me i shouldnt because it gets her down and depressed but thats how i was brought up. My dad always beat my mum but she didnt really care and found it quite amusing in the end. It was sort of the in-joke around the family. When would my dad beat my mum next? I was raised with the male being dominant and thats how i now think.

Its not because i dont love my wife, i do more than anything, its just i get a buzz out of beating her. I know that sounds bad but like i say thats how i was raised. She has been complaining to my friends and also to her family who think i should stop as its getting her down, i dont think im really doing anything wrong?

I would like your opinions please as to whether i should stop? Its normally when we play board games. Should i let her win once in a while or carry on beating her? Its not my fault if im better than her.

2007-02-28 22:50:21 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i ha got big boos and have a curvy figure but all the guys in my class tease me abt it and make jokes behind my back. it really hurts.
like one of them is milk pouring out of my boobs
HELP ME

2007-02-28 22:49:55 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

In a month i;ll have been with my boyfriend for a year...what's a really great present or suprise idea? I need help...I have no idea what to do for him :)

2007-02-28 22:49:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

And what's your job? In which country?

2007-02-28 22:48:31 · 18 answers · asked by Lilliana 5 in Family

I hear a lot of men saying that women are only good for one thing.....why do they say that?

2007-02-28 22:48:03 · 5 answers · asked by Curious Girl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

About two months ago I woke up having a huge anxiety attack aswell as depression to go along with that. The thought that I woke up with was that "What if I have fallen out of love with John (my current boyfriend)" The thought scared me to death and slowly my feelings came back. I went from hating him one day to loving him the next...back and forth for about 2 months.

So all in all I am wondering if what I am having anxiety because I HAVE fallen out of love. Am I convincing myself that I love him...I almost feel like I have someone telling me "no you dont love him" I dont know what to do. It is ruining my end of the relationship. I still love spending time with him and love doing nice things for him. We are affectionate and laugh alot together.
Although, my relationship before this one was drama filled tied in with a bit of abuse, emotionally and physically I am very scared to see my ex around town because I dont feel as though I have enough self control to tell him that I dont want to be with him. I think of him often not only of good things but bad too and I guess I am just waiting for the day that it really doesnt bother me to see him anymore....

I want to be with John forever and it will kill me to have to end things with him. Keep in mind this is my 1st non dramatic relationship and it is a "healthy" relationship. My friends say I am most myself when I am around him. So I dont know what to think about it, how do I know if I am convincing myself or not, how do I know if I am just doing this for my family and friends?
Thanks
Sincerely,
So confused

2007-02-28 22:47:59 · 5 answers · asked by dawson190154 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have an ex girlfriend who i was with for three years and i am no longer in love with her but i do still love her. And i know she feels the same but the thing is we had a nasty breakup, but i have moved on and im with different girls but i still seem to always think about her and dreams about her. Is this normal. I mean is she going throught this too. Please give me some answers, but only from people who has experienced this before.

2007-02-28 22:47:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-28 22:45:55 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

well,we have been going out for the last 5 months and he dosent really give me money and am not working at the moment.he told me half the amount of what he really earns.what should i do?

2007-02-28 22:44:41 · 14 answers · asked by hunnyphyll 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been divorced for just over three months, been seperated for over a year. My husband is now dating a younger girl (she is 18, he turns 23 on Friday) but we still talk often. I still love him very much and I know it sounds like I'm in denial (and yeah, I know to a point I am) but I know sometime we will get back together. We're just friends now and I'm fine with that. Should I send him a card? Would it be inappropriate? I'll go either way, I just would have to send it today to get it there on time, haha. I just dont want him to think I'm the crazy stalker girl I have been in the past...

2007-02-28 22:44:37 · 28 answers · asked by Laura 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Guys I really want your answer on this. Beautiful, good women can answer too.

2007-02-28 22:42:51 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-28 22:40:35 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 13 and i like to guys at the same time both homeschooled like me one 15 or 16 the other 16. one is my ex and the other one i go to church with. what should i do?

2007-02-28 22:40:14 · 8 answers · asked by Home_Schooled_Girl 1 in Singles & Dating

Alice was sitting in her car waiting for her mother to come out. Instead she saw this male neighbour came out from his house. He walked stiffly like he sensed Alice was looking at him, but he pretended he did not see Alice. Alice knew he was pretending because, when he arrived at the corner of the path, he suddenly looked back into Alice's car!

1 Do you think he came out to let Alice see him, because he knew she would look that direction when waiting for her mother? and judging by so stiffly he walked?

2 Why would he pretend that he did not see Alice? Why didn't he just say hello or wave at her? They have always been friendly neighbours for each other.

2007-02-28 22:40:05 · 1 answers · asked by jody 1 in Singles & Dating

She is cute & good person to hang out with.

2007-02-28 22:39:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-28 22:39:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He asked if he would ever regret being with me?
i adore him but he doesnt know about it.

2007-02-28 22:39:08 · 5 answers · asked by Nonso 1 in Friends

2007-02-28 22:37:55 · 12 answers · asked by GB 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-28 22:37:50 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

To be honest, I don't want to know what people do in bed, who they do it with and how good it was. Personally, I think it's rather bad taste to announce your sex life to everyone but so many people do it.
Why exactly do people have no shame?

2007-02-28 22:37:31 · 23 answers · asked by Kaj 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

A lot of women want their man to make a decent living, but get snippy when he's called away to work unexpectedly, has less time than he used to, or is too tired to be romantic after work. What is the thought process behind this particular unreasonable demand?

2007-02-28 22:36:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Would you forgive your husband if he cheated on you? My husband told me that he is not that type of person before we were married. It's been 3years and 5months that we hav e been married. And in this time, last year we were apart for a few months because he had issues.....I came back and he admitted to me that he cheated on me because he was lonely and that he did a stupid thing and that he only hurted himself wanting to get back at me by hurting me. He thought we our relationship was over. Arrrgh, what an idiot he is. I dont have any anger management issues and i'm not the revenge type. Obviously i am upset and hurt about it. He asked me me what he can do to reverse what he did and if i could ever forgive him. Should i forgive him ?

2007-02-28 22:35:50 · 55 answers · asked by mam.cyborg 2 in Marriage & Divorce

some girl on a forum me and my bf use claims she my bfs online gf and he says he only ever spoke to her once and she like 5 years younger than him and from a different country. he says he gona have a word with her because he dont want **** like that on the net when he loves me not her should i believe him

2007-02-28 22:35:23 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am from Dubai, wants to talk to u, I like ur acting very much
May God bless u

2007-02-28 22:33:41 · 4 answers · asked by Soha D 1 in Friends

I have been seeing a guy casually for about 7 weeks dating officially for two. Over the last few weeks he has been really distant. The first time he cancelled on me he said that it was coz he didnt want to stuff things up. Then he was fine last week and this week when i asked him about doing something he said that he would have to see coz work has been stressing him. He wont talk to me about work coz he says he cant. Im starting to feel lost as i want to help him but im starting to feel like more of a hinderance than a help. My friends say to relax and let him be coz he hasnt really done anything wrong and he told me to stop worrying but its hard when he wont talk to me.

2007-02-28 22:32:53 · 22 answers · asked by dragonfly_princess_72 1 in Singles & Dating

Whay would you want for mothers day from your 17 year old daughter. I'm really struggling as my mum is very hard to buy for, and i wanna get her something really nice cos she's good to me!

2007-02-28 22:31:07 · 18 answers · asked by **Missy** 3 in Friends

I'm becoming 18 years old and this friend of mine is becoming 20..do you think there's a problem?

2007-02-28 22:30:44 · 24 answers · asked by Alex G 2 in Friends

2007-02-28 22:28:42 · 20 answers · asked by original bad boy 3 in Singles & Dating

...that are my boyfriends. Is it weird to keep this stuff?

2007-02-28 22:28:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating