Me and my wife have a good relationship but the one thing that is wrong is i keep beating her. People tell me i shouldnt because it gets her down and depressed but thats how i was brought up. My dad always beat my mum but she didnt really care and found it quite amusing in the end. It was sort of the in-joke around the family. When would my dad beat my mum next? I was raised with the male being dominant and thats how i now think.
Its not because i dont love my wife, i do more than anything, its just i get a buzz out of beating her. I know that sounds bad but like i say thats how i was raised. She has been complaining to my friends and also to her family who think i should stop as its getting her down, i dont think im really doing anything wrong?
I would like your opinions please as to whether i should stop? Its normally when we play board games. Should i let her win once in a while or carry on beating her? Its not my fault if im better than her.
2007-02-28 22:50:21 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You should let her win sometimes....
2007-02-28 22:55:36 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 19⤊ 2⤋
A very clever question. Some of the answers prove that a lot of people answer questions before they have read the whole thing. Rather like the man who was offered a £1 per week pay rise and accepted it. The alternative was a £2 per tax cut.. As to the question itself, try letting her win occasionally, you may have a promise that night.
2007-03-03 16:08:38 · answer #2 · answered by Tony A 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"I would like your opinions please as to whether i should stop? Its normally when we play board games. Should i let her win once in a while or carry on beating her? Its not my fault if im better than her. "
LOL
This will be a true test to how fast people judge something. hehe
By the way... a true gentleman should let a ladie win once in a while...
2007-02-28 23:21:42 · answer #3 · answered by night 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Is this a wind up? - If you are being serious then she should not play with you if she knows you are going to win all the time, that would prevent her from getting depressed. I am sure she could find another way of entertaining herself, then that would leave you to find someone else to beat. Perhaps YOU might get beaten then.
2007-03-01 04:00:26 · answer #4 · answered by bundle 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Funny
for some reason I’ve got an image of some one hitting me every time I roll the dice!
Very funny
2007-03-02 15:58:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOL Yes continue to beat your wife, but only at board games!
2007-03-01 08:02:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
Hey Mark, you got me going then, I was about to give you hell : )
till i read the very bottom piece of your question.
You carry on beating your wife (At games) unless you`re feelling generous once in a while.
2007-02-28 22:58:26 · answer #7 · answered by Tatty 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
phew - you were in the firing line for some pretty hefty abuse there. he he.
what a wind up.
you should let her win once in a while for her self esteeme - but only do it every now and then - you dont want her getting too big headed. he he.
2007-03-01 00:37:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol very good im so glad i read it till the end no dont let her win let her man up and get some skills
2007-03-01 00:27:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Great stuff. I can honestly say I hate the ultra-serious people who have replied to this because they're having a defensive emotional reaction to the subject.
What's wrong with them? Do they think they're validating themselves by subscribing to some spurious moral code?
2007-02-28 23:02:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
It never fails to amaze me that so many people cannot understand a question. They fixate on one thing and totally miss the point. Carry on beating her, she probably wins in every other department.
2007-02-28 23:00:53 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 13⤊ 0⤋